Community > Dating & Relationships

Post Reply

Topic: Do you think it's okay...
Derekkye Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 3427	Thu 07/19/12 07:32 PM
Is it okay for men to date women just for female companionship, and vice versa if there is no intention of getting involved in an intimate relationship? Assume all parties are honest with each other.

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Thu 07/19/12 07:39 PM
Sure, why not? As long as no one is leading the other on or pretending something that isn't real for them. That's when people get hurt. If they want to be intimate under the same set of circumstances, that's for them to decide, as well.

Derekkye Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 3427	Thu 07/19/12 07:52 PM
Sure, why not? As long as no one is leading the other on or pretending something that isn't real for them. That's when people get hurt. If they want to be intimate under the same set of circumstances, that's for them to decide, as well. how you doing?

mg1959 Joined Thu 04/05/07 Posts: 7872	Thu 07/19/12 09:43 PM
Of course, having girl friends is very cool.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 07/19/12 09:58 PM
Is it okay for men to date women just for female companionship, and vice versa if there is no intention of getting involved in an intimate relationship? Assume all parties are honest with each other. Isn't that just a friendship?

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Fri 07/20/12 03:28 AM
Sure, if both people are honest and happy with what they have, anything is ok.

Kahurangi Joined Thu 04/26/12 Posts: 1970	Fri 07/20/12 04:31 AM
Is it okay for men to date women just for female companionship, and vice versa if there is no intention of getting involved in an intimate relationship? Assume all parties are honest with each other. Isn't that just a friendship? With benefits it would seem

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Fri 07/20/12 08:16 AM
Is it okay for men to date women just for female companionship, and vice versa if there is no intention of getting involved in an intimate relationship? Assume all parties are honest with each other. Isn't that just a friendship? With benefits it would seem He said with no intentions of getting involved in an intimate relationship, so it sounds like no benefits.

ggg3737 Joined Tue 05/01/12 Posts: 3	Fri 07/20/12 08:27 AM
No its called F... Buddies

TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Fri 07/20/12 09:40 AM
I think it is a great idea. I have had a lot of trouble with it though, as almost all my lady friends ended up wanting more and when I did not provide it, they went looking and then did not have time to maintain a friendship or hang out, once they found someone who would "give" to them.

misswright Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 1893	Fri 07/20/12 10:11 AM
My best friend is male. We don't call it dating but we both go out together often and he even sleeps in my bed some nights. There's no sexual relationship. We snuggle up next to each other and it's a way to get the closeness from the opposite sex we need without the crap that goes with being in an intimate relationship. We love each other as friends and it works for us.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Fri 07/20/12 11:46 AM
That's called "friendship". Yes, having friends of the opposite sex is a great thing.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Fri 07/20/12 11:54 AM
No its called F... Buddies No, because he said no intimate relationship. It's called being friends.

ezas123 Joined Thu 07/05/12 Posts: 271	Fri 07/20/12 12:04 PM
thats okay to have a great female friend but i mite be hard for me to sleep in the same bed with them, being a man i just know things mite come UP..

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76438	Fri 07/20/12 12:11 PM
Why not I have male friends that are just that friends ......Works out great as long as neither end up wanting more...