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Topic: The famous 3way setup
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Mon 10/01/12 10:40 AM
A girl i was dating for a little while set me up by saying it was ok for us to have a threesome with one of her friends. I hesitated thinking it was to good to be true. She reassured me she was serious. So me being stupid I picked a friend of hers. bad mistake. A 3 hour arguement then erupted of how it was a test and that i shouldve said she was enough for me. Does this happen to many other people? does it make me the bad guy? Give me some feedback mingle2 people. -blake

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Mon 10/01/12 10:46 AM
ahahahahaha.
she tricked you good!

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Mon 10/01/12 11:10 AM
ouch!

first of all, this lifestyle is not for everyone, many times it ends badly.

secondly, half the blame for the argument rest on her shoulders, as it seems you were led into a trap.

lastly, if I were you I would get to steppin! now!
based on your account of this, (and I am taking your word for it) you are dealing with someone that does not trust you. this may be your fault and it may not be, we have no idea, but either way there is an underlying issue here. not really a foundation for a strong and lasting relationship.

all that said, learn your lesson, never and I mean never agree to this until she (whomever it may be with) brings it up at least 75 times. then and only then you may agree, but strictly as a way to show her that you are willing to help HER explore HER sexuality. it cannot be about you...ever!


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Mon 10/01/12 11:12 AM
Who cares move on. Focus on the positive. Only an insane woman would do this. You are better off.

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Mon 10/01/12 11:18 AM
Playing games and testing people like that are childish ways of dealing with things. You're probably better off without her.

That being said, it's probably best to focus on the relationship you're in, rather than worrying about threesomes.

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Mon 10/01/12 11:20 AM

A girl i was dating for a little while set me up by saying it was ok for us to have a threesome with one of her friends. I hesitated thinking it was to good to be true. She reassured me she was serious. So me being stupid I picked a friend of hers. bad mistake. A 3 hour arguement then erupted of how it was a test and that i shouldve said she was enough for me. Does this happen to many other people? does it make me the bad guy? Give me some feedback mingle2 people. -blake


I HATE it when that happens! noway :tongue:

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Mon 10/01/12 11:24 AM

A girl i was dating for a little while set me up by saying it was ok for us to have a threesome with one of her friends. I hesitated thinking it was to good to be true. She reassured me she was serious. So me being stupid I picked a friend of hers. bad mistake. A 3 hour arguement then erupted of how it was a test and that i shouldve said she was enough for me. Does this happen to many other people? does it make me the bad guy? Give me some feedback mingle2 people. -blake


Never happened to me. I'm not one to play games or put up with non-sense anyway though.

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Mon 10/01/12 11:27 AM
All I can say is waving to her...... That is just stupid on her part to see if you might be interested in one of her friends then want to backlash you for it...Shshhs games not worth the time...slaphead

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Mon 10/01/12 11:38 AM
Goodness, never try a three=way with a significant other only try it with casual partners! There is the three-way induction massage technique among others. I, of course, am just too darn lazy, so this is my technique: date a bisexual woman, encourage her bisexuality, act hurt when she acts on her urges and they generally make it up to you with a three-way.

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Mon 10/01/12 01:23 PM

A girl i was dating for a little while set me up by saying it was ok for us to have a threesome with one of her friends. I hesitated thinking it was to good to be true. She reassured me she was serious. So me being stupid I picked a friend of hers. bad mistake. A 3 hour arguement then erupted of how it was a test and that i shouldve said she was enough for me. Does this happen to many other people? does it make me the bad guy? Give me some feedback mingle2 people. -blake


Tell me what morality standard that you use to determine right from wrong, and I'll tell you whether or not you're the bad guy.

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Mon 10/01/12 02:04 PM

A girl i was dating for a little while set me up by saying it was ok for us to have a threesome with one of her friends. I hesitated thinking it was to good to be true. She reassured me she was serious. So me being stupid I picked a friend of hers. bad mistake. A 3 hour arguement then erupted of how it was a test and that i shouldve said she was enough for me. Does this happen to many other people? does it make me the bad guy? Give me some feedback mingle2 people. -blake


She sounds like an immature, insecure, manipulative biotch to me....You found out early, consider yourself lucky...And keep you guard up...:wink:

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Mon 10/01/12 02:11 PM


A girl i was dating for a little while set me up by saying it was ok for us to have a threesome with one of her friends. I hesitated thinking it was to good to be true. She reassured me she was serious. So me being stupid I picked a friend of hers. bad mistake. A 3 hour arguement then erupted of how it was a test and that i shouldve said she was enough for me. Does this happen to many other people? does it make me the bad guy? Give me some feedback mingle2 people. -blake


She sounds like an immature, insecure, manipulative biotch to me....You found out early, consider yourself lucky...And keep you guard up...:wink:


This x100. Can't stand games. You're a man what did she expect you to do? turn down a 3sum...yeah and what planet does she live on laugh

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Mon 10/01/12 02:14 PM



A girl i was dating for a little while set me up by saying it was ok for us to have a threesome with one of her friends. I hesitated thinking it was to good to be true. She reassured me she was serious. So me being stupid I picked a friend of hers. bad mistake. A 3 hour arguement then erupted of how it was a test and that i shouldve said she was enough for me. Does this happen to many other people? does it make me the bad guy? Give me some feedback mingle2 people. -blake


She sounds like an immature, insecure, manipulative biotch to me....You found out early, consider yourself lucky...And keep you guard up...:wink:


This x100. Can't stand games. You're a man what did she expect you to do? turn down a 3sum...yeah and what planet does she live on laugh


laugh :thumbsup: Exactly...I can't believe he is ever asking the question!...NO, IT DOES NOT MAKE YOU THE BAD GUY!!slaphead

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Mon 10/01/12 02:21 PM
Lunachick alert! Run Forrest Run!

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Mon 10/01/12 02:29 PM
Edited by 42BlackBBW on Mon 10/01/12 02:29 PM




A girl i was dating for a little while set me up by saying it was ok for us to have a threesome with one of her friends. I hesitated thinking it was to good to be true. She reassured me she was serious. So me being stupid I picked a friend of hers. bad mistake. A 3 hour arguement then erupted of how it was a test and that i shouldve said she was enough for me. Does this happen to many other people? does it make me the bad guy? Give me some feedback mingle2 people. -blake


She sounds like an immature, insecure, manipulative biotch to me....You found out early, consider yourself lucky...And keep you guard up...:wink:


This x100. Can't stand games. You're a man what did she expect you to do? turn down a 3sum...yeah and what planet does she live on laugh


laugh :thumbsup: Exactly...I can't believe he is ever asking the question!...NO, IT DOES NOT MAKE YOU THE BAD GUY!!slaphead


Totally agree. You are not the bad guy...you just should have heard "Danger Will Robinson" (lost in space) when she mentioned it laugh

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Mon 10/01/12 03:55 PM
DUDEEEEEEEEEEEEeeeeeeeeeee........


When ya walk headlong into a closed door......

IT HURTS!!!!!!!

slaphead slaphead slaphead

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Mon 10/01/12 04:25 PM
Get your stuff together and run. Run and don't look back.

This chick is untrusting, manipulative, and crazy as a loon.


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Mon 10/01/12 04:39 PM


A girl i was dating for a little while set me up by saying it was ok for us to have a threesome with one of her friends. I hesitated thinking it was to good to be true. She reassured me she was serious. So me being stupid I picked a friend of hers. bad mistake. A 3 hour arguement then erupted of how it was a test and that i shouldve said she was enough for me. Does this happen to many other people? does it make me the bad guy? Give me some feedback mingle2 people. -blake


Tell me what morality standard that you use to determine right from wrong, and I'll tell you whether or not you're the bad guy.


the question was whether or not giving her the answer she was fishing for makes him the bad guy in this situation. that’s very different than judging his moral standard.

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Mon 10/01/12 04:42 PM

A girl i was dating for a little while set me up by saying it was ok for us to have a threesome with one of her friends. I hesitated thinking it was to good to be true. She reassured me she was serious. So me being stupid I picked a friend of hers. bad mistake. A 3 hour arguement then erupted of how it was a test and that i shouldve said she was enough for me. Does this happen to many other people? does it make me the bad guy? Give me some feedback mingle2 people. -blake


You should have done your thinking above the waist and she might have granted you your wishful thinking.:banana: drinker :banana:

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Mon 10/01/12 04:45 PM
Girl: Hey me and me my friend want to bang you
Guy: Stop playing around
Girl: I am serious this is what we want it will be fun
Guy: Alright if you insist
Girl: I hate you its over
Guy: Huh?

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