Topic: double standard
MariahsFantasy's photo
Thu 08/09/12 11:25 AM

It's all how you look at it or process it.

I've been asked out by women or women approch me most of my life.
It strokes my ego and gives me confident at the sametime.

At the sametime it say alot about those women.
They're secure, have good self esteem, know what they want and go
after what they want.

Having had those experince first hand. Those women have more confidence,guts and courage than some men.
Surely if I am a man, I must have more balls than women.
It makes it less intimating for me to approcah women or
get rejected by some women.

The rest is just building repore or getting to each other better.
If a woman is interested in me, i dont have to try so hard.
Just be myself.
Some guys just dont get it....


DUDE....are you sure you have a penis??

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Thu 08/09/12 12:16 PM


It's all how you look at it or process it.

I've been asked out by women or women approch me most of my life.
It strokes my ego and gives me confident at the sametime.

At the sametime it say alot about those women.
They're secure, have good self esteem, know what they want and go
after what they want.

Having had those experince first hand. Those women have more confidence,guts and courage than some men.
Surely if I am a man, I must have more balls than women.
It makes it less intimating for me to approcah women or
get rejected by some women.

The rest is just building repore or getting to each other better.
If a woman is interested in me, i dont have to try so hard.
Just be myself.
Some guys just dont get it....


DUDE....are you sure you have a penis??


Does it matter?..This guy can just use his silver tongue....bigsmile

SGVtech's photo
Thu 08/09/12 12:59 PM


It's all how you look at it or process it.

I've been asked out by women or women approch me most of my life.
It strokes my ego and gives me confident at the sametime.

At the sametime it say alot about those women.
They're secure, have good self esteem, know what they want and go
after what they want.

Having had those experince first hand. Those women have more confidence,guts and courage than some men.
Surely if I am a man, I must have more balls than women.
It makes it less intimating for me to approcah women or
get rejected by some women.

The rest is just building repore or getting to each other better.
If a woman is interested in me, i dont have to try so hard.
Just be myself.
Some guys just dont get it....


DUDE....are you sure you have a penis??


There you go setting a standard of the double kind. Just because a man articulated a thought that many have, but keep to themselves because thats what men do you have to do a gender check? This is the kind of counter-productive comments that keep men from speaking their real mind. And I am going no where with this because I just saw an add for single Russian women flash up on mingles dashboard. Do you think the women make similar sandwiches in Russia to the US? Oh oh.. now it appears I can secure an Arab princess! Oh wow, there are sugar babies in MY area waiting for me to email them!!! bigsmile


Seriously.. someone has to stop the damn games. Its awesome if a woman approaches a man. If anyone say differently they are trying to mold the world to fit their personal feelings not men in general. We talked about this in the super secret annual DUDEFEST in 1997, 2001 and again last year.huh slaphead smile2

TattooedDude81's photo
Thu 08/09/12 01:01 PM


Double standard in my experiences with marriage is when the (ex)wife can go do whatever she wants, but when I want to do something with others (friends, well, the ones I used to have) she would get all uptight about it and throw a hissy fit. That's just one example, there's many others. Hence why...I'm never getting..married..again. I've had 2 marriages/divorces and I refuse to do the BS again.


laugh laugh But third times a charm I thought flowerforyou


Could be, but, I can pretty much 100% assure you that marriage for me will never happen again.

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Thu 08/09/12 01:03 PM



It's all how you look at it or process it.

I've been asked out by women or women approch me most of my life.
It strokes my ego and gives me confident at the sametime.

At the sametime it say alot about those women.
They're secure, have good self esteem, know what they want and go
after what they want.

Having had those experince first hand. Those women have more confidence,guts and courage than some men.
Surely if I am a man, I must have more balls than women.
It makes it less intimating for me to approcah women or
get rejected by some women.

The rest is just building repore or getting to each other better.
If a woman is interested in me, i dont have to try so hard.
Just be myself.
Some guys just dont get it....


DUDE....are you sure you have a penis??


There you go setting a standard of the double kind. Just because a man articulated a thought that many have, but keep to themselves because thats what men do you have to do a gender check? This is the kind of counter-productive comments that keep men from speaking their real mind. And I am going no where with this because I just saw an add for single Russian women flash up on mingles dashboard. Do you think the women make similar sandwiches in Russia to the US? Oh oh.. now it appears I can secure an Arab princess! Oh wow, there are sugar babies in MY area waiting for me to email them!!! bigsmile


Seriously.. someone has to stop the damn games. Its awesome if a woman approaches a man. If anyone say differently they are trying to mold the world to fit their personal feelings not men in general. We talked about this in the super secret annual DUDEFEST in 1997, 2001 and again last year.huh slaphead smile2


Ummmm...let me repeat...Wow, just wow!!!...Here's a flower, you earned it!flowerforyou

MariahsFantasy's photo
Thu 08/09/12 01:16 PM



It's all how you look at it or process it.

I've been asked out by women or women approch me most of my life.
It strokes my ego and gives me confident at the sametime.

At the sametime it say alot about those women.
They're secure, have good self esteem, know what they want and go
after what they want.

Having had those experince first hand. Those women have more confidence,guts and courage than some men.
Surely if I am a man, I must have more balls than women.
It makes it less intimating for me to approcah women or
get rejected by some women.

The rest is just building repore or getting to each other better.
If a woman is interested in me, i dont have to try so hard.

Just be myself.
Some guys just dont get it....


DUDE....are you sure you have a penis??


Does it matter?..This guy can just use his silver tongue....bigsmile


Hell naw. If more men folk talked and put forth the effort to practice what he says we'd all just be one less confused bunch. I do get excited when newbs think I'm playing a double standard when how I feel about the subject is obvious enough. Love it! bigsmile

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Thu 08/09/12 01:40 PM




It's all how you look at it or process it.

I've been asked out by women or women approch me most of my life.
It strokes my ego and gives me confident at the sametime.

At the sametime it say alot about those women.
They're secure, have good self esteem, know what they want and go
after what they want.

Having had those experince first hand. Those women have more confidence,guts and courage than some men.
Surely if I am a man, I must have more balls than women.
It makes it less intimating for me to approcah women or
get rejected by some women.

The rest is just building repore or getting to each other better.
If a woman is interested in me, i dont have to try so hard.

Just be myself.
Some guys just dont get it....


DUDE....are you sure you have a penis??


Does it matter?..This guy can just use his silver tongue....bigsmile


Hell naw. If more men folk talked and put forth the effort to practice what he says we'd all just be one less confused bunch. I do get excited when newbs think I'm playing a double standard when how I feel about the subject is obvious enough. Love it! bigsmile


I KNEW you would (get excited), hahaha:wink: But that cause I knows ya childlove Anyway, you know I agree with youhappy ...both these guys are sexy as h*ll...Hot I tells ya...Hot!!!bigsmile

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Thu 08/09/12 01:51 PM

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Thu 08/09/12 02:12 PM




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blueeyes2000's photo
Thu 08/09/12 02:13 PM



Double standard in my experiences with marriage is when the (ex)wife can go do whatever she wants, but when I want to do something with others (friends, well, the ones I used to have) she would get all uptight about it and throw a hissy fit. That's just one example, there's many others. Hence why...I'm never getting..married..again. I've had 2 marriages/divorces and I refuse to do the BS again.


laugh laugh But third times a charm I thought flowerforyou


Could be, but, I can pretty much 100% assure you that marriage for me will never happen again.


The funny thing is, the ones who are so sure of this, are the ones who get their socks knocked off when they are least expecting it,lol

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Thu 08/09/12 02:46 PM




Double standard in my experiences with marriage is when the (ex)wife can go do whatever she wants, but when I want to do something with others (friends, well, the ones I used to have) she would get all uptight about it and throw a hissy fit. That's just one example, there's many others. Hence why...I'm never getting..married..again. I've had 2 marriages/divorces and I refuse to do the BS again.


laugh laugh But third times a charm I thought flowerforyou


Could be, but, I can pretty much 100% assure you that marriage for me will never happen again.


The funny thing is, the ones who are so sure of this, are the ones who get their socks knocked off when they are least expecting it,lol


How true!laugh

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Thu 08/09/12 03:25 PM
Edited by rocket2d4 on Thu 08/09/12 04:18 PM





It's all how you look at it or process it.

I've been asked out by women or women approch me most of my life.
It strokes my ego and gives me confident at the sametime.

At the sametime it say alot about those women.
They're secure, have good self esteem, know what they want and go
after what they want.

Having had those experince first hand. Those women have more confidence,guts and courage than some men.
Surely if I am a man, I must have more balls than women.
It makes it less intimating for me to approcah women or
get rejected by some women.

The rest is just building repore or getting to each other better.
If a woman is interested in me, i dont have to try so hard.

Just be myself.
Some guys just dont get it....


DUDE....are you sure you have a penis??


Does it matter?..This guy can just use his silver tongue....bigsmile


Hell naw. If more men folk talked and put forth the effort to practice what he says we'd all just be one less confused bunch. I do get excited when newbs think I'm playing a double standard when how I feel about the subject is obvious enough. Love it! bigsmile


I KNEW you would (get excited), hahaha:wink: But that cause I knows ya childlove Anyway, you know I agree with youhappy ...both these guys are sexy as h*ll...Hot I tells ya...Hot!!!bigsmile


I've got it and know how to use it quit well...thank you very much.
I aint afriad to go down town.
I'm also a shreader. I can tap the G string and than some like a mad man. Im also verstital in my guitar playing ablities.
Ive also found the Fountain of youth for women. It's not all about me. Not all women are the same.

Of course i get my socks knock off. It's fun and exictment.
Love deeply and passionately. Im also a romantic.
Im in love with love.

Im also forbidden love. It's part of passion and romance.It's all part of why I attract women into myself. It's kind of like voodoo or not conforming to the cookie cutter. These women are beautiful
inside and out. They dont need society's approval to live and
breathe. EQUALITY never had to be earned. They retain that self awearness from the moment they where borned.

Having experinced with these women. We simply do what we want
to do. We dont care so much what other people say or do.
Too bussied living and loving...

why would it stroke my ego? These women can have any man they
want. Ive watched plenty of them reject other men then these
women would trun around and ask me out.

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Thu 08/09/12 04:01 PM






It's all how you look at it or process it.

I've been asked out by women or women approch me most of my life.
It strokes my ego and gives me confident at the sametime.

At the sametime it say alot about those women.
They're secure, have good self esteem, know what they want and go
after what they want.

Having had those experince first hand. Those women have more confidence,guts and courage than some men.
Surely if I am a man, I must have more balls than women.
It makes it less intimating for me to approcah women or
get rejected by some women.

The rest is just building repore or getting to each other better.
If a woman is interested in me, i dont have to try so hard.

Just be myself.
Some guys just dont get it....


DUDE....are you sure you have a penis??


Does it matter?..This guy can just use his silver tongue....bigsmile


Hell naw. If more men folk talked and put forth the effort to practice what he says we'd all just be one less confused bunch. I do get excited when newbs think I'm playing a double standard when how I feel about the subject is obvious enough. Love it! bigsmile


I KNEW you would (get excited), hahaha:wink: But that cause I knows ya childlove Anyway, you know I agree with youhappy ...both these guys are sexy as h*ll...Hot I tells ya...Hot!!!bigsmile


I've got it and know how to use it quit well...thank you very much.
I aint afriad to go down town.
I'm also a shreader. I can tap the G string and than some like a mad man. Im also verstital in my guitar playing ablities.
Ive also found the Fountain of youth for women. It's not all about me. Not all women are the same.


See Mariah, I told you he was hot!!:tongue:


laugh

:banana:

MariahsFantasy's photo
Thu 08/09/12 04:06 PM







It's all how you look at it or process it.

I've been asked out by women or women approch me most of my life.
It strokes my ego and gives me confident at the sametime.

At the sametime it say alot about those women.
They're secure, have good self esteem, know what they want and go
after what they want.

Having had those experince first hand. Those women have more confidence,guts and courage than some men.
Surely if I am a man, I must have more balls than women.
It makes it less intimating for me to approcah women or
get rejected by some women.

The rest is just building repore or getting to each other better.
If a woman is interested in me, i dont have to try so hard.

Just be myself.
Some guys just dont get it....


DUDE....are you sure you have a penis??


Does it matter?..This guy can just use his silver tongue....bigsmile


Hell naw. If more men folk talked and put forth the effort to practice what he says we'd all just be one less confused bunch. I do get excited when newbs think I'm playing a double standard when how I feel about the subject is obvious enough. Love it! bigsmile


I KNEW you would (get excited), hahaha:wink: But that cause I knows ya childlove Anyway, you know I agree with youhappy ...both these guys are sexy as h*ll...Hot I tells ya...Hot!!!bigsmile


I've got it and know how to use it quit well...thank you very much.
I aint afriad to go down town.
I'm also a shreader. I can tap the G string and than some like a mad man. Im also verstital in my guitar playing ablities.
Ive also found the Fountain of youth for women. It's not all about me. Not all women are the same.


See Mariah, I told you he was hot!!:tongue:


laugh

:banana:


You know, I've witnessed many a thing in my life thus far, but that, was, AWEsome! flowerforyou Keep up the great work. And (((((Leigh))))) *pinky kiss* you know me too well. blushing bigsmile

PacificStar48's photo
Thu 08/09/12 04:15 PM

Double standard in my experiences with marriage is when the (ex)wife can go do whatever she wants, but when I want to do something with others (friends, well, the ones I used to have) she would get all uptight about it and throw a hissy fit. That's just one example, there's many others. Hence why...I'm never getting..married..again. I've had 2 marriages/divorces and I refuse to do the BS again.


When a person's life experience is to have toxic relationships you really have to kind of start from the beginning and establish skills and boundries of how you allow people to treat you.

Just as some women are conditioned to take crap off of the men in their life so are men conditioned to take crap off of women. They are told terribly wrong stuff like " oh it is just how it is, or they are hormononal, or I have to put up with it why shouldn't you?" Or some screw ball ideas that usually ends in disaster; " man up", love your kid's more than you hate your wife, just do it behind her back, give her a taste of her own medicine. All any of that does is up the anti to life threatening rage, depression, exhaustion, panic, and withdrawl setting in.

Sadly guys can be emotionally, physically, and financially be battered just like women and as a society we need to recognize it and stop it. I believe it is essential for womne especially to say hey FOUL there is no justification for being abuseive reagardless of gender. Shelter beds need to exist for single men and men with children.

Why? Because the longer we let this kind of abusive situation to exist the more men feel like they can never escape it or that they have the right to be treated better.

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Thu 08/09/12 04:24 PM
Edited by rocket2d4 on Thu 08/09/12 04:40 PM








It's all how you look at it or process it.

I've been asked out by women or women approch me most of my life.
It strokes my ego and gives me confident at the sametime.

At the sametime it say alot about those women.
They're secure, have good self esteem, know what they want and go
after what they want.

Having had those experince first hand. Those women have more confidence,guts and courage than some men.
Surely if I am a man, I must have more balls than women.
It makes it less intimating for me to approcah women or
get rejected by some women.

The rest is just building repore or getting to each other better.
If a woman is interested in me, i dont have to try so hard.

Just be myself.
Some guys just dont get it....


DUDE....are you sure you have a penis??


Does it matter?..This guy can just use his silver tongue....bigsmile


Hell naw. If more men folk talked and put forth the effort to practice what he says we'd all just be one less confused bunch. I do get excited when newbs think I'm playing a double standard when how I feel about the subject is obvious enough. Love it! bigsmile


I KNEW you would (get excited), hahaha:wink: But that cause I knows ya childlove Anyway, you know I agree with youhappy ...both these guys are sexy as h*ll...Hot I tells ya...Hot!!!bigsmile


I've got it and know how to use it quit well...thank you very much.
I aint afriad to go down town.
I'm also a shreader. I can tap the G string and than some like a mad man. Im also verstital in my guitar playing ablities.
Ive also found the Fountain of youth for women. It's not all about me. Not all women are the same.


See Mariah, I told you he was hot!!:tongue:


laugh

:banana:


You know, I've witnessed many a thing in my life thus far, but that, was, AWEsome! flowerforyou Keep up the great work. And (((((Leigh))))) *pinky kiss* you know me too well. blushing bigsmile


Thank you Leigh.
You're a very sexy woman....

I guess, I am. After all, my daughter is a super model.

PacificStar48's photo
Thu 08/09/12 04:31 PM

How is it that when a man approaches a woman, he showing interest; but when a woman approachees a man, she's showing despiration?frustrated frustrated frustrated


I think a woman can approach a man in a way the does not come off as despiration. You have to be descreet and confident but that does not mean agressive or snotty or even panicky. O rhtat the guy thinks you are desperate just because he says no; he is just exerciseing the same option women do all the time the right to say no.

I have invited men out occassionally over the years and they told me that after an initial surprise they took it as a compliment not a demand or and insult to their manhood.

Goofball73's photo
Thu 08/09/12 06:18 PM



It's all how you look at it or process it.

I've been asked out by women or women approch me most of my life.
It strokes my ego and gives me confident at the sametime.

At the sametime it say alot about those women.
They're secure, have good self esteem, know what they want and go
after what they want.

Having had those experince first hand. Those women have more confidence,guts and courage than some men.
Surely if I am a man, I must have more balls than women.
It makes it less intimating for me to approcah women or
get rejected by some women.

The rest is just building repore or getting to each other better.
If a woman is interested in me, i dont have to try so hard.
Just be myself.
Some guys just dont get it....


DUDE....are you sure you have a penis??


There you go setting a standard of the double kind. Just because a man articulated a thought that many have, but keep to themselves because thats what men do you have to do a gender check? This is the kind of counter-productive comments that keep men from speaking their real mind. And I am going no where with this because I just saw an add for single Russian women flash up on mingles dashboard. Do you think the women make similar sandwiches in Russia to the US? Oh oh.. now it appears I can secure an Arab princess! Oh wow, there are sugar babies in MY area waiting for me to email them!!! bigsmile


Seriously.. someone has to stop the damn games. Its awesome if a woman approaches a man. If anyone say differently they are trying to mold the world to fit their personal feelings not men in general. We talked about this in the super secret annual DUDEFEST in 1997, 2001 and again last year.huh slaphead smile2


Man, you said Sugar Babies and now I am craving the candy. sad laugh

I never thought that a woman approaching a man showed desperation. I always felt it showed "Hey you! I am the woman and you will be my biatch tonight"! Which is kind of hot if you ask me. I actually find women who jump from man to man are more "desperate" than a woman who goes after what she wants. But hey....I could be wrong.

krupa's photo
Thu 08/09/12 06:19 PM
First...the obvious....

the op dropped off long ago....just saying.

Second...seems like quite a few of you chicks got some not so latent resentment towards guys....true...we ain't all trophies....but, you gals are just as screwed up as us guys.

Third...as long as you skirts do what I say and shut your mouths...none of this will be an issue.

Go get me a sandwich and a beer then take off your clothes.


Simonedemidova's photo
Thu 08/09/12 07:15 PM

First...the obvious....

the op dropped off long ago....just saying.

Second...seems like quite a few of you chicks got some not so latent resentment towards guys....true...we ain't all trophies....but, you gals are just as screwed up as us guys.

Third...as long as you skirts do what I say and shut your mouths...none of this will be an issue.

Go get me a sandwich and a beer then take off your clothes.




Get your own damn sandwich! LOL, IN FACT give me a back rub!