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Topic: Persistent people
Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Thu 08/16/12 08:54 PM
That is a creepster/stalker sign alright. They are also very suspicious, jealous and controlling types. Sad for them and their victim.

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Fri 08/17/12 08:31 PM
Have been quickly reading over all the post. One word that seems to be missing is "respect". If a person respects you they need to respect your position and beliefs. Even if it is contrary to their own. One of my best friends (who I met here) and I don't agree on a number of things. What we do have for each other is RESPECT. I can't be with with some one as a friend and definitely not romantically who doesn't show respect. If they are not showing for me, then they don't have it for themselves either. JMO Excellent comment

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Fri 08/17/12 09:15 PM
I read about a dude that gave his ex a phone and told her he'd pay her bill. She had no idea he had her phone on GPS and seemed to always show up at the dangdest times. I suggested telling her and he said he was doing it for her own safety. I smelled persistent stalker. yeah, I remember that post. He felt responsible for her safety, after the divorce, and he was nixing her boyfriends for her, too... wait, that was in her post. People told her she was a free agent, he was by then her ex, she needed no longer to obey him or seek him for protection... she could not get the concept. I figured she was from some really freaky religious sect, like Mormon, Jihadist, or Southern Baptist, but she denied that too. But her kids eventually turned her in, when she started to cook and eat them, on Sundays, and the kids were getting tired of kiddie burger dinners the whole week. Naming the burgers cute names, like Jamie, and Sandra, did not help any, either. You can only eat kiddie leftovers for so long.

Tulareman Joined Thu 08/25/11 Posts: 487	Sat 08/18/12 02:38 AM
Does it work with you when you have someone who just wont give up but continues the pursuit in order to get you to concede? It doesnt work with me, but I do admire the determination. It's hard for me to make an honest voice on the matter. I have had no body after me in a persistent way.

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Sat 08/18/12 08:45 AM
Does it work with you when you have someone who just wont give up but continues the pursuit in order to get you to concede? It doesnt work with me, but I do admire the determination. It's hard for me to make an honest voice on the matter. I have had no body after me in a persistent way. I can refer you to a couple insane exs if you wish.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sat 08/18/12 09:19 AM
Does it work with you when you have someone who just wont give up but continues the pursuit in order to get you to concede? It doesnt work with me, but I do admire the determination. it depends when it comes to my money, no is no and persisting annoys me. when it comes to attraction and romance, persuasion can be either sexy, spooky, or annoying depending upon the technique, body language, ,,,etc,,

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Sat 08/18/12 11:40 AM
Does it work with you when you have someone who just wont give up but continues the pursuit in order to get you to concede? It doesnt work with me, but I do admire the determination. No it doesn't work at all, but I also get annoyed easily.

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Sat 08/18/12 03:25 PM
Does it work with you when you have someone who just wont give up but continues the pursuit in order to get you to concede? It doesnt work with me, but I do admire the determination. No it doesn't work at all, but I also get annoyed easily. There are two things that are constant: 1. For some women, nothing works. 2. When I do some work, it never resonates with a woman, never works for a woman, no matter who she is and what I do.

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Sat 08/18/12 03:26 PM
Wowee, ladywind7, beautiful new picture. The gods must smile in pride of their creation, and worthfully so, too. Your new picture is breathtaking. And I ain't joking.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Sat 08/18/12 07:04 PM
Wowee, ladywind7, beautiful new picture. The gods must smile in pride of their creation, and worthfully so, too. Your new picture is breathtaking. And I ain't joking. Thanks wux. Taken this morning. Lol, I am addicted to changing my hair.

andrewzooms Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 2842	Sat 08/18/12 07:11 PM
You only get one chance on a first impression. No = Move on.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Sat 08/18/12 07:16 PM
You only get one chance on a first impression. No = Move on. Huh? You have lost me....

andrewzooms Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 2842	Sat 08/18/12 07:19 PM
You only get one chance on a first impression. No = Move on. Huh? You have lost me.... In response to guys who never give up on trying to get that girl who is not interested in them.

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Sat 08/18/12 07:23 PM
You only get one chance on a first impression. No = Move on. Huh? You have lost me.... In response to guys who never give up on trying to get that girl who is not interested in them. I also think it can mean that once you got that hairdo down pat perfect, then it's time to not change it any more. Or else men will growl all over the landscape, and drop bears, too.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Sat 08/18/12 07:26 PM
Exactly. Persistent pursuit is futile.

andrewzooms Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 2842	Sat 08/18/12 07:26 PM
You only get one chance on a first impression. No = Move on. Huh? You have lost me.... In response to guys who never give up on trying to get that girl who is not interested in them. I also think it can mean that once you got that hairdo down pat perfect, then it's time to not change it any more. Or else men will growl all over the landscape, and drop bears, too. Are we talking about trimming the hedges in a certain area?

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Sat 08/18/12 07:31 PM
Nope. His admiration for blonds is showing lol.

andrewzooms Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 2842	Sat 08/18/12 07:33 PM
Oh I see got it new hairdo. Makes sense now.

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Sat 08/18/12 08:23 PM Edited by wux on Sat 08/18/12 08:24 PM
Exactly. Persistent pursuit is futile. I'd further qualify that, though what you said is true. I would round it out by saying that persistent futile pursuit is futile. Persistent fruitful pursuit is not futile. It is, instead, a person-to-person persistent passion fruit, optimally.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Sat 08/18/12 10:37 PM
Wux, fly me to the US and I will enter you into some rap contests. Your lyrics will surprise.