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Topic: How to attract the women you want...
Jay_Hall5 Joined Thu 08/02/12 Posts: 12	Thu 08/02/12 07:41 PM
The first thing you need to know is that humans are made up of 4 personalities. I'm not going to get into detail about that, but I will describe 4 different types of woman: The Driver: She is powerful, bottom line, straight to the point. She is driven in what ever she puts her mind to. All about business in every aspect of the word. Think business woman The Talker: She is outgoing and very fun, silly and likes to have fun with anything she does. She is very colorful and usually matches her whole outfit. She love to shop, take pictures and is very social. Think a dancer or actress. The Thinker: She is usually in charge of something, like a doctor. She has a great memory and has an attention for detail. Good at remembering names and conversations. Always asking questions. Loves conversation. Think a doctor The Watcher: She is all about support and very loyal. She will do anything within her power to help someone. Very sensitive and fragile so be careful how you talk to her and your tone of voice. Also great listeners and usually very kind. Think caregiver Ok. So how do you attract her? Review the information above and find out all about her and how she does things and fall in love with them!! Here's a bonus: Find out what her personality is and her love language and speak to them!! You'll have to look up love languages... Take care Jay

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Thu 08/02/12 10:06 PM
Well according to this post... I'm perfect!!!

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Fri 08/03/12 04:14 PM
Yeah; I was just thinking what if I am in all 4 categories?

bhernandez Joined Sun 03/21/10 Posts: 14901	Fri 08/03/12 04:16 PM
i'm none of the above. i must be a man. or dog.

TattooedDude81 Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 1403	Fri 08/03/12 04:19 PM
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TattooedDude81 Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 1403	Fri 08/03/12 04:20 PM
Can't get everything you want...and women definitely fall in that category. I want a Ferrari. Will it happen? Nope.

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Fri 08/03/12 04:33 PM
How to attract the women you want Buy her metal underwear and use a magnet.

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Fri 08/03/12 04:33 PM
i'm none of the above. i must be a man. or dog. Or both.

Sandelwood4 Joined Sat 08/13/11 Posts: 466	Fri 08/03/12 05:44 PM
I believe the best way to attract a woman is by not categorizing her or any individual for that matter. To do so is huge mistake. I always thought what makes an individual unique is that they are many things, they fit many hats, have multiple feelings, even all at the same time. Just something to think about, OP.

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4742	Sat 08/04/12 12:11 PM
The first thing you need to know is that humans are made up of 4 personalities. I'm not going to get into detail about that, but I will describe 4 different types of woman: The Driver: She is powerful, bottom line, straight to the point. She is driven in what ever she puts her mind to. All about business in every aspect of the word. Think business woman The Talker: She is outgoing and very fun, silly and likes to have fun with anything she does. She is very colorful and usually matches her whole outfit. She love to shop, take pictures and is very social. Think a dancer or actress. The Thinker: She is usually in charge of something, like a doctor. She has a great memory and has an attention for detail. Good at remembering names and conversations. Always asking questions. Loves conversation. Think a doctor The Watcher: She is all about support and very loyal. She will do anything within her power to help someone. Very sensitive and fragile so be careful how you talk to her and your tone of voice. Also great listeners and usually very kind. Think caregiver Ok. So how do you attract her? Review the information above and find out all about her and how she does things and fall in love with them!! Here's a bonus: Find out what her personality is and her love language and speak to them!! You'll have to look up love languages... Take care Jay Thanks for that, I can understand why you are on this site.

misswright Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 1893	Sat 08/04/12 01:01 PM
How to attract the women you want Simple. Be the man she wants! I wouldn't go placing her within some preconceived parameters based on one of four personality descriptions. Women are complex. You can't try to be what you think she wants based on her supposed dominant personality type. You have to just be you and hope that's what she's looking for and that she's what you're looking for. Can't do that unless you get to know her and she you, and when you do, you'll probably find out she fits many of those categories. Sometimes she's a thinker, sometimes a talker, a watcher, and/or a driver. Crazy to think you can customize your approach to a specific type.

manOfewwords Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 29908	Sat 08/04/12 01:11 PM
my woman pretty much fit all 4 of those personalities. how did I attract her? by sticking my tongue out at her

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4742	Sun 08/05/12 01:06 AM
How to attract the women you want Simple. Be the man she wants! The problem is finding a woman who knows what she wants.

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Sun 08/05/12 02:20 AM
Find out if she is into similar stuff you like. If not, try somewhere that caters to whatever you're into. Everyone is different. Look at her profile and see if you'd be interested in her.

Jay_Hall5 Joined Thu 08/02/12 Posts: 12	Fri 08/10/12 08:05 PM
Sandelwood4, I not putting women in a box. I've studied personalities and that is factual info. I talking from a stand point of connecting and building rapport in relationships. I appreciate and agree with your response. Jay

Jay_Hall5 Joined Thu 08/02/12 Posts: 12	Fri 08/10/12 08:12 PM
misswright, I think there might be some confusion here. I'm talking from connection to build rapport only. I don't put woman in a parameter. Yes woman are very complex and I'll never understand them, however if a person learns about her personality it will help them to work better with her. I'm just promoting the importance of men paying attention to their partner. I have had some success in this area when it comes to personalities. Every human is made up of at least 2 personalities and yes at times their made up of all 4. In my opinion, when I meet my soulmate, my goal is to build deep levels in our relationship that will sustain for many years to life. She is completely worth that. I hope this clears up any confusion from my end. Thanks for your response. Jay

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Fri 08/10/12 09:13 PM
my woman pretty much fit all 4 of those personalities. how did I attract her? by sticking my tongue out at her That always works

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Fri 08/10/12 09:26 PM
Lov how a fella barely dry behind the ears thinks he has what mankind has not been able to define in centuries all down pat in four types. Bless his heart. lol

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Fri 08/10/12 09:35 PM
And here I was thinking "Be myself and some woman will like that and want you." Now I gotta learn to identify types? Geesh.

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Fri 08/10/12 10:19 PM
Can't get everything you want...and women definitely fall in that category. I want a Ferrari. Will it happen? Nope. Well..if you happen to get a Ferrari.. I'll take a ride with you!