that right, like the Eagles sing "she can't take you anywhere you don't want to go" you don't like being 'taken" for your money well here let me call you a cab and shut the door on your way out..........

Hi, I live in a largely Brit, expat community in southern Spain, where are many divorced or widowed women. Because of their status, most are in reduced circumstances. Meeting one of them is like perverted speed dating.....what do you have, villa or apartment?....your pension, private or state?...do you have a car? what make and model? and so it goes on, they have down to a fine art, interrogation could last as long as thirty seconds. if you dont tick enough boxes, they are up and on their way.
As to sex, well at 65, I still want a physical relationship of some description, I still want to at least feel the warmth of a women's body lying beside me. And those casual touches as you go through the day. Alas, Most women, if they are honest, from 55, take sex as a chore not a pleasure. If I want a physical relationship which continues to my early 70s then I will have to look for someone in her 40s, In other words someone my daughters age. A fact of life.

Your experience parallels mine. I would even put it as low as age 50 when women start looking for security in a relationship. I believe they are afraid and are looking for a leeward port.

I can't get the younger ones to go out with me, so, don't have an answer(other than pay for the relationship).

Is it my age? or am I the only one that makes a distinction between "making Love" and having Sex?

Here in Spain, 40 euros buys half an hour with a 19 year old Lithuanian. 400 euros a month and "all found" pays for an all services rendered, Ukrainian. There are even agencies, where if I was prepared to get married and stay married for a minimum of 3 years, I could have the company of a Polish, Czech or Hungarian with a university education and a need for an employment visa. In which case THEY would pay me!

Its all there. It doesn't suit my personal morality. But thats my choice. I'm still waiting for "Love"....whatever that is!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_5IVuN1N6-Y

You know I was thinking the same thing that it would seem that most people don't know how to make the distinction between making love and having sex.

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Kik gonna stay out of THIS one !



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Well I sure know the difference geesh really is it that bad

But give me love

. Yes I always hope to stay young at heart I like that kid inside of me never been stuck up. yet have a good sense of valves.some women it is really about survival and keeping a roof over there head. But most really want love some day. I do believe some have a harding of the heart a place I don't want to be. Might not of gotten hurt as much if I had it but seem to take away from the joys of life. Let. Go and let god people who do wrong to others will have it come back on them one day don't let it make you bitter.

If a woman is looking at sex as a chore it could be that either her partner is not pleasing her or that her partner is not pulling his weight in the household chores and she is damn beat. About the only time I ever said no to sex with a guy is when he did nothing but drink. Didn't work, didn't do housework, renos, or yardwork. So; yes I was damn beat and in no mood for sex. Also as we age; our libos slow down. I know men in their late 50s that have absolutely no desire for sex at all where as other men like sex well into their 70s. Loss of libido, health problems, stress, etc are but a few reasons that one loses their desire for sex. Don't get me wrong; I enjoy sex and like it two or three times a day but the reality is its harder for men as they age to get an erection shortly after they have had sex without the use of pills but I am also am not so selfish that I can't appreciate the person for their other qualities. That is where respect for that person comes in as I wouldn't treat a man like he was just a piece of meat.

Women are Never too old for sex!

I agree with most of what Navygirl is saying, however, I think as we age many of us enjoy sex more because there are no kids to interrupt or wake you and you are not exhausted from working and taking care of the family all day. In younger days I might have thought as sex as a chore because it was something else on the list "that I had to do." There was not much cooperation from my other half in dealing with the kids and household chores.

I forgot to mention, I would never leave my spouse because they were impotent, that is only a part of a relationship. There are other ways in pleasing your mate other than sexually.

I might - depending on other factors TBH

One thing I know, and see reflected on here is that there does tend to be sexual tension in the 40+ crowd between males and females.

At about age 40 a woman's libido will out pace a man's (who usually has his libido peak in his 20s or early thirties) so life is unfair and not parallel. How a couple handles these changes is very important. If a woman is not aware that her 45+ partner will gradually need more time to be erect, she may begin to believe that her spouse is no longer attracted and possibly lose her desire or look elsewhere thinking she's not wanted.

or if she is unkind about his sexual changes as he ages he may lose interest and look elsewhere

a woman's libido remains strong after her peak years indefintely unless there are medications or health issues to affect it. So men who say they have to look younger to find a woman with a libido are untruthful or lack basic biology....in those cases, there are most likely other factors that are causing issues between them as a woman will not desire a man who she has unpleasantness with regardless of the strength of her libido otherwise

I think it's women's stronger libidos as the couples age that cause more problems

men whe nu complain about a woman's lack of libido it's an advertisement that you are not turning her on....

Improper nutrition can have a huge affect on both sex's ability to preform. Take proper care of your body & it can be QUITE amazing.

True! Especially Men.

I agree

I thought I had a few better points than just taking your money

You must not have met any Older Active women in your life.

Most Old men want and desire a Young woman, if they can handle one, that is nothing new.