oh yes dear. i am single and looking for a kind hearted lady who is very respectful, humble,caring and loving.

oh yes dear. i am single and looking for a kind hearted lady who is very respectful, humble,caring and lovely.

i think its possible. knowing i am for real. there has to be another one out there as real as me also....

There is indeed. I'm from Southern California. The Lesbian capitol of the world. : ) I met someone online from Pelion, SC. It's a totally, wooded, red neck place thats on the opposite side of the US map from California. Anyway, after a few months of texts, messages, letters, phone calls, photos,, I actually moved here to live with her. We fell in love long distance. It's a better way to meet someone, because you can be forward, ask anything, and discuss everything. I felt like we already knew everything about each other before I ever met her in person. Well, we lived together for 13 years. The bad news is, we broke up 1 1/2 years ago. But I wouldn't trade the 13 years we shared together if I had it to do over. So keep the faith & keep looking.

I think you can but I don't think you should get your hopes up about it, because 9x outta 10 you'll end up right back on that same internet site looking for another date for whatever reasons why the first date didn't work out how you hoped it would. Lol unfortunately....

Im single and looking for a relationship. Any single women looking for the same? Havent had any luck here yet.

I think it ups our odds to look somewhere close to home. If you are young and willing to develope a life way far away from all existing friends and family you can sometines work out the details but as you get older and less mobile owning homes ect. nah.

BEWARE OF THEM!

Social media will show who your real friends and lovers are. Dont allow them to convince you that its just meaningless fun. Writing and typing feelings, quotes, updates and bios is not the same as blurting out the first thing that comes to your mind. It can be revised, spell checked, proofread, deleted and rewritten.
It is a written documentation of who that person really is. What are the chances of a person saying I was wrong, I cheated, I'm a compulsive liar, my life is bad. People use social media to cover up the turmoil that exist in our daily lives. Anyone can come up with fancy quotes or inspirational information and advice but does that person themselves live with that same dignity, responsibility and honor that they encourage strangers and friends to?. People are so misleading hoping to impress someone good but 7 times out of 10 they have misrepresented themselves and bring baggage, betrayal, lies into the life of someone who is genuinely good.
What you see is who they are and more often time who they are not.
In this day and time its so hard to find honest, trustworthy, caring, understanding, patient, loving, respectful, supportive, loyal friends. Everyone has an agenda. Often times you find yourself being the butt of the joke or the subject for a facebook post. Maybe you are being emotionally and mentally bullied by someone who themselves has been mentally or emotionally abused time and time again. There is a possibility that your kindness is mistaken for weakness, people make the mistake of not liking what they don't understand. They themselves need approval from the masses before being a individual. Sometimes a person is suffering more than they allow you to know and maybe he/she doesn't know that you just maybe suffering more than them.
Remember good people treat you good, encourage you to do good, make you feel good, say and do good things. Its not rocket science! If you have experienced more hurt, lies, deceit, unfaithfulness, mistrust than you have love, compassion and commitment then understand you should not be the blame, after all you done what every person does in a "ship" (relation,companion,etc) you gave your all it was just simply misused.
Beware of people posting to be good, take time out read their wall and info.
Just because someone is pretty or handsome doesn't guarantee them to be a choice for mate or friend! Although intentions may not have been bad you still must understand that every choice was a DECISION which means there was a option not to hurt you. If someone convincing you your hurt is unimportant or you should "get over it" it is important that you understand that there is not guilt or remorse involved only the urgency of your forgiveness in order for that person to feel relief but know when your love is being taken advantage of. If this happen more than once than you have absolutely no value in that person life. Do you apologize to fire for burning you? No. but you should have enough sense not to get burned again after fire only has one function..to burn.
If they are posting on dating sites and offering inbox gratification then understand there is no longer a us because they are doing them attempting to attract another you (sucker).
Do not let friends or lovers make excuses not to love, protect, appreciate or respect you. Most of the time the person who says "you get on their nerves, you make me mad" or is impatient with you normally doesn't understand that they also have faults and you may be more tolerable than they could imagine. This person finds more comfort in blame than accountability. You only keep quiet cause you value their feelings and overlook their faults..thats ok because that's called UNCONDITIONAL LOVE and it has no boundaries or limitations.
When only your compliments are not enough to satisfy the ego and your feelings are not in consideration or opinions don't matter then no you are of no worth only a doormat. How many times do you need to be told you are pretty, sexy, thick or ****able before you believe it? Perhaps maybe because the inner you is so ugly, nasty, insecure and troubled.

People who use social media to jump from relationship to relationship and convo to convo don't want long term relationships they want instant gratification (like a cyber prostitute if you will). You are nothing more than a temporary distraction from a chaotic, dysfunctional life.
People will give you what you take, don't mistake love for convenience of companionship.

If you allow yourself to come second or third place then your treatment is less than gold.
A person who cares for you does so in adversity no matter the situation. They should act the same outside your presence as well as they do in your presence.

If you offer everything in a relationship meaning emotional, mentally, financially etc than you shouldn't have to acquire that persons loyalty it should be offered freely and honestly. Its a lot easier to say "lets just be friends" than to offer you a healthy committed relationship.

Know your worth and know when your efforts are worthless.

Stop excepting third class accommodations when you are a first class passenger in your journey with GOD. Have the courage to know when you are not desired or appreciated. I guarantee there is someone ahead waiting to be everything you need them to be.

THINK TWICE WHO YOU SHARE YOUR FRIENDSHIP WITH IN LIFE AND THE .COM

What i seriously don't get, and can't stand, is when an obviously slutty person, starts asking why they got used for sex in their last relationships. I would have thought they had the brain capacity to figure that out. Apparantely they haven't. Pull the other one. They must think some of us are as dumb as THEY are. :)

only if you lower ones standards and change who you are i find that if i act not myself then i have no probs pickin ladies up

Yes there are serious men an women out here. I really can't tell how many alot don't want to have a conversation,about anything other than what they want. I do have friends that I do talk with that we talk about everything an even banter back an forth.Which is stimulating. I would love to go meet some of these people but can't aford it. So here I am meeting friends on here as hoping to meet someone that I would love to be with. If that happens it does if it doesen't so be it but at least I tried. An that is all we can do is try.

I'd say probably. In my experience of online dating many people did not look quite like they did in their pictures or how I expected (LoL I put on 20 pounds or so since my pic..but coming back off as we speak) LoL

That being said looks are not everything but it helps and it also double helps if a person is not mislead LoL. So alll mine have been misses but it is very possible otherwise.

Yes i believe that here are serious people too....

Absolutely i'm so serious i have absolutely nothing in my profile.

*Looks at his 'born on date'* Hmmmmmm....... HEY! Should I be getting some sort of complex now?

That is the main reason you are not married at this time.

Think about it. There is another thread, "is love something for which you sacrifice?" Sacrifice is not always the poetic, sentimentally grand and noble deed. Sometimes sacrifice is bitter and unpleasant, but not painful. Much like a man with a stinking foot or shirt-ends hanging out of his pants can pay for a date and can desire the date.

This is a typical case of sacrifice which is not heroic, but must be done.

That said... are you free next Friday?

You're right, Natia, but I am not one of them.

As long as we all know that.

You will never know until you try....and knowing is half the battle.

If they're still stalking their exes than no.

But I think so. Just hard to find.

i so agree