It pains me to write this about nigerian girls but it the truth. I have been observing our girls and i discover that when they are on a social site like this, they tend to turn any attempt from nigerian guys down instead, runing after white guys on this site and other social site. How could you be runing after what you have within you in abroad when you really know that it is not sure for you, it a time wasting that would have been use to build up a better relationship here at home? As a result of this habit, i am always turn off in sending a request to them because it is not all of them that know what they want, they want to be rich without a sacrifice. It is not possible. Nothing good comes easy in this life, a sacrifice is associated with success in life.

not all white men r rich,they have to work hard too, hence i find it odd that u say that becos nigerians r such cultured people, i am not nigerian but i have friends who r and they stick to their own, i happen to fall inlove with a white guy who i dated for 5yrs, its more towards love than chasing vanity,
so sorry tho maybe u should try white chocolate girls

My two cents...

This only one web site and you should perhaps look around a bit more. Of all races you will find people that prefer other races etc. This might be more prevalent in certain cultures but come on - in this world look at how many women there are. Just focus on what you want and I am sure you will get it eventually. I wouldn't worry about women who don't want you simply because they don't want you . So yo may as well give your attention to those that do (there are many out there).

To sexyfish. U may not understand because u r not a man, also we guy in naija also work hand for our money. The truth is that, don't compare those in canada to those at home because if they happen to be in naija, they would have done the same thing. Naija is bless with resources but corruption has taken over that is why want to travel by all means.

Scammers exist of all nationalities and colors. A lot of girls from foreign countries don't care about the guy's color. They just want to move to America. The whole American dream thing. I broke up with a Canadian who wanted to marry me. He was not a scammer because his whole family and friends took this attitude that "the American girl" was just trying "to land the rich Canadian". I love America and would never leave. I loved him but I told him I was just not willing to live somewhere that everyone would constantly challenge my love for him and say I was after his money and wanted to be a Canadian when neither was true. What the final straw was for me when was when his own sister said, "What's wrong with the women here that you need to import some hussy from California?" It broke my heart she thought that way and ultimately ended a very good relationship.

Teadipper, it just a pity. Hope u have found love again cos i felt for u.

Ha! That is most women, not just Nigerian girls.

Yea I dont think its regionally specific. Lots of poeple dream of a life that doesn't actually exist.

It is easy to see green grass over there, its hard to find and nurture the green grass over here.

Yea u r right, u have said it all. Thanks man.