the colour of my skin is really making things very diffecult for me.i seriously needs to hook up with somebody but no one looks at my side when ever i try to start a conversation cos they all think am a scamer just because am black.is this how life is supose to be?and how long will things continoue like this?

Bro the colour of your skin is really a bad problem.

Mine is, too. I am caucasian, and my skin is white. I am treated the same way as you, because of the colour of my skin: nobody hooks up with me, and people will ignore my hook-up pleas, such as expressions of adoration and liking in their direction.

Furthermore, they consider me a scammer, because I am white, short, fat, old.

Yes, it is a terrible thing to be discriminated because of the colour of skin. We did not ask to be this colour or that colour when we were born. So why do people assume bad things about us, right off the bat, just by looking at us?

I've lived here in this town for three years. I was publically accused five (5!) times with theft since I moved here. Yes, I kid you not. I never steal. I don't have the need to. I also don't want to steal, because it's agains the law, and it is sin to make another person feel violated and take something that will hurt him or her.

So I don't steal.

yet the colour of my skin made five different people assume I am a thief. Twice the cops were called, and I was cleared. However, I screamed expletives at the top of my lungs the first time it happened and the mall owner banned me from going back in, forever. Why? Because people discriminated against me, due to my white skin, without any consideration to the facts or the truth or to my unseeable personality and high moral character. Yes, I am promiscuous, but that's not illegal. Plus I haven't practiced promiscuity, or even monoiscuity, for 13 years.

So... I agree. being judged, or pre-judged, by one's colour of skin is horrible. I feel it on my own skin.

Ther will always be ignorant people in this world. Pass them my do not give them any satifaction with reservations on your part. Stay real bro F**K em!

honestly. it really could be a problem,,,
luckly that only means you are gonna have to try harder ;)

Hey bra, Your luck will change sooner or later. Trust me, the good lord will send you that somebody.

Could always be where you're from as well, eh?

i was here..

Yeah...what he said.

But whilst you're walking by the fookers and their pathetic whispering and equally idiotic innuendos which they refer to as "humour"....slap yer a$$ and tell em to kiss it ;-)

If your country is that bad, just get up and leave; there are plenty of places in this world where things are better then that.

I am too, considered a scammer because I am a white female, over the age of 40 and considered a Cougar if I speak to a male of any age younger than me, regardless of race. Is this a protected group? Probably not...I adust and associate with those who accept me and appreciate me. I don't worry about the race, the orientation, nor do I even worry about what people think of me on a daily basis... Am I a victim? Nope, I choose new friends.

I am just gonna say it....

You can't score cause your black?

That is a weak excuse.

Try telling that to Billy Dee Williams ...or Will Smith...or Barry White...or Halle Berry...or all those millionaire hip hop stars with their hordes of groupies.

If they dont like you for who you are... then they are not worth being with...!

My mom had a thing for Billy Dee Williams back in the day.

Humm the way I see it we all have our reasons why we are still single in the end we can't blame anyone but ourselves...

lolol yeah !! right lol it doesnt work like that. is not that easy

I blame the leprechauns!