Well. I have a bit of a problem. I've been talking to this really nice girl called Jenna in Ashford, who really like's me, already wants to get off with me and are planning for me to go see her at the end of the month. I'm really hoping that we could get together even though we live so far apart.

Thing is, now I have another girl, who I didn't find on a dating site who has taken an interest in me aswell. Basically is sounds like she wants to be with me.

Should I keep talking to this other person and leave my options open incase things don't work out with Jenna. Or should I not talk to this girl at all. I don't want to lead anybody on.

This other women that I'm talking to seems nice and lives alot closer to me.

At this point in time I feel very devoted to getting to know and being with Jenna. I have'nt actually spoke to Jenna the past few days and am getting a feeling she doesn't want to talk as much.

Should I just see how things go with me a Jenna since that really who I'd rather be with, or should I call it a day and talk to this other women?

You seem to be really wanting to get to know Jenna, so why don't you meet her and take it from there?
In the meantime as far as I can tell you are not committed or in a relationship with either one of them so what it is the harm in talking to the other girl as well?

Ask them both if they wanna have a threesome?

^^^^^^I LIKE HOW YOU THINK^^^^^^ lol

Yeah, Ménage à trois it is then!! Haha.

Yeah... I dunno....

Lol, That's the right answer :P

Count your blessings. Two choices is better than none!

As long as you're just talking to both of them at this point, I don't think that's a problem. I think that's called dating.

If you start having a physical or emotional relationship with either, you will most likely have to make a choice for the one that's a better fit for you. Good luck.

you need to ask yourself if you are willing to relocate for is jenna willing to relocate ......if you need a party is willing to relocate ...then it maybe best for both of you to part ways now before you get too much more deeply ...yes it is going to hurt your heart .....but .. both of you really need to be honest with yourself ..a long distance relationship is very hard to maintain ....bottom line.... you both need to talk about this and ask yourself what is important for both of you .

Good Luck

this seems fair on the surface,
but if you don't tell the "other" girl about your intentions with "jenna", well, then you are doing exactly what you said you didnt want to do...leading one of them on.

the worst way to start a relationship is by leading someone on,
using someone as the fall back, or not being honest, you are
setting yourself up for all of those. it sounds like you are being
easily distracted by interest from others, so you might want
to consider backing up a bit and putting it out there that you
are just dating, which to me, doesn't make you exclusive.

You have earned two more Brownie Points!!!!!
Now,

While yer up!!!!!!

You ain't committed yet! check them both out and see which one fits you better!


LUCKY DAWG!

It always seems to be pouring when it's raining, feast or famine. I

swear that there are cycles that both men and women go thru where

either everybody wants you or nobody does. Call it an aura,

pheromones or what ever you want, attraction comes in waves for me

and always has. The question that you are asking has plagued me

since puberty. I can't wait to see what other people say about this!


Greg

Ok babe, don't rush into anything ....... be honest with both women ..... see how each reacts. Just take things one day at a time and by being honest you can't go wrong.... besides it takes time to get to know someone for who they truly are. Good luck

oh I didn't think of that lol

Be a MORALLY IN TUNE man...stop all contact with both..be honest..learn from your high school ways...and buck up...REAL WOMEN WANT REAL MEN

first of all he hes not committed to either ..... so why should he stop talking to both?????

Just be honest ...... the Truth always comes out anyway!

OK. Well it seems the situation is sorted. Me and Jenna are just going stay friends, even though she still want's to see me and have sex with me which I'm completely gutted about, but not cos' at least I know now and she still wants sex.

I'm going to see where things go with me and Kaylee. And I'm hoping that we can meet up this week for a coffee and she's going to come visit me at my home. Really hope I get on with her, she's a Virgo and I think Scorpios (me) are supposed to get on together.

Kaylee is 19 and Jenna is 22. I just hope Kaylee is a mature 19 year old.

Wish me the bust of luck!

Peace!