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Topic: long distance love
josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Tue 07/24/12 04:33 AM
It takes a huge amount of trust on both sides to make it work. Spending time together is really important, having goals and just enjoying each other. It can be difficult but very possible.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 07/25/12 05:59 PM
It takes two to make a thing go right....it takes two to make it out of sight!

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Wed 07/25/12 06:20 PM
It takes two to make a thing go right....it takes two to make it out of sight! If only it were that easy.

TammyA Joined Sat 03/10/12 Posts: 300	Wed 07/25/12 06:26 PM
I've tried the long-distance relationship. Personally, it's difficult for me. I prefer the face to face interaction, the spontaneity of getting together, rather than phone calls, texts, etc. You both continue to live your seperate lives when you should be sharing a part of your lives together, getting to know each other, and whether a relationship together would work.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 07/25/12 06:26 PM
It takes two to make a thing go right....it takes two to make it out of sight! If only it were that easy. Easy like a Sunday morning.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Wed 07/25/12 06:35 PM
It takes two to make a thing go right....it takes two to make it out of sight! If only it were that easy. Easy like a Sunday morning. When I think of love these days I think of Pat Benatar songs.

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Wed 07/25/12 06:44 PM
I was dying after two months. Not for me.

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Wed 07/25/12 06:44 PM
It takes two to make a thing go right....it takes two to make it out of sight! If only it were that easy. Easy like a Sunday morning. When I think of love these days I think of Pat Benatar songs. I hate myself for loving you.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Wed 07/25/12 07:22 PM
I am sure if I won a lottery I could make one work. But until then probably not for me.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Wed 07/25/12 07:30 PM
It takes two to make a thing go right....it takes two to make it out of sight! If only it were that easy. Easy like a Sunday morning. When I think of love these days I think of Pat Benatar songs. I hate myself for loving you. More like "Hit Me With Your Best Shot"

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Wed 07/25/12 07:45 PM
It takes two to make a thing go right....it takes two to make it out of sight! If only it were that easy. Easy like a Sunday morning. When I think of love these days I think of Pat Benatar songs. I hate myself for loving you. More like "Hit Me With Your Best Shot" Love is a battlefield.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Wed 07/25/12 07:50 PM
Love is a battlefield. That one too.

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Wed 07/25/12 08:10 PM
It takes two to make a thing go right....it takes two to make it out of sight! If only it were that easy. Easy like a Sunday morning. When I think of love these days I think of Pat Benatar songs. I hate myself for loving you. More like "Hit Me With Your Best Shot" Fire away!

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Wed 07/25/12 08:28 PM
Gotta say.... Point 1 "I hate myself" is Joan Jett. Secondly, the only good song Pat Benetar ever did was "Hell is for Children" The first point is accuate. The second point is my opinion.

SGVtech Joined Sun 07/15/12 Posts: 123	Wed 07/25/12 08:35 PM
I've seen LDRs work many times. Not so often when the people are younger. Guys like women too much and wander if the meet-ups are too far apart. Women like attention to much and get bored. Once you've matured its very possible. The killer is if you try to blend children. That does require some closeness to see if you have compatible styles of raising the kids, do they get along once the honeymoon is over, is there jealousy when a parent wants some alone time with their natural kids, etc... If you just "go for it" the stress can implode a feasible match because of the duress everyone is under.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Thu 07/26/12 11:07 AM
It takes two to make a thing go right....it takes two to make it out of sight! If only it were that easy. Easy like a Sunday morning. When I think of love these days I think of Pat Benatar songs. I hate myself for loving you. I could never hate Joan Jett in those tight black leather pants.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Thu 07/26/12 11:34 AM
Secondly, the only good song Pat Benetar ever did was "Hell is for Children" The first point is accuate. The second point is my opinion. I hate that song. It makes me very upset.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Thu 07/26/12 01:02 PM
Secondly, the only good song Pat Benetar ever did was "Hell is for Children" The first point is accuate. The second point is my opinion. I hate that song. It makes me very upset. Wasn't she an advocate for abuse against children? Oh the irony.

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Sat 07/28/12 06:59 PM
Gotta say.... Point 1 "I hate myself" is Joan Jett. Secondly, the only good song Pat Benetar ever did was "Hell is for Children" The first point is accuate. The second point is my opinion. heehee, I noticed that after the next day, whoops. but it was still an awesome song, so win, win...

jazzydude2000 Joined Sat 05/01/10 Posts: 129	Sat 07/28/12 07:30 PM
For me, having an emotional drain being in LDR is IMO not healthy. What if someone would like to see you for coffee, or lunch to chat. Another thumbs down on LDR. Been there-done that. Reasonably local is more logical for both parties.