How would you feel when somebody ask you for secrete relationship or dating?

For me, it would be wrong. Something is wrong right from the start.

Many Years ago,Been There and It didn't work out. He is still with his wife and I've moved on with my life. We are still in each other lifes but only as close friends.

It's not easy to secrete a relationhsip. You need a specially designed endocrine system, with hormonal variables and a purely biochemically-driven, protein-based, dedicated operating system.

Bwahahaha. Magical...

Actually, in some cases, it's not quite that complicated to secrete a relationship. All that has to happen is you pizz away all your money on her, then when it's all gone she magically makes the relationship go away.

no chit same thing happened to me too

This is the 2010's....be open and just say, "Hey! I am in a relationship and I love the woman I am with. However, I cannot in good, clear conscience ask her to fulfill some of my fantasies for me. Could you imagine she and I having wild, kinky sex as the Osmond Twins and then trying to eat dinner with the kiddos and talk about "normal" family stuff? No way. So that is why I want to find a kinky gal to do my freaky stuff with".

Not that I approve of this, but I just think that it would be easier to be honest. Course, your current gal may hit you with a iron skillet and then cut your weiner off. But hey....you were honest right?

Be careful of having a secret relationship with a woman that you don't feel guilty about it but you think you should. Your higher power may send you a woman who has a clearer conscience than you and by helping you lets you know that you have a freedom of choice. The next thing you know your higher power has this other gift for you. :) I am so glad I made the right choice.

is she hot?

Humm if they want it to be a secret then most likely they are married or with someone or ashamed of ya and your only good for sex.................

Soooooooooooo nooooooooooooooope not for me...........

:/

They ought to want to shout to the heavens that I'm in love with them...if it's secret or they aren't happy that I care (assuming we've gone that far) then they probably aren't the one that really wants me.

Secrets hurt relationships.
Secret relationships hurt.

FIrst I would think they are just messing with you but if not I would not play that game.

ANYONE who is not proud to be in a relationship with you does not deserve you.

Chances are if they want to be in a secret relationship with you they will cheat on you.

Or your saftey is in jeaporday because they come from people who are too bigoted, backward, selfish, or abusive to allow her to have her own choices in the world.

Anyone of legal age who can not , or more honestly will not, vacate that kind of domanence in their life is then passing it on to you.

Hopefully you are smarter and healthyier than that.

Well since I have been propositioned this very question before I think its safe to say if he has a sweet ride then I smell long term.

In reality, secrets surface, always.