Wow Sue you've dated some scum bags lol, unfortunetly I really need to learn to lie it would really do me some good in relationships lol! A girl asked me once do you think that girls hot I was like "sure" she was super pissed. Another time a girl was complaining about being fat, she wasn't fat at all I told her "Your Skinner then my sister" my other female friend asked me to walk out of the room she was like "You just called your sister and her fat".

Its stupid I'm brutally honest. One girl was saying to me "Man my last scum bag boy friend watched porn isn't that sick" I was like "Man I used to watch porn" it did not end well!

I really need to learn to lie a bit lol! Unfortunetly I'm not that capable of it!

Anyways my advice dump his ***, he's not only cheating on you (Yes if your talking dirty and flirting with married women with any intent other then being nice your cheating). But he is helping promote cheating with those women.

Those women who are openly cheating on their husbands need to be put in their place, they are going to hurt their husbands greatly and a guy should see the damage he is doing.

I always wonder how a guy can date a girl who is cheating, how would he like it if some *** hole was dating his dream woman.

As a child of divorce it appals me that a guy can do that to another guy and let alone the woman.

Though if my wife cheated I would likely try to save the marriage. I'm way to forgiving and if I love girl I always am willing to help her. Of course I would have my limits to how much I'd take before a divorce was filed too lol.

But your not married and have absolutely no reason to save anything!

I have a way with words, its a thing of beauty.

Erinx: I can totally relate to what happened to you, though it was not the exact same situation it was very similar. My ex-bf was a "compulsive liar" too...
It only takes courage to stand up and say "goodbye" and it hurts what he did, but eventually we all move on... or so they say...

I´m just glad many of the people here are not willing to put up with that and they have strong values as regards cheating and doing this "childinsh things" (I´m sorry, but I can´t stand that behaviour at all and the fact that he lied about it makes it just even worse)

So, stay strong girl!! :-)

I would hope the woman would have some self respect and tell him to get bent and leave him.

I'm shocked this is even a question but then you read the forums and see all the women that can't leave a bad guy who lies to them all the time.

cheating is doing something that you would not do with your partner there.

Use that criteria and you'll never be in doubt.

THIS IS ABSOLUTELY TRUE!..AND IT'S MUCH LESS MESSY TO BREAK UP THEN MOVE TO ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP,THAN CHEAT.,

That it had hurt my feelings and i realy like him or id flip and use a curse word id try for the first keep my cool

Actually it happend to me and i just gave him a stern look,he just went guilty and pretended he didnt do it