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Topic: What is your biggest barrier in a relation ship?
speedbug89 Joined Sun 03/18/12 Posts: 61	Tue 04/10/12 12:00 AM
For me tho im young. i have seen alot of bad ones between my father and step moms. then i have made my attempts. i have discovered lately that my biggest barrier is the pain and anger i have walled up within. if i get in a relation ship that is controling i break. but yet when there are feelings i get protective. i need to find my balance.

joy4gud Joined Sun 06/05/11 Posts: 3172	Tue 04/10/12 12:18 AM
Wow!

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Tue 04/10/12 12:20 AM
excellent,, I find imbalance is at the root of everything negative in our lives,,,

khiwarrior Joined Sun 04/01/12 Posts: 434	Tue 04/10/12 10:31 AM
finding a girl that is as hardcore as me but not actually completely nuts :-)

RavenousSin Joined Thu 02/23/12 Posts: 666	Tue 04/10/12 10:38 AM
I find imbalance is at the root of everything negative in our lives,,, I've come to this same realization. Balance is everything.

ShannonMarie21 Joined Thu 02/17/11 Posts: 1169	Tue 04/10/12 10:39 AM
My unwillingness to overlook his d*uchiness.

RavenousSin Joined Thu 02/23/12 Posts: 666	Tue 04/10/12 10:49 AM
My unwillingness to overlook his d*uchiness. Hmm, doesn't sound so unreasonable. Less of a barrier and more of a valuable trait for you to have.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 04/10/12 11:32 AM
Finding a woman who can handle my 10 inch.....brain

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Tue 04/10/12 12:07 PM
Finding a woman who can handle my 10 inch.....brain for me, just finding a woman... then i can worry about the rest after that...

ShannonMarie21 Joined Thu 02/17/11 Posts: 1169	Tue 04/10/12 01:03 PM
My unwillingness to overlook his d*uchiness. Hmm, doesn't sound so unreasonable. Less of a barrier and more of a valuable trait for you to have. It usually works out quite well for me. Haha

newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Tue 04/10/12 01:18 PM
I can't find any chick with a bass boat.......

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Tue 04/10/12 10:55 PM
A man that can put up with my doing the splits.

irisheyes79 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 16745	Wed 04/11/12 05:41 AM
Finding a woman who can handle my 10 inch.....brain hmmmmm theres that sayin well nvm

BadBoyD1985 Joined Wed 04/11/12 Posts: 22	Wed 04/11/12 06:18 AM Edited by BadBoyD1985 on Wed 04/11/12 06:22 AM
jealousy and distrust... my ex girlfriend ..erased all the numbers of females in my cell, even my mom LOL :) and I ain't having that. If there is no mutual trust in a relationship, it ain't gonna work..

Spidercmb Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 13137	Wed 04/11/12 06:23 AM
The distance.

BadBoyD1985 Joined Wed 04/11/12 Posts: 22	Wed 04/11/12 06:41 AM
The distance. yea that too... long distance relationships don't work out, wouldn't even start one like that to begin with, don't see a point..

Spidercmb Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 13137	Wed 04/11/12 06:43 AM
The distance. yea that too... long distance relationships don't work out, wouldn't even start one like that to begin with, don't see a point.. This one will work out, it's just hard being so far away right now.

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Wed 04/11/12 09:00 AM
I am not sure I find this as a barrier because I do not make it a habit to poison my life with negative stuff... However, I do not appreciate clingy needy people.

EquusDancer Joined Sun 04/05/09 Posts: 6281	Wed 04/11/12 10:44 AM
Animals, kids, religion, distance and then general attitude are what ends up as the main problems.

dobermangal Joined Fri 05/30/08 Posts: 133	Wed 04/11/12 10:58 AM
Finding someone that understands that I need more rest than the average person. If I pace myself I'm fine...but if not I'll need a "crash out" day.