i would talk to the husband or wife and light a fire under his/her ass to break the news and face the consequences in the next 2 days. it's none of my business to taddle, and sometimes it can be worked out, sometimes it can't. they need to talk it out alone.

if the cheater in question doesn't deliver the news in 2 days, i would tell my friend, no excuses.

Hell no one told me but wait thats prolly cause my best friend was sleeping with her.I dunno u tell me?

Nope I play this for her

http://music.aol.com/video/before-he-cheats/carrie-underwood/1714499

Okay when it comes down to the truth and if you have ever been in the situation were the other was cheating on you. I have been there and lived through it. It's not a good feeling at all and would not wish it upon someone I hated even. But in all reality when it happens you have the gut feeling there are signs little things that happen. If you open your eyes you can see them most the time we want to ignore them. For if we put them to the back of our minds and no one says anything then we don't have to face the harsh reality of what is happening. It is tough to have your face drugged through the mud at someone elses satisfaction. All awhile your friends and family know but want say anything. I knew a lot of my friends knew it but did not say anything they knew he would go to far or sooner or later I would get enough of it and blow. Which no one knew that I was checking things out in my own way, but yeah when my friend brought it out she knew for a fact. It just caused me to go at it stronger with what I knew and thought. Once I was for sure others knew well I went at it full force till I had the truth before me. Hummm then I said what I had to say turned my back to him and never looked back. I let him dig his own hole to lay in did not dig it for him. As they say what comes around goes around I'm a true believer in that. I was not venditive to him in the least. And now we are civil to each other.

Been there and indeed did tell her. I would expect the same if it was me.

yeah i mean say the samething happend to you,wouldnt you want yur friend to tell you,hell you could end up wth crabs,but if i found out,id spray paint it on the house and the car and the and the roof..