Topic: double standard
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Wed 08/08/12 06:01 PM

as long as people have safe sex they should be allowed to have as many partners as they want, regardless of gender. Double standards are outdated and stupid


Some people will always judge others on how many sexual partners they've had.

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Wed 08/08/12 06:01 PM
Edited by MariahsFantasy on Wed 08/08/12 06:15 PM



How is it that when a man approaches a woman, he showing interest; but when a woman approachees a man, she's showing despiration?frustrated frustrated frustrated


Ask the guy who wrote "He's Just Not That Into You." Men seem to have ALL the answers, or whatever they call it.


Yes they have ALL the answers, and yet somehow they seemed the most confused, weird how that works.


Wow...that's powerful stupid. They should never be encouraged to speak.

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Wed 08/08/12 06:20 PM

How is it that when a man approaches a woman, he showing interest; but when a woman approachees a man, she's showing despiration?frustrated frustrated frustrated


Same as we think men who can pick up women are confident and admirable, but women who pick up men are sluts.

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Wed 08/08/12 07:34 PM
Idk but it's not gonna change even if it's wrote about on a public forum. If you want that to change, then you're gonna have to be a huge role model for advertising safe dating. It could be hard work, but I see nobody making an effort. As long as there is no change, then it'll stay this way. This is reality.

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Wed 08/08/12 07:41 PM

Idk but it's not gonna change even if it's wrote about on a public forum. If you want that to change, then you're gonna have to be a huge role model for advertising safe dating. It could be hard work, but I see nobody making an effort. As long as there is no change, then it'll stay this way. This is reality.


HARSH, but thats why we should live for ourselves. No matter what decisions we make, someone will make a wrong out of it. So let our wrongs be right, they'll make our rights be wrong.

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Wed 08/08/12 07:44 PM
will all the sluts please post nude pics of yourself at hornymanatee.com, then message me to schedule a time to pick me up. i guarantee i guarantee i won't start a slut thread and post your names. bigsmile thanks in advance, bulldog

(bulldog double guarantee - patent pending)

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Wed 08/08/12 07:58 PM
Prolly the men are confused by what they see as role reversal and can not handle it.

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Wed 08/08/12 08:05 PM

Prolly the men are confused by what they see as role reversal and can not handle it.


Some men have said to me before they feel like less of a man if they can not "pay" for the date and support their lady and what not. Its just the way they were raised. So sometimes when we do try and pay, its like they refuse anyways. In a sense they can't handle it because its sort of a blow to their self esteem.

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Wed 08/08/12 08:31 PM


Prolly the men are confused by what they see as role reversal and can not handle it.


Some men have said to me before they feel like less of a man if they can not "pay" for the date and support their lady and what not. Its just the way they were raised. So sometimes when we do try and pay, its like they refuse anyways. In a sense they can't handle it because its sort of a blow to their self esteem.


I have had women pay for stuff, but they usually are sneaky and do it while I am in the head. I always tell then how special they are. Last week a woman approached me at work, it went like this: "Hey, why don't we go out... eh.. you don't eat meat, so you?" "No, I don't eat meat" "How about we go for a...eh...you don't drink either, do you?" "No, I don't drink" Then she walked away.

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Wed 08/08/12 08:52 PM

Same reason a man can be a stud if he sleeps with a bunch of women, but a women can be a wh*re if she sleeps with a bunch of men.
Immature guys call girls that when they dont get none.

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Wed 08/08/12 11:27 PM

How is it that when a man approaches a woman, he showing interest; but when a woman approachees a man, she's showing despiration?frustrated frustrated frustrated


the same reason that if a man hits a woman he is labeled an abuser for life, but if a woman hits a man she is just emotional

traditional roles and expectations,,,

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Thu 08/09/12 03:05 AM


Same reason a man can be a stud if he sleeps with a bunch of women, but a women can be a wh*re if she sleeps with a bunch of men.
Immature guys call girls that when they dont get none.


Actually, I hear more women call other women that, then I hear men calling women that.

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Thu 08/09/12 06:31 AM



Same reason a man can be a stud if he sleeps with a bunch of women, but a women can be a wh*re if she sleeps with a bunch of men.
Immature guys call girls that when they dont get none.


Actually, I hear more women call other women that, then I hear men calling women that.


:thumbsup: Women are way harder than men on other women (excuse the punshades )...Whats up with that?!what

laugh

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Thu 08/09/12 07:03 AM




Same reason a man can be a stud if he sleeps with a bunch of women, but a women can be a wh*re if she sleeps with a bunch of men.
Immature guys call girls that when they dont get none.


Actually, I hear more women call other women that, then I hear men calling women that.


:thumbsup: Women are way harder than men on other women (excuse the punshades )...Whats up with that?!what

laugh


Coincidentally...i mentioned something along those lines in an email to someone earlier. I've been given more of a hard time whilst growing up from women than i ever was from men.

How many here have been given 'the look' from a female clinging onto her man as you've walked past them? Or bailed up in the toilets simply because their boyfriend eyeballed you? Yep..been in a few cat fights over men...and i wasn't even interested in them!

I laugh about it now, but as a young 20yr old...it was frightening at times.

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Thu 08/09/12 08:07 AM
It's all how you look at it or process it.

I've been asked out by women or women approch me most of my life.
It strokes my ego and gives me confident at the sametime.

At the sametime it say alot about those women.
They're secure, have good self esteem, know what they want and go
after what they want.

Having had those experince first hand. Those women have more confidence,guts and courage than some men.
Surely if I am a man, I must have more balls than women.
It makes it less intimating for me to approcah women or
get rejected by some women.

The rest is just building repore or getting to each other better.
If a woman is interested in me, i dont have to try so hard.
Just be myself.

Some guys just dont get it....

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Thu 08/09/12 08:10 AM

It's all how you look at it or process it.

I've been asked out by women or women approch me most of my life.
It strokes my ego and gives me confident at the sametime.

At the sametime it say alot about those women.
They're secure, have good self esteem, know what they want and go
after what they want.

Having had those experince first hand. Those women have more confidence,guts and courage than some men.
Surely if I am a man, I must have more balls than women.
It makes it less intimating for me to approcah women or
get rejected by some women.

The rest is just building repore or getting to each other better.
If a woman is interested in me, i dont have to try so hard.
Just be myself.

Some guys just dont get it....


Wow, just wow!!!flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou

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Thu 08/09/12 08:13 AM
Double standard in my experiences with marriage is when the (ex)wife can go do whatever she wants, but when I want to do something with others (friends, well, the ones I used to have) she would get all uptight about it and throw a hissy fit. That's just one example, there's many others. Hence why...I'm never getting..married..again. I've had 2 marriages/divorces and I refuse to do the BS again.

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Thu 08/09/12 10:16 AM

Double standard in my experiences with marriage is when the (ex)wife can go do whatever she wants, but when I want to do something with others (friends, well, the ones I used to have) she would get all uptight about it and throw a hissy fit. That's just one example, there's many others. Hence why...I'm never getting..married..again. I've had 2 marriages/divorces and I refuse to do the BS again.


laugh laugh But third times a charm I thought flowerforyou

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Thu 08/09/12 10:27 AM

How is it that when a man approaches a woman, he showing interest; but when a woman approachees a man, she's showing despiration?frustrated frustrated frustrated


because it doesn't happen to guys that often,so when it does happen,we're thinking "this chick is deperate or easy....or both"

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Thu 08/09/12 10:46 AM
Because as much as most men say confidence is sexy it is also intimidating to a lot of people.