Topic: where has it gone?
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Tue 12/11/12 08:29 AM
Been married for 8 years and just wondering why all of a sudden once you get married all of the the love making stops. Where did it go?

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Tue 12/11/12 08:33 AM
well maybe she's pissed cos you're on a dating site....just a thought..

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Tue 12/11/12 08:46 AM

well maybe she's pissed cos you're on a dating site....just a thought..


rofl

neha143's photo
Tue 12/11/12 08:53 AM
good one manofewwords dude lolz :angel: winking

JohnFDiss's photo
Tue 12/11/12 09:02 AM
Maybe it's because you're not putting the effort in. Maybe she's bored with you. Maybe she'd like something different.

One thing is for sure, you might find a better answer from your partner than a bunch of random strangers.

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Tue 12/11/12 09:05 AM

Maybe it's because you're not putting the effort in. Maybe she's bored with you. Maybe she'd like something different.

One thing is for sure, you might find a better answer from your partner than a bunch of random strangers on a dating site


Fixed it for you John!bigsmile




Muaness's photo
Tue 12/11/12 09:07 AM
Beyond my scope...

lilott's photo
Tue 12/11/12 10:26 AM
It's because of signing that piece of paper.

TexasScoundrel's photo
Tue 12/11/12 10:29 AM
It's a bait and switch. Women give you all kinds of great sex until she has you on that leash. Then sex becomes a bargaining chip to get you to do what she wants.

Men get married wanting things to stay the same. Women get married wanting things to change.

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Tue 12/11/12 10:47 AM


Maybe it's because you're not putting the effort in. Maybe she's bored with you. Maybe she'd like something different.

One thing is for sure, you might find a better answer from your partner than a bunch of random strangers on a dating site


Fixed it for you John!bigsmile






Much obliged Leigh. Thank you. ;)

willing2's photo
Tue 12/11/12 10:57 AM
Maybe someone on another dating site is doing her





























right?smokin

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Tue 12/11/12 11:04 AM

Maybe someone on another dating site is doing her





























right?smokin


Good possibility....smokin

msharmony's photo
Tue 12/11/12 11:25 AM
Edited by msharmony on Tue 12/11/12 11:27 AM
women are human, not blow up dolls

I dont know your personal details, but things like added responsibility (cooking and cleaning for more than one,,,,), maintaining the job if they work, trying to maintain their appearance between the job and the home,,,can make a woman,,,TIRED


sometimes the guy stops feeling like pulling out the bells and whistles once he has 'snagged' the woman too,,,

sometimes the effort put in by their partner to alleviate some of that sudden EXTRA expectation, motivates her to continue with 'great sex'

otherwise, it starts feeling like something EXPECTED along with all the other expectations and its no longer so 'great' for her,,,,

my dad said,,,whatever you do to attract them, you need to KEEP doing to maintain that attraction

often men and women dont feel the need to continue courtship behavior once they are married, and thats a shame, and often why they loose that 'spark'

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Tue 12/11/12 11:46 AM

well maybe she's pissed cos you're on a dating site....just a thought..


laugh laugh

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Tue 12/11/12 05:36 PM
Just a friendly reminder to all. Please do not attack other members and to remind all this site is not strictly a dating site. This site is considered a Dating/Social Site. Many of those here are only here for friends and with someone or married and like to drop in from time to time.

Therefore please be considerate to others when asking a question. Either answer it or move on..

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navygirl's photo
Sun 12/16/12 06:59 PM

well maybe she's pissed cos you're on a dating site....just a thought..


:thumbsup:


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Sun 12/16/12 07:00 PM
Edited by navygirl on Sun 12/16/12 07:01 PM

women are human, not blow up dolls

I dont know your personal details, but things like added responsibility (cooking and cleaning for more than one,,,,), maintaining the job if they work, trying to maintain their appearance between the job and the home,,,can make a woman,,,TIRED


sometimes the guy stops feeling like pulling out the bells and whistles once he has 'snagged' the woman too,,,

sometimes the effort put in by their partner to alleviate some of that sudden EXTRA expectation, motivates her to continue with 'great sex'

otherwise, it starts feeling like something EXPECTED along with all the other expectations and its no longer so 'great' for her,,,,

my dad said,,,whatever you do to attract them, you need to KEEP doing to maintain that attraction

often men and women dont feel the need to continue courtship behavior once they are married, and thats a shame, and often why they loose that 'spark'


Makes sense to me. :thumbsup: