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I find so many of my friends can't find "a good man" but then you get into their requirements and it's ridiculous. I am 41. At this age, almost all guys have kids who are single/divorced and my friends want to be their only baby momma or to be the focus of the guy's entire life or not have him talk to his ex. A lot of the guys our age are broke from paying alimony and child support and they want the guys to be wealthy. Also the economy sucks right now and a lot of good men are underemployed. They will not date a bald guy. Yet at this age, most of them have had their hair migrate off their head, down their back and to the azz. They want the physically fit super built men. Most of those guys blew out knees, ankles, shoulders, elbows, by now playing sports They don't want the guy with glasses. Not all women are that way but I know so many and then they wonder why they are disappointed. Any thoughts?  WOWWWWW i didnt know it was that hard being a guy lolllllllll and thanks for letting me know what they looking for lollll i feel scared now thou lolllll
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Honestly most people look and worry to much about things and people in life i don't worry like that lolllll omg it would drive me nuts as long as the woman is honest and caring and loves me for me i am happy but hey i not found that 1 yet too lolll but then again i have not really looked that much either lol when you think about it no 1 in this world is perfect and we all have flaws but the more people dwell on every little flaw the more a person is alone till they turn 50-80 and say omg i should of dated that guy from the past lol he was such a nice cool guy too now my friend has him dam lolllll i mean we all get older and we all going to change i sure am not fussy i respect people for who they are as long as they have a good heart and caring its what counts to me more then any looks in my books have a awesome day:)
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I was just thinking about this. About women and all of their criteria. Don't forget men have to have everything in their life together and be perfect. Men have all kinds of preferences, too. This isn't just a woman thing. Thanks for this nice effort for avoiding generalization again. |
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WOWWWWW i didnt know it was that hard being a guy lolllllllll and thanks for letting me know what they looking for lollll i feel scared now thou lolllll
I feel your pain, bro
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Any thoughts? Not at THIS moment in time, but you can contact my agent. I have a TV show to get to. |
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WOWWWWW i didnt know it was that hard being a guy lolllllllll and thanks for letting me know what they looking for lollll i feel scared now thou lolllll
I feel your pain, bro
lollllll i got no pain i feel the pain for the ladys that got to look for ages till they get what they want lolllllllll it is hard being a guy to suit a woman who wants every 1 perfect lolll but then again a lot of guys are fussy on ladys but i sure am not lol cheers
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Edited by
prashant01
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Mon 03/12/12 10:34 AM
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WOWWWWW i didnt know it was that hard being a guy lolllllllll and thanks for letting me know what they looking for lollll i feel scared now thou lolllll
I feel your pain, bro
Don't know which bro's pain are you sensing ,sis! but I think it better to clear that the first statement in the quote is not mine & I usually gets happy when I see something against unfair generalization. 
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Saw a profile that said: I hate shallow people! To respond to me you must be over 25 and under 35. At least 6' tall, in good physical condition. Have a good paying job, with good benefits. A car less than 4 years old, either own or buying a home. You must be single and white. No forigners, no fat guys, no gimps. i know what you mean dude thats why thats person is still single and looking lolllllllll cheers
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Hey ujGearhead, And do you have an active social life which includes dating? I do... and I've been accused of being a "player". Sometimes, a guy just can't win! Oh, did I mention that I don't watch sports and can dance??? Maybe that makes up for the lack of ponytail? :-) Where's sweetestgirl? She's been looking for someone who doesn't watch sports! |
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Hey ujGearhead, And do you have an active social life which includes dating? I do... and I've been accused of being a "player". Sometimes, a guy just can't win! Oh, did I mention that I don't watch sports and can dance??? Maybe that makes up for the lack of ponytail? :-) Humm ya got a plus there you cook too shshs nothing like a man in the kitchen.... 
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Edited by
Corkycat
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Mon 03/12/12 11:35 AM
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I find so many of my friends can't find "a good man" but then you get into their requirements and it's ridiculous. I am 41. At this age, almost all guys have kids who are single/divorced and my friends want to be their only baby momma or to be the focus of the guy's entire life or not have him talk to his ex. A lot of the guys our age are broke from paying alimony and child support and they want the guys to be wealthy. Also the economy sucks right now and a lot of good men are underemployed. They will not date a bald guy. Yet at this age, most of them have had their hair migrate off their head, down their back and to the azz. They want the physically fit super built men. Most of those guys blew out knees, ankles, shoulders, elbows, by now playing sports They don't want the guy with glasses. Not all women are that way but I know so many and then they wonder why they are disappointed. Any thoughts? Might be true for some women but definitely not for me. It is a double edged sword. I'm 55 don't look it as you can see from my pic but I have more grey hair than red so dye it these days and I wear partial dentures. Does this bother me, yes it does and I have to give myself a mental shake and think the poor guy is probably just as worried about himself, probably got grey hair, dentures, is bald/going bald etc etc., but at the end of the day we all grow older and in any case, it's what's inside that counts. My son is only 25 and like his father he's gone prematurely bald. Does it worry him and put the girls off? No. Patrick Stewart who plays the part of Captain Jean Luc Picard in Star Trek, The Next Generation is bald and in my opinion is one of the sexiest men around :) |
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WOWWWWW i didnt know it was that hard being a guy lolllllllll and thanks for letting me know what they looking for lollll i feel scared now thou lolllll
I feel your pain, bro
Don't know which bro's pain are you sensing ,sis! but I think it better to clear that the first statement in the quote is not mine & I usually gets happy when I see something against unfair generalization.
I meant Cheer_Up. lol. I meant 'pain' in a joking manner. |
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Shannon Marie 21, my non-negotiables are the same. She must be pretty and slim.
My negotiables are US gov bonds, American Express Traveller's Cheques, Swedish Gesunderandener, and gold nuggets. Sorry, no Chiclets. |
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Some men and women alike have some unrealistic expectations.
Definetly at my age. I avoid those and just go with the flow. I'm not bald....I just prefer to shave my head. Wore my hair very long for many yrs. Can still grow a nice head of hair if I want to. I am physically fit, in the best shape of my life at 52. I'm not broke, but have paid much child support. My kids are grown with kids. My expectations are an Honest woman with Integrity. A sense of humor, respectful of others, and a nice figger.......
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Those are a lot of the reasons a lot of people spend their Saturday nights dateless.
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I was just thinking about this. About women and all of their criteria. Don't forget men have to have everything in their life together and be perfect. Men have all kinds of preferences, too. This isn't just a woman thing. Exactly. I am no longer a young, thin hottie and most guys my age are looking for someone they can relive their youth with. But, I understand what you are saying. The good ones out there probably run into just as many shallow women looking for hard bodies and money. The fact is, male or female, there's not that great a selection for a good partner in life. So, when you find one, hold on tight. |
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The fact is, male or female, there's not that great a selection for a good partner in life. So, when you find one, hold on tight.
You said it, Ruth! |
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I am kind of amazed how often people will walk right past people who would treat them fine, even treasure them, to run after some kind of phoney romantic scenario. Instead of seeing a person in a repsectable safe place they are willing to meet in some sleezy bar, get half drunk, go tot thier home being vunerable to almost anything , and then drag home thinking it just must be love.
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Picky people are lonely people...but, not saying you should settle...just that you should put things in perspective and shop on your side of the market.
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I was just thinking about this. About women and all of their criteria. Don't forget men have to have everything in their life together and be perfect. Men have all kinds of preferences, too. This isn't just a woman thing. Exactly. I am no longer a young, thin hottie and most guys my age are looking for someone they can relive their youth with. But, I understand what you are saying. The good ones out there probably run into just as many shallow women looking for hard bodies and money. The fact is, male or female, there's not that great a selection for a good partner in life. So, when you find one, hold on tight. I was never the skinny little girl a lot of men seem to look for. But, over the last year or so, I've realized that a lot of men don't really mind that at all. And these guys are younger, as I tend to date my age or younger. |
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