Topic: what is your best/worst quality?
pennyg281's photo
Fri 03/09/12 07:14 AM
What quality do you have that makes you aattractive to others?
What about yourself do you think themay be hindering you from finding the one?
For me the positive would be that im very non-judgemental.
the negataive. would be my weight and the fact that I have a hard time walking.

soufiehere's photo
Fri 03/09/12 07:26 AM
Great question Penny :-)

Good=Freakily empathetic.
Bad=Super analytical (note it starts with anal!)

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Fri 03/09/12 07:33 AM

What quality do you have that makes you aattractive to others?


I don't think I really am attractive to others, or at least I've seen very very little to indicate this.

Trying to be objective and see things in myself from an outside perspective, I would think that my intellect, sense of humor, and creativity would be considered attractive, but evidently these are not the kinds of things people are interested in....


What about yourself do you think themay be hindering you from finding the one?


People tell me I'm "intimidating and complicated" a lot, which I really don't see at all, but that's their perception. I suppose for some, the no-kids, no-drinking thing is a disincentive. The Asperger's thing probably doesn't help a lot, either!

RoamingOrator's photo
Fri 03/09/12 07:43 AM
Quality that might make me attractive: I'm a great story teller


Quality that would be a turn off: When I open my mouth and start talking


Aaah yes, the old Catch-22!!! noway noway

Beavis31's photo
Fri 03/09/12 08:30 AM
im too nice and im too nice

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Fri 03/09/12 11:29 AM
best;
i'm ****ing magnificent.
worst;
my head's ****ed up.

Totage's photo
Fri 03/09/12 11:43 AM

What quality do you have that makes you aattractive to others?
What about yourself do you think themay be hindering you from finding the one?
For me the positive would be that im very non-judgemental.
the negataive. would be my weight and the fact that I have a hard time walking.


I found me love, what attracts her to me will remain one of the great mysteries. :P

Work on improving the negatives you see in yourself, don't let them hinder you from finding love and happiness. Nobody is perfect, and we all have things we can work on, and if you are aware of issues you could work on, you're just that more ahead of some who choose to ignore their issues.

Just don't change for anyone but yourself. Learn to love you for who you are. If you can't love yourself, work on that. You don't have to be perfect to find love, but you have to love and accept yourself before you can find love.

pennyg281's photo
Fri 03/09/12 05:29 PM
Edited by pennyg281 on Fri 03/09/12 05:31 PM


What quality do you have that makes you aattractive to others?
What about yourself do you think themay be hindering you from finding the one?
For me the positive would be that im very non-judgemental.
the negataive. would be my weight and the fact that I have a hard time walking.


I found me love, what attracts her to me will remain one of the great mysteries. :P

Work on improving the negatives you see in yourself, don't let them hinder you from finding love and happiness. Nobody is perfect, and we all have things we can work on, and if you are aware of issues you could work on, you're just that more ahead of some who choose to ignore their issues.

Just don't change for anyone but yourself. Learn to love you for who you are. If you can't love yourself, work on that. You don't have to be perfect to find love, but you have to love and accept yourself before you can find love.


:thumbsup: great advise. :)

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Fri 03/09/12 05:32 PM
Best....I'm a Funny Guy.

Worst....I'm a sarcastic @zzhole.

Sums it up I guess!!!

RainbowTrout's photo
Fri 03/09/12 07:28 PM
I think my best quality is my insignificance.
I think my worse quality is when I think I am somebody.