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Topic: Do you think.......
FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 02/09/11 02:47 PM
Had me a bit ****ed up there for a second Beach.

Beachfarmer's photo
Wed 02/09/11 02:53 PM
laugh every time I get sentimental, it just brings back so many memories


......of being just as ****ed up as I am now

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Wed 02/09/11 03:02 PM

you are using your "dating" abilities right? I mean, are we looking, consciously or unconsciously for the same type of person we had before?????

If so, why????
Never looking for the same type...probably why I am still single!

msharmony's photo
Wed 02/09/11 03:26 PM

you are using your "dating" abilities right? I mean, are we looking, consciously or unconsciously for the same type of person we had before?????

If so, why????



I have found with age has come wisdom and I am fortunate to learn from mistakes rather than repeat them

I know now DATING has to be about making friends, not having sex and romance, making friends allows me to continue to be myself and allows them the same so that we are not looking to 'fall' for someone so badly that we become what we think that person wants in stead of remaining true to who we are and waiting for the person who wants us that way


I want the friendship of my first marriage without the infidelity and alcoholism, I want the fidelity of my second marriage without the emotional instability and emotional games

so from each relationship, what I Want has been reinforced by what was right and I have learned what I didnt want by what is wrong,,,it is an accumulative process

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Wed 02/09/11 03:29 PM

its like unfinished business.....huh


Oh honey , IDK about that! Me and my baby both finish our "business":wink:

Beachfarmer's photo
Wed 02/09/11 03:32 PM
rofl never go to bed without bigsmile GOING TO BED!

LMAO! I always thought that was such a "Male thing".

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Wed 02/09/11 03:44 PM

rofl never go to bed without bigsmile GOING TO BED!

LMAO! I always thought that was such a "Male thing".


if u read up on successful relationships, LTR - that seems to be a frequently occurring theme - frequent lovemaking - maybe not everyday, but I have read that successful couples seldom turn each other down!:wink:

Beachfarmer's photo
Wed 02/09/11 03:45 PM
Quit reading and take of your PJs!!!!!!

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Wed 02/09/11 03:52 PM

Quit reading and take of your PJs!!!!!!


but it's a little chilly

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