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Topic: Can human love be unconditional?
sheen_sabzaar's photo
Thu 03/01/12 08:13 PM
Human love can never be unconditional.Our love is as imperfect as we humans ourselves r.No woman can love a man who does not provide her food n shelter n no man loves a woman who can not provide sexual pleasure.Only parents love is mostly unconditional but in their old age even they have the expectation to be looked after.Only Gods love for humans is completely onconditional.

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Thu 03/01/12 08:21 PM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Thu 03/01/12 08:23 PM

Human love can never be unconditional.Our love is as imperfect as we humans ourselves r.No woman can love a man who does not provide her food n shelter n no man loves a woman who can not provide sexual pleasure.Only parents love is mostly unconditional but in their old age even they have the expectation to be looked after.Only Gods love for humans is completely onconditional.


Really? Are you serious? No man can love a woman who cannot provide sexual pleasure?rofl

What you are calling "love" is not love AT ALL.

And you really think love for a man from a woman is about him providing her food and shelter?rofl

You have never experienced love if you actually believe this.


sheen_sabzaar's photo
Thu 03/01/12 08:31 PM


Human love can never be unconditional.Our love is as imperfect as we humans ourselves r.No woman can love a man who does not provide her food n shelter n no man loves a woman who can not provide sexual pleasure.Only parents love is mostly unconditional but in their old age even they have the expectation to be looked after.Only Gods love for humans is completely onconditional.


Really? Are you serious? No man can love a woman who cannot provide sexual pleasure?rofl

What you are calling "love" is not love AT ALL.

And you really think love for a man from a woman is about him providing her food and shelter?rofl

You have never experienced love if you actually believe this.



fren i think these are bitter realities of lyfe.love i experienced is love within marriage n marriage has its rules n preconditions for love.u give me food n shelter n i provide u sex.sound financial security is a must for a sucessful n happy marriage coz when poverty enters through doors love disappears through windows.

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Thu 03/01/12 08:48 PM



Human love can never be unconditional.Our love is as imperfect as we humans ourselves r.No woman can love a man who does not provide her food n shelter n no man loves a woman who can not provide sexual pleasure.Only parents love is mostly unconditional but in their old age even they have the expectation to be looked after.Only Gods love for humans is completely onconditional.


Really? Are you serious? No man can love a woman who cannot provide sexual pleasure?rofl

What you are calling "love" is not love AT ALL.

And you really think love for a man from a woman is about him providing her food and shelter?rofl

You have never experienced love if you actually believe this.



fren i think these are bitter realities of lyfe.love i experienced is love within marriage n marriage has its rules n preconditions for love.u give me food n shelter n i provide u sex.sound financial security is a must for a sucessful n happy marriage coz when poverty enters through doors love disappears through windows.



Sorry, but they are not connected. Money can't buy you love.
It can buy you sex, but not love.

It can provide food and shelter, but money can't buy you love.






navygirl's photo
Thu 03/01/12 08:48 PM
Of course love is conditional. No one is going to love someone without being loved back. The minute you expect love back then its a condition. A parents love isn't always unconditional either as I know some parents that truly do not love their kids. Pets will love you only if you feed them or pay attention to them so thats a condition.

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Thu 03/01/12 08:52 PM
I think liking a person is conditional. I think staying married to a person is conditional. But if you are talking real love, in its pure form, it is unconditional. It can't be bought, sold or bargained for.



Anything you call "love" that is conditional is not love.


Totage's photo
Thu 03/01/12 08:52 PM

Pets will love you only if you feed them or pay attention to them so thats a condition.


Except for cats, they don't love, they just tolerate. :P

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Thu 03/01/12 08:56 PM


Pets will love you only if you feed them or pay attention to them so thats a condition.


Except for cats, they don't love, they just tolerate. :P



I have a sign in my house about my cats. It says "I love my cats unconditionally. They just stay around for the food and shelter."

Its true. Cats are very lovable... especially when they are hungry.

When I run out of cat food.... and there is nothing in their dish....

suddenly there is a meeting. I am surrounded by cats.

I drop everything and go to the store to get cat food.

Some people say that cats will eat you. If I were as small as a rabbit, they would regard me as prey.

And after all I've done for them!rant

I love them unconditionally anyway.tongue2 :heart: :heart: drinker


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Thu 03/01/12 08:58 PM

How can you NOT love this unconditionally?




JERMANICUS's photo
Thu 03/01/12 09:36 PM
He's trying to say there's a primal Hunter/Gatherer attitude that's in men and women no matter what people think. At least I think that's what he's trying to say. Love is an illusion it's just brain chemicals deluding you.

earthytaurus76's photo
Thu 03/01/12 09:40 PM
Oo oo wo-man. MEAT!

Bravalady's photo
Thu 03/01/12 10:17 PM


Human love can never be unconditional.Our love is as imperfect as we humans ourselves r.No woman can love a man who does not provide her food n shelter n no man loves a woman who can not provide sexual pleasure.Only parents love is mostly unconditional but in their old age even they have the expectation to be looked after.Only Gods love for humans is completely onconditional.


Really? Are you serious? No man can love a woman who cannot provide sexual pleasure?rofl

What you are calling "love" is not love AT ALL.

And you really think love for a man from a woman is about him providing her food and shelter?rofl

You have never experienced love if you actually believe this.




Agree 100%.

The unconditional part is what makes it so hard to let go sometimes.

sheen_sabzaar's photo
Thu 03/01/12 10:20 PM




Human love can never be unconditional.Our love is as imperfect as we humans ourselves r.No woman can love a man who does not provide her food n shelter n no man loves a woman who can not provide sexual pleasure.Only parents love is mostly unconditional but in their old age even they have the expectation to be looked after.Only Gods love for humans is completely onconditional.


Really? Are you serious? No man can love a woman who cannot provide sexual pleasure?rofl

What you are calling "love" is not love AT ALL.

And you really think love for a man from a woman is about him providing her food and shelter?rofl

You have never experienced love if you actually believe this.



fren i think these are bitter realities of lyfe.love i experienced is love within marriage n marriage has its rules n preconditions for love.u give me food n shelter n i provide u sex.sound financial security is a must for a sucessful n happy marriage coz when poverty enters through doors love disappears through windows.



Sorry, but they are not connected. Money can't buy you love.
It can buy you sex, but not love.

It can provide food and shelter, but money can't buy you love.







fren love cant survive n there cant b a happy n lasting marriage in absence of money either.
fren love

Bravalady's photo
Thu 03/01/12 10:20 PM

Of course love is conditional. No one is going to love someone without being loved back. The minute you expect love back then its a condition. A parents love isn't always unconditional either as I know some parents that truly do not love their kids. Pets will love you only if you feed them or pay attention to them so thats a condition.


I have loved a bunch of people without being loved back, in fact it seems to be the story of my life. You may say it wasn't true love--maybe not, but who knows? All I know is what it felt like.

You are unfortunately right about parents not always loving their children unconditionally.

There are so many things called love that really are not. It's easy to confuse ourselves.

sheen_sabzaar's photo
Thu 03/01/12 10:23 PM

Of course love is conditional. No one is going to love someone without being loved back. The minute you expect love back then its a condition. A parents love isn't always unconditional either as I know some parents that truly do not love their kids. Pets will love you only if you feed them or pay attention to them so thats a condition.

only gods love for humans is completely unconditional.his grandeour is unlimited n beyond our comprehension.

sheen_sabzaar's photo
Thu 03/01/12 10:26 PM
there r preconditions to being loved n so it is not true love coz love is true love only when it is completely unconditional.

sheen_sabzaar's photo
Thu 03/01/12 10:26 PM
there r preconditions to being loved n so it is not true love coz love is true love only when it is completely unconditional.

sheen_sabzaar's photo
Thu 03/01/12 10:29 PM
yup meat.meat for meat.

sheen_sabzaar's photo
Thu 03/01/12 10:33 PM


Of course love is conditional. No one is going to love someone without being loved back. The minute you expect love back then its a condition. A parents love isn't always unconditional either as I know some parents that truly do not love their kids. Pets will love you only if you feed them or pay attention to them so thats a condition.


I have loved a bunch of people without being loved back, in fact it seems to be the story of my life. You may say it wasn't true love--maybe not, but who knows? All I know is what it felt like.

You are unfortunately right about parents not always loving their children unconditionally.

There are so many things called love that really are not. It's easy to confuse ourselves.

love is true love only when it is unconditional as otherwise it is just a dellusion.

sheen_sabzaar's photo
Thu 03/01/12 10:48 PM

I think liking a person is conditional. I think staying married to a person is conditional. But if you are talking real love, in its pure form, it is unconditional. It can't be bought, sold or bargained for.



Anything you call "love" that is conditional is not love.




exactly.n human love is never true or unconditional espacially in marriage.love is so only if it is true or unconditional love else it is a dellusion.

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