I've been talking to a guy from another sight since may. He lives 75 miles away so due to finances he's only come to see me twice. He's suppose to come over again on Sunday.
He's a nice guy and I do like him and he's been very sweet and a complete gentlemen.
My problem is this . . .he seems content to just stay at my place and watch tv or movies and visit. The trust time we ordered in pizza and the second time I cooked him dinner. I understand that he drives a ways to see me and he doesn't know his way around Tucson but it would be nice to go do something. . .I even told him to bring a suit and We'd go swimming in the complex but he didn't. So should I tell him I wanna go do something or suggest something to do or just plan an outing and invite him along? . . . .Jr forgotten how complicated dating can be. Lol :)

Offer to go out to eat, if he isn't down to go out with you in public, he isn't worth your time.

Sorry if that is a little too honest and straight forward, it is a curse of mine to have no brain to mouth filter. :/

If u say that he comes 75,miles away just to visit you and u spend so much of time together at home then surely he likes u... He must be hesitant to say so.. he would never say no if u ask him out... All the best...

maybe he is ashamed of you and dont wanna be seen together.. tell him plainly what you tell us here now, if he still refuses, drop him.

I don't know...Some people are basically just "homebodies." If you want to get out and do more maybe he's not the right person for you. Maybe you can plan something and see if he's up for getting out a little more. Good luck to you!

I don't know...Some people are basically just "homebodies." If you want to get out and do more maybe he's not the right person for you. Maybe you can plan something and see if he's up for getting out a little more. Good luck to you!

I know he's a home body. I am too pretty much. But. I. get a little bored just sitting around watching tv.
I think maybe I will plan a small outing for Sunday and see how it goes.

Ashamed of her? That was bloody nasty .Why would he drive 75 miles to see her if he was't into her? May be he doesn't have the funds to take her out the way he would like to and feel she deserves. There could many reasons, but I doubt if being ashamed her is one of them.

I deck.lately agree with you their betty :). If he didn't like me their wouldn't have been a second visit or a third. I just messages him and invited him to go out to the movies on Sunday my treat. we will see how it goes. :)

I bet he will! Have a great time.

All I can say is just plan it then tell him to get ready we are going out...But then do plan on paying as well just in case...Cause the way I see it the one that plans it should pay for it at least the first time...Maybe he is one that just does not get out much..

I don’t think he’s ashamed of you either.

Here’s what I would do...when he arrived, I’d meet him at the door dressed to go out (nowhere fancy), tell him to get in my car as I wouldn’t want him driving after driving 75 miles, and take him to your local restaurant or somewhere else relatively cheap – the homebody thing could just mean that he’s short of cash which doesn’t have to be a deal breaker.

Ashamed is a harsh statement.
I would talk about it before his next trip out..make some plans outside the home and see how he tosses that around with you. Let us know!