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Edited by
manny809
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Sun 04/08/12 02:51 AM
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just a couple nice days n nights that caused me to think this but what do you think.Do women like it when you are straight with them upfront.(by the way im talking about when you just meet a girl)
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The direct approach has a very little success. Think of the hot women like timid deer you have to be calm and gentle or you'll frighten them off.
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I'm 100% real, 100% of the time. I don't bull&hit a girl into liking me, so she can hate me later. My rule is to always be upfront & honest about everything. I don't hold anything back. If a woman isn't cool with that, then we might have problems.
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Nope....women THINK they want the truth....but, they don't.
Try these little truths and see how far you get...... "Those pants make your butt look fat and give you a muffin top" "Your family is a freakshow" "You kiss like your mom" :) |
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Yes, the truth works better.
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Why would ya wanna Lie??????
The truth is the truth. 
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I would rather know than not no.
So what if I don't like the truth, my world won't end because of it,but my respect for you will end if you lie. |
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I once got a fish this....................big.
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I can handle it. Only losers put off telling it. Lot of them are scared. Better know you're a dick now then wait 'til later is all I'm saying.
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I can handle it. Only losers put off telling it. Lot of them are scared. Better know you're a dick now then wait 'til later is all I'm saying. I am NOT a dick..... nor have I ever been...... But...... I play one on the...... Internet!!!!!!! 
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Edited by
RavenousSin
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Sun 04/08/12 12:14 PM
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It's hard to say. As with anyone, you have to base it individually... unfortunately, not knowing someone, you may only have generalizations to work with.
So, generally speaking, many women state a desire for honesty but practically discourage when a guy is honest. It seems like trickery, and it probably is, but occasionally all you can do is let certain things out at a time. Not lie, but not tell the whole truth. There is telling too much too soon and that's not specific to any gender, just to people. Personally, I'd like to try to look for people who are open minded and accepting so that I can feel free to say more. This is quite a rarity. |
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Edited by
msharmony
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Sun 04/08/12 12:22 PM
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just a couple nice days n nights that caused me to think this but what do you think.Do women like it when you are straight with them upfront.(by the way im talking about when you just meet a girl) it depends upon what you mean by 'straight' if you mean do women like a man who only wants sex to be upfront about it,, I imagine the answer is usually yes I imagine its almost always better than being mislead into false hopes of something more ,,,,, and there is so much to talk about, its really not necessary to actually Lie or mislead anyone,,, and no reason to be rude or insulting for the sake of 'honesty' either,,, |
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just a couple nice days n nights that caused me to think this but what do you think.Do women like it when you are straight with them upfront.(by the way im talking about when you just meet a girl) it depends upon what you mean by 'straight' if you mean do women like a man who only wants sex to be upfront about it,, I imagine the answer is usually yes I imagine its almost always better than being mislead into false hopes of something more ,,,,, This has been my rule. If I'm not going to seek anything other than sex, I'm not going to claim anything else. Unfortunately this has been less than successful, but I'm not going to mislead someone like a lot of guys seem to. That's just a d-----bag move. |
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just a couple nice days n nights that caused me to think this but what do you think.Do women like it when you are straight with them upfront.(by the way im talking about when you just meet a girl) it depends upon what you mean by 'straight' if you mean do women like a man who only wants sex to be upfront about it,, I imagine the answer is usually yes I imagine its almost always better than being mislead into false hopes of something more ,,,,, This has been my rule. If I'm not going to seek anything other than sex, I'm not going to claim anything else. Unfortunately this has been less than successful, but I'm not going to mislead someone like a lot of guys seem to. That's just a d-----bag move. trust, you havent faced the wrath of a woman who has had her heart played with,,,, you have been successful,,,lol |
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Edited by
RavenousSin
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Sun 04/08/12 02:04 PM
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just a couple nice days n nights that caused me to think this but what do you think.Do women like it when you are straight with them upfront.(by the way im talking about when you just meet a girl) it depends upon what you mean by 'straight' if you mean do women like a man who only wants sex to be upfront about it,, I imagine the answer is usually yes I imagine its almost always better than being mislead into false hopes of something more ,,,,, This has been my rule. If I'm not going to seek anything other than sex, I'm not going to claim anything else. Unfortunately this has been less than successful, but I'm not going to mislead someone like a lot of guys seem to. That's just a d-----bag move. trust, you havent faced the wrath of a woman who has had her heart played with,,,, you have been successful,,,lol Haha, in that regard then... yes. Success. |
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What about men? Do they recommend/prefer lies as a means for women to get what they want? Oh no! I am so tired of them telling me what they think I want to hear, INSTEAD of the truth. It never works out when they do it that way.... |
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Ya, I guess it shoulda come with a precursor. If a guy wants to simply use a woman, he could prolly be more successful if he lies. If a relationship is the goal, it will go nowhere fast if youre caught lying. What about men? Do they recommend/prefer lies as a means for women to get what they want? I prefer truth so I deliver truth. Tit for tat. Mature women/men can handle it. |
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It's hard to say. As with anyone, you have to base it individually... unfortunately, not knowing someone, you may only have generalizations to work with. So, generally speaking, many women state a desire for honesty but practically discourage when a guy is honest. It seems like trickery, and it probably is, but occasionally all you can do is let certain things out at a time. Not lie, but not tell the whole truth. There is telling too much too soon and that's not specific to any gender, just to people. Personally, I'd like to try to look for people who are open minded and accepting so that I can feel free to say more. This is quite a rarity. Can you give us an example of how women have discouraged you when you were honest? |
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Truth!
Because really, who wants to date and get to know someone and then find out there is something there that's a deal-breaker. That makes it all a complete waste of time. |
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