Ok if any one can help with this.I would appreciate it.I've only been on this site alittle over two months.But form day one a certain guy stood out.Not only did I find him handsome.But he seems to have a good heart,and good views on life.We really do not know each other well.And please don't say email him.I'm way to shy for that.I guess I am still alittle old fashion.I know it's the 20th century and women ask guys out or call them all the time.But that's just me.So what are your thoughts or do you think it's a lost cause.I can't even believe I'm posting this for all to see.So I am getting over the shyness alittle.

well good for you for posting it its a good start


what about sending him an IM and talking on there for a little while? would that work?

have you talked to him in the forums, maybe flirt a little, that always helps

You know about the new mutual match feature on the site right?
That would at least be a way to find out if he's interested in you too.

Hey there, pkh!

I agree with Claudette. Send an IM or email, talk a little about yourself and get to know him better. You set the pace, don't do anything you're not comfortable with, and just open your heart to the possibilities, darlin'! Most importantly, be safe...but have fun! Let him see the real you...he'll be a goner in no time!!

it dont matter if ur old skool or not.if u like some one u have to let them no.and in order for him to no.u have to let him find out one way or another and it doesnt matter how u do it.as long as u do it, and get somewhere with the relationship.

Oh cripes I thought it was the 21st century.. Did I time warp? sonofabeach!

pkh I'm sorry but you must have me confused with somebody else.....

ok serious....What do you have to lose take a risk email him...You know We men do like getting mail...

the making the first move is long over....

sitting out on the edge is not being in the game live a little
You just may be surprised.

I don't know what century this is either but PKH needs to let the poor guy know something ...maybe through a friend on here to drop a hint or just send him a little Hi...what's up! note just to break the ice!!

I really do appreciate the advice.I did the mutual match,and clicked on maybe for a few.They all came back as a match.But not his.So for sure I won't email now.I know what century it is and I really am getting better.So maybe I'll try alittle flirting in the forums.Thanks to you all.Pretty sad huh 50yrs. old and afraid to make the first move.

It's not sad at all...You just don't want rejection. It blows the whole thing out of the water and makes you sad. Love is a risky business. Take a chance or lose anyway! The more you try...the more the odds turn in your favor. Stick your toe in the water and then just dive in and have fun!

Ok, Lakeman I will take your advice.I won't know unless I try.

well there is no harm in saying a quick hi in an email

you've got to break the ice with a nice little hello. come on girl, put the bait out there and see if this fish will bite, im sure he certainly will. good luck

Bite his cyber azzzzzzzzzzzz!!!

Sometimes people are intimidated and feel that they aren't good enough for a certain person. I was told buy a very pretty girl that that she had a problem getting dates because everyone assumed that she was attached because she was sooooo pretty. Small talk can start something that can grow later to something big. If he is the least bit intrigued...he will answer and just talk as a friend.

hey pkh..tell me who it is and i'll email him for you

Damn Gypsy!! Fold them teeth back when you bite!!!

Kater to the res KEWWW!!!