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Topic: some women like to told the truth upfront
manny809 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 32	Sun 04/08/12 02:50 AM Edited by manny809 on Sun 04/08/12 02:51 AM
just a couple nice days n nights that caused me to think this but what do you think.Do women like it when you are straight with them upfront.(by the way im talking about when you just meet a girl)

JERMANICUS Joined Sat 01/28/12 Posts: 597	Sun 04/08/12 05:11 AM
The direct approach has a very little success. Think of the hot women like timid deer you have to be calm and gentle or you'll frighten them off.

Filmfreek Joined Sat 11/15/08 Posts: 2541	Sun 04/08/12 05:32 AM
I'm 100% real, 100% of the time. I don't bull&hit a girl into liking me, so she can hate me later. My rule is to always be upfront & honest about everything. I don't hold anything back. If a woman isn't cool with that, then we might have problems.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Sun 04/08/12 06:46 AM
Nope....women THINK they want the truth....but, they don't. Try these little truths and see how far you get...... "Those pants make your butt look fat and give you a muffin top" "Your family is a freakshow" "You kiss like your mom" :)

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 04/08/12 07:43 AM
Yes, the truth works better.

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Sun 04/08/12 07:45 AM
Why would ya wanna Lie?????? The truth is the truth.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Sun 04/08/12 08:02 AM
I would rather know than not no. So what if I don't like the truth, my world won't end because of it,but my respect for you will end if you lie.

mg1959 Joined Thu 04/05/07 Posts: 7872	Sun 04/08/12 08:09 AM
I once got a fish this....................big.

manny809 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 32	Sun 04/08/12 08:19 AM


MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Sun 04/08/12 08:29 AM
I can handle it. Only losers put off telling it. Lot of them are scared. Better know you're a dick now then wait 'til later is all I'm saying.

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Sun 04/08/12 08:32 AM
I can handle it. Only losers put off telling it. Lot of them are scared. Better know you're a dick now then wait 'til later is all I'm saying. I am NOT a dick..... nor have I ever been...... But...... I play one on the...... Internet!!!!!!!

RavenousSin Joined Thu 02/23/12 Posts: 666	Sun 04/08/12 12:12 PM Edited by RavenousSin on Sun 04/08/12 12:14 PM
It's hard to say. As with anyone, you have to base it individually... unfortunately, not knowing someone, you may only have generalizations to work with. So, generally speaking, many women state a desire for honesty but practically discourage when a guy is honest. It seems like trickery, and it probably is, but occasionally all you can do is let certain things out at a time. Not lie, but not tell the whole truth. There is telling too much too soon and that's not specific to any gender, just to people. Personally, I'd like to try to look for people who are open minded and accepting so that I can feel free to say more. This is quite a rarity.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sun 04/08/12 12:21 PM Edited by msharmony on Sun 04/08/12 12:22 PM
just a couple nice days n nights that caused me to think this but what do you think.Do women like it when you are straight with them upfront.(by the way im talking about when you just meet a girl) it depends upon what you mean by 'straight' if you mean do women like a man who only wants sex to be upfront about it,, I imagine the answer is usually yes I imagine its almost always better than being mislead into false hopes of something more ,,,,, and there is so much to talk about, its really not necessary to actually Lie or mislead anyone,,, and no reason to be rude or insulting for the sake of 'honesty' either,,,

RavenousSin Joined Thu 02/23/12 Posts: 666	Sun 04/08/12 12:25 PM
just a couple nice days n nights that caused me to think this but what do you think.Do women like it when you are straight with them upfront.(by the way im talking about when you just meet a girl) it depends upon what you mean by 'straight' if you mean do women like a man who only wants sex to be upfront about it,, I imagine the answer is usually yes I imagine its almost always better than being mislead into false hopes of something more ,,,,, This has been my rule. If I'm not going to seek anything other than sex, I'm not going to claim anything else. Unfortunately this has been less than successful, but I'm not going to mislead someone like a lot of guys seem to. That's just a d-----bag move.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sun 04/08/12 01:22 PM
just a couple nice days n nights that caused me to think this but what do you think.Do women like it when you are straight with them upfront.(by the way im talking about when you just meet a girl) it depends upon what you mean by 'straight' if you mean do women like a man who only wants sex to be upfront about it,, I imagine the answer is usually yes I imagine its almost always better than being mislead into false hopes of something more ,,,,, This has been my rule. If I'm not going to seek anything other than sex, I'm not going to claim anything else. Unfortunately this has been less than successful, but I'm not going to mislead someone like a lot of guys seem to. That's just a d-----bag move. trust, you havent faced the wrath of a woman who has had her heart played with,,,, you have been successful,,,lol

RavenousSin Joined Thu 02/23/12 Posts: 666	Sun 04/08/12 02:04 PM Edited by RavenousSin on Sun 04/08/12 02:04 PM
just a couple nice days n nights that caused me to think this but what do you think.Do women like it when you are straight with them upfront.(by the way im talking about when you just meet a girl) it depends upon what you mean by 'straight' if you mean do women like a man who only wants sex to be upfront about it,, I imagine the answer is usually yes I imagine its almost always better than being mislead into false hopes of something more ,,,,, This has been my rule. If I'm not going to seek anything other than sex, I'm not going to claim anything else. Unfortunately this has been less than successful, but I'm not going to mislead someone like a lot of guys seem to. That's just a d-----bag move. trust, you havent faced the wrath of a woman who has had her heart played with,,,, you have been successful,,,lol Haha, in that regard then... yes. Success.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Sun 04/08/12 03:10 PM
What about men? Do they recommend/prefer lies as a means for women to get what they want? Oh no! I am so tired of them telling me what they think I want to hear, INSTEAD of the truth. It never works out when they do it that way....

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Sun 04/08/12 03:11 PM
Ya, I guess it shoulda come with a precursor. If a guy wants to simply use a woman, he could prolly be more successful if he lies. If a relationship is the goal, it will go nowhere fast if youre caught lying. What about men? Do they recommend/prefer lies as a means for women to get what they want? I prefer truth so I deliver truth. Tit for tat. Mature women/men can handle it.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 04/08/12 03:34 PM
It's hard to say. As with anyone, you have to base it individually... unfortunately, not knowing someone, you may only have generalizations to work with. So, generally speaking, many women state a desire for honesty but practically discourage when a guy is honest. It seems like trickery, and it probably is, but occasionally all you can do is let certain things out at a time. Not lie, but not tell the whole truth. There is telling too much too soon and that's not specific to any gender, just to people. Personally, I'd like to try to look for people who are open minded and accepting so that I can feel free to say more. This is quite a rarity. Can you give us an example of how women have discouraged you when you were honest?

EquusDancer Joined Sun 04/05/09 Posts: 6281	Sun 04/08/12 04:06 PM
Truth! Because really, who wants to date and get to know someone and then find out there is something there that's a deal-breaker. That makes it all a complete waste of time.