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I absolutely want the truth up front. If you want to just be my friend, that's fine. But don't muddy our friendship up with other crap. Don't blur the lines. If you just want sex, that's fine. Either I'll be interested or I won't, but if I'm not, you shouldn't be trying to lie to me just to get some. There are other girls who will be interested, so don't be a d*uche and lie to me. If you are interested in seeing if something will develop relationship wise, if you want to date me, fine. We will go from there. And that, for me, is the bottom line.  Seriously. 
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It's hard to say. As with anyone, you have to base it individually... unfortunately, not knowing someone, you may only have generalizations to work with. So, generally speaking, many women state a desire for honesty but practically discourage when a guy is honest. It seems like trickery, and it probably is, but occasionally all you can do is let certain things out at a time. Not lie, but not tell the whole truth. There is telling too much too soon and that's not specific to any gender, just to people. Personally, I'd like to try to look for people who are open minded and accepting so that I can feel free to say more. This is quite a rarity. Can you give us an example of how women have discouraged you when you were honest? Wish I had a particular example of how some have in mind. I realize too that this is an extremely poor way to follow a point, granted I never said that I was personally discouraged. What you're saying doesn't make a lot of sense then, especially since you can't even follow up with an example. Well, you did want an example of something I didn't state to begin with (being personally discouraged). Personal examples are poor basis anyway due to bias, but here goes: when I realized I was attracted to an ex's friend and told her, the response was very much far from appreciating the honesty. Or when a friend was attracted to me and I let her know that by no means do I have any feelings for her (I didn't want to lead on a false possibility), she got upset at that and has since stopped talking altogether as friends. Truth can occasionally hurt and many people can't actually deal with it. I mentioned "many women" because the OP asked about women, but this isn't even a gender thing as just as many guys are the same. Of course, for either, this is mainly those who aren't all that mature (yet). You brought it up, which is why I asked you for an example. I would rather have honesty in both of these situations, even if it isn't exactly what I want to hear. I don't know anyone who would want to be lead on, rather than hearing the truth. |
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I absolutely want the truth up front. If you want to just be my friend, that's fine. But don't muddy our friendship up with other crap. Don't blur the lines. If you just want sex, that's fine. Either I'll be interested or I won't, but if I'm not, you shouldn't be trying to lie to me just to get some. There are other girls who will be interested, so don't be a d*uche and lie to me. If you are interested in seeing if something will develop relationship wise, if you want to date me, fine. We will go from there. And that, for me, is the bottom line. This can go both ways. I have landed in the friend zone a few times. I had assumed when I asked the women out for drinks, dinner, and eventually even away for the weekend, that was considered "dating". Then after becoming close and caring for these women I am told, "I don't think of you that way" or "It will ruin our friendship". What is a guy suppose to do at that point. My favorite is when they tell me I should get out there and meet someone, while they still want me around as a "friend" all the time. What women is going to want to date a man who spends a lot of time with a female friend. If I pursue others and stop spending time with them I get accused of only being their friend to sleep with them. If I continue spending time with them what chance to I have finding someone that wants more than friendship? Be specific in the beginning that you are asking them on a date. |
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I guess really with anyone it depends on how open-minded they are at the start and what they let matter for a first impression.
We as people are often more willing to look past flaws when we've gotten to know other traits of a person first. |
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Let's test this honesty theory.... This is the truth.... I love my woman so much. She is my smile and she makes it worth it to get up in the morning and try to earn my way to her. She is worth all the time I have spent alone. Cause I just refuse to settle for less....and she is so much more. I am as happy as I can remember being cause my women make my life good. (Soufie, Black Betty, Chatka, Blondie, Mom, Renee', Tresa and Judi) This is the lie.... I wanna just use Soufie for sex. Nasty, sweaty, passionate sex with kisses that suck your soul into mine and curl both of our toes. Sex that leaves us panting in the cool night air as candle light flickers across our bodies. Smiling in exhaustion and savoring the taste of that kiss. So...fess up ladies Truth or lie? Cools  Be nice if the rest of the penis population spoke in this style. I digress.
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I absolutely want the truth up front. If you want to just be my friend, that's fine. But don't muddy our friendship up with other crap. Don't blur the lines. If you just want sex, that's fine. Either I'll be interested or I won't, but if I'm not, you shouldn't be trying to lie to me just to get some. There are other girls who will be interested, so don't be a d*uche and lie to me. If you are interested in seeing if something will develop relationship wise, if you want to date me, fine. We will go from there. And that, for me, is the bottom line. Yeah. How about this: if you're NOT a single man quit acting like you are. Nothing gets to me more than another jack off pretending to be something he is not. |
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some women like to told the truth upfront hello this is Rod Serling it's well known that women perfer to be kept in a perpetual state of fantasy know as...... "The Twlight Zone" |
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some women like to told the truth upfront hello this is Rod Serling it's well known that women perfer to be kept in a perpetual state of fantasy know as...... "The Twlight Zone" this could explain why he has been married about 3 times. |
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some women like to told the truth upfront hello this is Rod Serling it's well known that women perfer to be kept in a perpetual state of fantasy know as...... "The Twlight Zone" this could explain why he has been married about 3 times. It could also explain the otherwise incomprehensible success of the "Twilight" franchise. |
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some women like to told the truth upfront hello this is Rod Serling it's well known that women perfer to be kept in a perpetual state of fantasy know as...... "The Twlight Zone" this could explain why he has been married about 3 times. or proof that he's been in the Twlight Zone atleast three times |
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some women like to told the truth upfront hello this is Rod Serling it's well known that women perfer to be kept in a perpetual state of fantasy know as...... "The Twlight Zone" this could explain why he has been married about 3 times. It could also explain the otherwise incomprehensible success of the "Twilight" franchise. I personally have never cared for that. |
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Edited by
BettyB
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Tue 04/10/12 09:27 AM
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some women like to told the truth upfront hello this is Rod Serling it's well known that women perfer to be kept in a perpetual state of fantasy know as...... "The Twlight Zone" this could explain why he has been married about 3 times. or proof that he's been in the Twlight Zone atleast three times  Sorry ..now I am in the Twilight Zone. I thought you said Rod Stewart. Ok...I will leave all  but I would still rather not be lied too. |
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Edited by
Jeanniebean
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Tue 04/10/12 09:36 AM
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I expect people to be honest. Not all people are, but I expect it.
Yes I want honesty always. I'm not going to fall apart if a person lies to me though. That is their cross to bare. A liar has to remember his lies so he does not contradict himself. As you get older, we don't remember as well. So its better to be honest. |
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some women like to told the truth upfront hello this is Rod Serling it's well known that women perfer to be kept in a perpetual state of fantasy know as...... "The Twlight Zone" this could explain why he has been married about 3 times. or proof that he's been in the Twlight Zone atleast three times Sorry ..now I am in the Twilight Zone. I thought you said Rod Stewart. Ok...I will leave all that would have made a good "Twilight Zone" episode |
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I absolutely want the truth up front. If you want to just be my friend, that's fine. But don't muddy our friendship up with other crap. Don't blur the lines. If you just want sex, that's fine. Either I'll be interested or I won't, but if I'm not, you shouldn't be trying to lie to me just to get some. There are other girls who will be interested, so don't be a d*uche and lie to me. If you are interested in seeing if something will develop relationship wise, if you want to date me, fine. We will go from there. And that, for me, is the bottom line. Yeah. How about this: if you're NOT a single man quit acting like you are. Nothing gets to me more than another jack off pretending to be something he is not. You speak the truth, Amiga! 
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but I would still rather not be lied too. perhaps a brief synopsis of the Truth |
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some women like to told the truth upfront hello this is Rod Serling it's well known that women perfer to be kept in a perpetual state of fantasy know as...... "The Twlight Zone" this could explain why he has been married about 3 times. or proof that he's been in the Twlight Zone atleast three times Sorry ..now I am in the Twilight Zone. I thought you said Rod Stewart. Ok...I will leave all that would have made a good "Twilight Zone" episode :laugh...Yes it sure would.
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I absolutely want the truth up front. If you want to just be my friend, that's fine. But don't muddy our friendship up with other crap. Don't blur the lines. If you just want sex, that's fine. Either I'll be interested or I won't, but if I'm not, you shouldn't be trying to lie to me just to get some. There are other girls who will be interested, so don't be a d*uche and lie to me. If you are interested in seeing if something will develop relationship wise, if you want to date me, fine. We will go from there. And that, for me, is the bottom line. Yeah. How about this: if you're NOT a single man quit acting like you are. Nothing gets to me more than another jack off pretending to be something he is not. You speak the truth, Amiga!
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Yes....they will often like your honesty and accept you for who you are...if you want a fling or a serious relationship,she will appreciate it better if u tell her upfront...
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hmmmmm most cant handle my thruth guess some thing are better left alone
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