Nope....complete turn off for me. Like switching off a light, I simply disconnect and cut off emotionally.

If I want to argue...I can just call my ex.

I don't mind small differences of opinions... but argueing......I refuse at this point.

Anyone who don't agree with me can kick thier own @$$ to the curb cause I won't waste the time.

...I avoid the religious/political nutjobs like lepers....

you can't fix stupid.

Well I have to say I disagree with your opinion, lol JK. No I think it is good to have a strong opinion about what you believe in ( anything, not speaking religion )

When people stand their ground it shows confidence, that can be a turn on, but I'm not into fighting at all. Some threads like religion and others I see same people back and forth, and I wonder if that makes them crush in a weird semantic way. It's not unheard of

I can only take so much debate before I let it go. It is like beating a dead horse.

I actually like a debate between me and my lover. I dated a girl who just agreed with me cause she saw no point in getting into a debate. I'm talking she would set her own beliefs and values and opinions aside just so she didn't have to debate anything. I would plead with her to just share her own opinion but she wouldn't do it. Drove me crazy. Lol. Guess I like opinionated women. Tis my curse. Haha!

I don't want a relationship where it is a constant argument all the time. I do like a relationship where she and I do have common beliefs, opinions and such. However, I also like a woman to stand by how she feels and what she believes, even if it contradicts with my own feelings. I believe that if two people can accept one another and love each other the way they are, then you can have those healthy debates. And when it gets heated, hot make up anger sex is rather awesome!

Yea, I stay out of the religion and politics threads now, people don't view things the way I see them, even the slightest bit. I get crushed by people all the time, so I'm used to it. I'm me, take it or leave it, it's their call. I'm not trying to be someone I'm not, I'm the same in person as I am on the internet. Some debate is fun and good, because sometimes you learn a side from the other, but on and on crap just never gets you anywhere, therefore...turn off.

i'm a fan of a healthy debate, where both are contributing and
growing and learning from it. back and forth banter that
goes nowhere other than to keep making your own point over
and over serves no purpose to me, entirely a waste of time
and brain cells.

Does arguing help you feel flirty with someone? If someone's cute and you start kidding but debating, is it flirtatious for you? Sometimes these types of relationships start out cold but then attract you to one another. Some people like it feisty.

I don't mind a natural debate or small bickering but not intrigued by a constant banter at all. Just noticing in some threads that heavy debates than run on and on and yet run nowhere, the line to agree to disagree is never drawn. It seems like perhaps there is an underlying satisfaction or attraction involved. What say you peeps of mingle?

You only have so much evidence. After that you are grasping at straws and just need to cut it off.