What would you do if you caught your boyfriend messaging married women, saying vulgar things to them, and when you confronted him about it and he denied it?
What would you do or say to him?

Nothing cause I don't believe in boyfriends.

I would say, "Good-bye".

Well, let's assume for the sake of argument I had a vagina and was in fact, not a lesbian. I'd leave.

Okay, and now, let's assume for a moment, I also had low self-esteem and low self-confidence... I'd complain to everyone I know and stay.

He's just not worth it, you know.

We did end it. :)

I just wanted to ask other people what they would've done in that situation. He was a complete jerk. And I know that I didn't deserve any of that crap that I put up with. And I'm a happier person because he's not in my life anymore.

I am very slowly adjusting to being single again.
And I'm wondering why I even left single-ville.

you should probably offer to give him a lap dance.we like those kinds of things ya know

I would not waste the breath it would take to say or do anthing more in his direction. I would have dropped him like the piece of trash that he revealed himself to be and do my best to disassociate myself from anything related to him.

Sorry you tangled with this kind of guy. Nobody gets a crystal ball.

But if you look back you might see where some of the warning signs were and maybe avoid them in the future. Good Luck. Keep your standards high.

Or as the younger set say "B-Bye".

I would say good-bye n be over it and also throw all his stufff out the door....

Out an upstairs window onto the lawn or driveway is more dramatic. LOL.

I don't know if you have any of his stuff but dramatic gestures will only make you look like you actually care when why should you? Doing demonstrative things only make you look like you are stooping to his level.

Since this guy's character is questionable and he could be dangerous I would suggest if you have any of his property remove it immediately to a nuetral location. Someplace where you can document his reciept of it. I would suggest video tapeing it being placed and locked in a prepaid storage locker and the key mailed to him that he must claim with in 30 days or loose with notification by reciepted mail.

If all you have is gifts or momentos be mature and responsible and put them in the trash if you don't want them. Since it is only going to remind you of this miserable experience I would quietly purge them and forget about it.

First of all he has no business texting married or un-married women vulgar things if he's your bf, so I'd have his bags packed and the locks on the doors changed before he could even begin to try to explain his SORRY *ss story! That's just what I would do. Don't put up with it, you deserve better. Good luck.

Good girl!

I had a few gifts. One in particular that I knew I didn't want. And I told him very calmly that I didn't want it and if he didn't want it that I was going to throw it away. I ended up giving it to his daughter because she was upset that we had ended things. And I felt like that was probably better than throwing it away.

Enjoy your life, drop the dead weight.

Yeah, noone deserves to be treated like that. You deserve so much more And you'll find it, because youre worth it

I would move on...to someone that enjoyed sexting with ME.

Best thing about sexting? Disease free!!!

Right...lol..so true..and can be very erotic and sexy if done the right way...Mental is stronger than physical ..I think, sometimes.