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Topic: Inter racial dating
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Thu 03/15/12 08:25 AM
That is one of the strangest posts I have ever read.

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Thu 03/15/12 08:33 AM

The term interracial applies to many cultures. More commonly known as IR... My family is quite diverse and an argument can be made for the strong and weak relationships between all concerned, which have spawned generations of mixed race children.

I date black women, just not ugly ones. I'd tear that *** up too!

Asian women actually marry more white men than white women marry black men.

White women have an issue with latinos because many are Mexican and have limited education. They don't even bother to date them because Mexican men are rumored to be traditional.

I'm Spanish-Portuguese btw, but I actually know more about black culture and history than most because I read more and interact with many black folks.

If your just looking to date and shag a white woman don't play up your culture. Just play some Rick James and tell them what a wonderful relationship he had with Teena Marie because it was audio-centric.

Women buy into black men because:

a. they think black men are a fix.
b. they want to be excessively complimented.
c. they think there is something disarming about the physicality of the black male.
d. they wish to set a pattern of self destruction.

They only issue is within the minds of the persons dating. Mating is a virtual given.

So why would someone date out of their race?







..because they are attracted to or interested in or enjoy the company of someone who happens to not be of their race,,,,

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Thu 03/15/12 10:33 AM
Absolutely no difference. Men come in all shapes and sizes and some are good, some are not so good.

The trick is finding someone you love full stop regardless of what colour they are.

Sometimes there can be problems dating interracially but a strong enough couple will get through it and not be affected by outside influences.

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Thu 03/15/12 12:21 PM

Absolutely no difference. Men come in all shapes and sizes and some are good, some are not so good.

The trick is finding someone you love full stop regardless of what colour they are.

Sometimes there can be problems dating interracially but a strong enough couple will get through it and not be affected by outside influences.


thats true, some regions are more tolerant than others, but thats a great thing about America, so many places and cultures within it to choose from

ITs not as easy as in the Netherlands, but you can get in where you fit in and find places that fit the environment and style you wish to live in,,,

oldsage's photo
Thu 03/15/12 12:33 PM
We ALL bleed red. Made that decision in about 1967. We should all be over the "RACE" thing.

msharmony's photo
Thu 03/15/12 12:36 PM

We ALL bleed red. Made that decision in about 1967. We should all be over the "RACE" thing.


RACE is a difference that should not define others for us

but it is a significant marker for individuals to appreciate their own unique circumstances and their own unique ancestral history

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Thu 03/15/12 12:53 PM

We ALL bleed red. Made that decision in about 1967. We should all be over the "RACE" thing.


I don’t think you can have an interracial relationship and ignore/forget about race. It is important but it shouldn’t be the most important thing that draws two people together.

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Fri 03/16/12 10:08 PM
THROUGH AGREEMENT,MARRIAGE CAN BE POSSIBLE AND ONE PARTNER CAN EVEN HELP TO TAKE AWAY THE SUPERSTITION OF THE OTHER,WE ARE NOT IN THE OLDEN DAYS AND IN CHRIST,WE ARE ALL ONE

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Sat 03/17/12 04:59 AM
Edited by strongback1 on Sat 03/17/12 05:02 AM

The term interracial applies to many cultures. More commonly known as IR... My family is quite diverse and an argument can be made for the strong and weak relationships between all concerned, which have spawned generations of mixed race children.

I date black women, just not ugly ones. I'd tear that *** up too!

Asian women actually marry more white men than white women marry black men.

White women have an issue with latinos because many are Mexican and have limited education. They don't even bother to date them because Mexican men are rumored to be traditional.

I'm Spanish-Portuguese btw, but I actually know more about black culture and history than most because I read more and interact with many black folks.

If your just looking to date and shag a white woman don't play up your culture. Just play some Rick James and tell them what a wonderful relationship he had with Teena Marie because it was audio-centric.

Women buy into black men because:

a. they think black men are a fix.
b. they want to be excessively complimented.
c. they think there is something disarming about the physicality of the black male.
d. they wish to set a pattern of self destruction.

They only issue is within the minds of the persons dating. Mating is a virtual given.

So why would someone date out of their race?






Spanish huh? So friging arrogant thinking you are an authority on black folks and why women "buy into black" like we are some sub human species . You know nothing about black culture and I dare you to come to England speaking that trash. I slept with loads of white women but I can't profess to be an authority on anything except for what I like.

You and your colonial mind set has no space in modern society - you clearly think you are smart but I see through your pseudo intellectual racism.

You don't sleep with ugly black women no? Because you can tell whats ugly from what isn't right? Cos you get girls right?

"please don't contact me if you are ugly"..but it's all right for you to have a few extra pounds? prick.

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Sat 03/17/12 06:00 AM




Spanish huh? So friging arrogant thinking you are an authority on black folks and why women "buy into black" like we are some sub human species . You know nothing about black culture and I dare you to come to England speaking that trash. I slept with loads of white women but I can't profess to be an authority on anything except for what I like.

You and your colonial mind set has no space in modern society - you clearly think you are smart but I see through your pseudo intellectual racism.

You don't sleep with ugly black women no? Because you can tell whats ugly from what isn't right? Cos you get girls right?

"please don't contact me if you are ugly"..but it's all right for you to have a few extra pounds? prick.





thank you for saying that strongback 1. he also obviously has an issue with black men. i'm an american woman who has been living in england for half my life and that type of bs is typical.

i say date who you want. but for me, a woman who exclusively dated white men when i was younger, i am all about black men right now. i guess i had to get over my issues, and now, i really like the idea of being with someone who is like me. it goes without saying that race is not the end all and be all of compatibility, but its something that i never experienced in my younger days. it also doesn't mean that i would never date outside of my race, i just have a different preference now.

much love to everyone no matter who you are into xo

Seakolony's photo
Sat 03/17/12 07:18 AM
I am an Interracial child.......so it seems all my rlationship are interracial or intraracial......

Corkycat's photo
Sat 03/17/12 08:18 AM
Love is colour blind.

Love is a universal language.

My Aunt married a black man just after the Second World War.

That was still at a time when people were prejudiced. I was brought up to judge people by the way they treated me, not by the colour of their skin. Certain derogatory words were banned in our household and God help you if we ever dared to utter one.

My cousins of course, were mixed race but we never even noticed. They were our cousins - end of.

Sadly, my Uncle died young from a massive heart attack. I can just remember him as I was about 3 or 4 years old at the time. I remember him as a kind, happy, smiling man - a lovely person.

My Aunt never looked at another man again and died in her 90s still a widow. She once said she would never find another man who could fill her husband's shoes.

They truly loved each other.

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Sat 03/17/12 08:36 AM

But dont you think beliefs and culture would serve as an issue?


I think that can easily be a problem with those of the same race.

RavenousSin's photo
Sun 03/18/12 04:08 PM


The term interracial applies to many cultures. More commonly known as IR... My family is quite diverse and an argument can be made for the strong and weak relationships between all concerned, which have spawned generations of mixed race children.

I date black women, just not ugly ones. I'd tear that *** up too!

Asian women actually marry more white men than white women marry black men.

White women have an issue with latinos because many are Mexican and have limited education. They don't even bother to date them because Mexican men are rumored to be traditional.

I'm Spanish-Portuguese btw, but I actually know more about black culture and history than most because I read more and interact with many black folks.

If your just looking to date and shag a white woman don't play up your culture. Just play some Rick James and tell them what a wonderful relationship he had with Teena Marie because it was audio-centric.

Women buy into black men because:

a. they think black men are a fix.
b. they want to be excessively complimented.
c. they think there is something disarming about the physicality of the black male.
d. they wish to set a pattern of self destruction.

They only issue is within the minds of the persons dating. Mating is a virtual given.

So why would someone date out of their race?






Spanish huh? So friging arrogant thinking you are an authority on black folks and why women "buy into black" like we are some sub human species . You know nothing about black culture and I dare you to come to England speaking that trash. I slept with loads of white women but I can't profess to be an authority on anything except for what I like.

You and your colonial mind set has no space in modern society - you clearly think you are smart but I see through your pseudo intellectual racism.

You don't sleep with ugly black women no? Because you can tell whats ugly from what isn't right? Cos you get girls right?

"please don't contact me if you are ugly"..but it's all right for you to have a few extra pounds? prick.

I f-ckin' love you right now.

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Sun 03/18/12 04:24 PM


But dont you think beliefs and culture would serve as an issue?


I think that can easily be a problem with those of the same race.


Yes! flowerforyou

Genetics itself doesn't matter - its everything else tied to culture, values, and experience which could (but need not) matter.

I've got far more in common with the black, asian, and hispanic people that I work with than I do with any white billionaires.

I've decided not to hang out with certain white women because they were such indiscriminate, excessive consumers, or because they were not sufficiently interested in having a reality-based worldview.

We were the same race, but beliefs and culture were an issue.

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Sun 03/18/12 04:24 PM
Race?? Let me know who wins, OK?

A childs game! Some never grow up.

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Sun 03/18/12 04:28 PM

But dont you think beliefs and culture would serve as an issue?


What does race have to do with beliefs and culture? IF for say I am from Louisiana and date another girl from Louisiana who happens to be another race it doesn't mean we have different cultures or beliefs.

In fact maybe I marry a white girl from Russia. Now we are the same race but we have different cultures etc.

Culture are race are not inclusive.

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Tue 03/20/12 07:40 AM


My Aunt never looked at another man again and died in her 90s still a widow. She once said she would never find another man who could fill her husband's shoes.




Truly touching story.

However - I guess there's some truth to the saying "Once you go"...ahh forget it, totally inappropriate. I'm sorry :/

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Tue 03/20/12 07:56 AM

That is one of the strangest posts I have ever read.



laugh

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