She Pays Now. Cause in a few yrs she's takin half or more of mine anyway.

Woman pays for everything.

You are... from Luxembourgh?

Ayeee!! Hide the booze and the men!!

A very pretty Jewish woman asked me once to go to a steakhouse, called "Octogon" just north of Toronto Porper, in Thornhill.

It was a Greek steakhouse. The stakes melted on your tongue.

They were lavishly padded on top with lobster, only the sweet spot of meat of the lobster.

Etc.

When the bill came, I reached for it, as she sweetly smiled on at me. She was blonde and two inches shorter than I.

I went out back to commit suicide, but luckily there was a small kiosk with a mortgage brokerage, right beside the coin-operated "arsenic" dispenser by the washrooms. Much like what you see in public gambling houses these days.

This was all well worth it, because although she said we should never meet again, ever, I could still go home with the proud awareness that my seventeen "adopted" kids in sub-Saharan Africa shall die of starvation and dehydration for a very good, noble, and worthwhile reason, which was that I was completely broke and my future income completely spoken for for every penny for the coming forty-eight months.

Another Amy who can't tell the difference between a French Canadian woman and a regular female black bear.

The main reason, I guess, is perhaps that there ain't any between the two. But still. It's like saying that platinum blonde bears are better in bed than black-haired bears.

...erm... I have to admit, in shame, that that is also true. You can believe this, when it's coming from a Canadian.

If it's just a beer or coffee,
"let me get this, you get the next one".

If it's dinner, whoever invited pays.

Would someone here like to invite me for dinner? Just about right now would hit the spot.

Dude...blonde bears are dumber than black-haired bears....but...all those bears like getting laid. So get those Canuck chicks drunk...then blame the mooses for everything that makes you look bad.

I blame Canada for everything (prove me wrong...I need another roll of toilet paper hung in my bathrooom....)

I simply prefer bears who ain't afraid of a Brazilian pubic wax.

Comments were pretty much all cool, thanks. I'm the originator of this topic and I worded it badly. If I ask, of course I pay. I was really asking "if a female contacts me is it always assumed the guy still picks up the tab". There are some "haters" out there, some great people out there and smartasses out there. I hope I have success on my little trip. Peace.

Not all women are the same, so no, not all women will assume you'll be paying.

Oh. This thread is about going out with someone.

Now, what am I going to do with the wooden shoes that I bought?


I wish that you humans would say exactly what you mean.

Does anyone have the telephone number for Doctor Scholl?

What part of the thread was confusing?

The title. We Melmacians take everything literally.

Hahahaaa! a most unexpected pair of Dutch woodies!

*I always expect a guy to pay*

Thanks, apology accepted.

If you think I am a smart ***, you should sometimes listen to what comes out of my mouth.

There may be haters on this site, but by-and-large we hide our hate well... the mods here are little angels who discipline with kindness, fairness and with bravado. Bravo!!

But seriously, you ain't seen nothin' yet if you see us as haters. You should visit some other forums... on other sites, of course. Now, THERE is hatred, but big time.

We are just cowardly, intimidated little bullies who become smaller and smaller because we fear the kindness of the mods, we fear our own fears, which is the realization, that we spent our entire lives in hatred, instead of the other way around.

I am so happy to be here... hmmmm.... no hatred.... hmmmmm.... comparatively.... mm-mm.

I suppose every woman is different. I think paying for your own coffee or paying for the other is fine either way. Afterall; its only a couple of dollars. I have bought my male and female friends coffee and sometimes even dinner so there is no set rule for me who pays or whether the person is male or female. I say go ahead and buy the coffee if that is what you are comfortable with. If she doesn't like that; I am sure she will let you know.

I suppose every woman is different. I think paying for your own coffee or paying for the other is fine either way. Afterall; its only a couple of dollars. I have bought my male and female friends coffee and sometimes even dinner so there is no set rule for me who pays or whether the person is male or female. I say go ahead and buy the coffee if that is what you are comfortable with. If she doesn't like that; I am sure she will let you know. I am a big fan of always paying my own way but don't mind if a man buys a cup of coffee.

Hey now Krupa paid when we went to breakfast and the friendship is going great....


Sorry the way I see it who every ask the other to go should be prepared to pay...It may not happen that way the other may offer to pay their part if not then pay the bill and don't whine about it...

Hummm not many dates lately huhh? lmao


Myself if I ask I'm prepared to pay and will in fact pay for my own if they ask.....

I almost always pay because I'm old fashioned. If she pays, it is because it was a gift that was agreed to in advance.

My friend's wife asked me out on a date with her and their two children last week (he was too busy to come). When the bill came she had one of the girls swipe it to prevent me from paying... then she didn't have enough money. I paid for the whole meal.