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Topic: Ex's?
wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Mon 03/12/12 06:01 AM Edited by wux on Mon 03/12/12 06:02 AM
What and actually go out with someone my own age. So what's wrong with that? I would definitely go out right now with anyone my age, the age I had when I was 23.

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Mon 03/12/12 06:04 AM Edited by wux on Mon 03/12/12 06:12 AM
If you could be back with an Ex, would you and why? no.coz men leave their women only under extreme n unbearable situations when there is no other alternative.if there had been any such possibility she had not been my ex at all coz for me leaving my ex was a painful compulsion n for her a choice for better lyfe , independence n freedom. Right, right, right. But what if SHE left YOU? That's never happened? Because in my life that has been the end of all my relationships. I would never leave a woman... even if I get a few new ones. Just keep on hoarding them. But there is always that few who eventually jump the fence.

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Mon 03/12/12 06:08 AM
Theres one I think about a lot from my youth but I couldnt go back if he's still doin drugs, and frankly wouldnt trust him anyhoo. Sometimes you just cant fix it even if you love them. KLC, I don't know if you are a woman or a man, but if you are a woman, you could always ask him. What could happen? At worst, he'd say no. Big deal, you wait a few momments, then you ask again. Guys have low sales resistence in this department. He's bound to say yes eventually.

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Mon 03/12/12 06:23 AM
Nope. She is already a double ex since we married twice and is happy with the guy she has got. I am so happy for her.

Peter_Pan69 Joined Sun 08/23/09 Posts: 2781	Mon 03/12/12 06:52 AM
chum chim charoo?

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Mon 03/12/12 06:57 AM
If you could be back with an Ex, would you and why? An ex became an ex for a good reason. That reason, i can always go back to. As i grow older, i realise it just doesn't matter, if i'm not with that ex anymore. I like to just move on with my life. Why would i waste it thinking of an ex?

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Mon 03/12/12 07:10 AM Edited by Shy_Emo_chick on Mon 03/12/12 07:15 AM
chum chim charoo? [/quote sings A sweep is as lucky, as lucky can be. Chim Chimney, Chim Chimney, Chim Chim Cheroo. Good luck will rub off when i shake hands with you.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Mon 03/12/12 07:14 AM
hmmm theoretically, yes, because noone is perfect and I could build upon what was right with the relationship before it went sour realistically, no, because Im just not interested in the potential waste of precious years of life on someone that already showed a propensity to be unfaithful (first husband) or insane (second husband) id rather move FORWARD CHANGE OF HEART: I think, realistically, I could probably 'go back' if someone had shown real change in the area that was previously a problem it would be hypocritical of me, who doesnt believe people ever stop changing, to hold on to the person that USED to be there as if they had no potential to mature or grow or change instead of looking at the person that is there NOW...

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Mon 03/12/12 07:17 AM
chum chim charoo? sings As lucky as lucky as lucky can be. haha. I guess thats mary poppins...took me a min to place it but thats the song that went thru my head too. :) I love that movie. I'm an old soul at heart.