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I've done the kid drama, and it is too much baggage! If there was no drama, then I wouldn't mind it... lol That's about as likely as falling into the ocean without getting wet....! |
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Well, if you fall in the ocean with a wet suit on you won't get wet. :P
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I've done the kid drama, and it is too much baggage! If there was no drama, then I wouldn't mind it... lol That's about as likely as falling into the ocean without getting wet....! Lol, so true!! 
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Well, if you fall in the ocean with a wet suit on you won't get wet. :P If you fall into the sun, you won't get wet either. Unless I have a serious misunderstanding of how the sun works. |
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KarolinMarie, just follow your heart.
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Well, if you fall in the ocean with a wet suit on you won't get wet. :P If you fall into the sun, you won't get wet either. Unless I have a serious misunderstanding of how the sun works. I'll just take your word for it on that one. You've never steered me wrong before. |
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Well, if you fall in the ocean with a wet suit on you won't get wet. :P If you fall into the sun, you won't get wet either. Unless I have a serious misunderstanding of how the sun works. I'll just take your word for it on that one. You've never steered me wrong before. I try really hard never to steer anyone into the sun. It reduces the pool of potential readers..... |
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That's a wise business decision.
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I like the thread.
 I think one of the attractions I had to this younger girl/younger woman(?) (Not really sure which as she sometimes seems mature but sometimes doesn't) was I wanted to fix her. But really after a while concluded that I couldn't fix her. I think the crab in the little mermaid had it right when talking to the little mermaid's father. "Like I always say you got to let kids live their own lives." Then the little mermaid's father says, "You always say that, Sebastian?" She really does remind me of Ariel in a way. And if you have watched "The Little Mermaid" You will realize that King Triton and Sebastian both tried to help her. So far though I really feel like Flounder with her.
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Tue 02/28/12 09:23 PM
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I have a thematic cut-off point around age 25 -- I think it's unlikely I would date anyone older than that. But that's only because 114% of women over 25 have kids, and only 103% of women 18-25 have them. ...yes Lex and of that 103% 205% either want kids or will want them within the next year or two.... I have no "personal" motive for saying this but you are looking in the wrong age group of women - you are not realistically looking at the most likely demographic |
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I have a thematic cut-off point around age 25 -- I think it's unlikely I would date anyone older than that. But that's only because 114% of women over 25 have kids, and only 103% of women 18-25 have them. yes Lex and of that 103% 205% either want kids or will want them within the next year or two.... My statistics say that it's 212.6% for calendar year 2009 (the last year for which complete figures are currently available). |
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I have a thematic cut-off point around age 25 -- I think it's unlikely I would date anyone older than that. But that's only because 114% of women over 25 have kids, and only 103% of women 18-25 have them. yes Lex and of that 103% 205% either want kids or will want them within the next year or two.... My statistics say that it's 212.6% for calendar year 2009 (the last year for which complete figures are currently available). well yes, I try not to overstate the case
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Perhaps every guy under 25 that she knows is a jerk. That would be shocking. If I didn't know better, I'd swear you were being sarcastic 
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Perhaps every guy under 25 that she knows is a jerk. That would be shocking. If I didn't know better, I'd swear you were being sarcastic Youre wicked smaht. Spoken like a true New Englander! |
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No there's nothing wrong with that dear. There's a 16 year age gap between my mum and dad, infact it's quiet common for young ladies to like older men and vice versa. I prefer ladies at least 7 years younger then myself, best of luck to you :)
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No there's nothing wrong with that dear. There's a 16 year age gap between my mum and dad, infact it's quiet common for young ladies to like older men and vice versa. I prefer ladies at least 7 years younger then myself, best of luck to you :) Thank you! 
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Ok- maybe I need to find a guy MUCH older than me? .... 16 years older than me would be 69....
where are all you 69 year olds? 
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18-35 is the stage where we resolve intimacy and family. I would think you would look for someone who has already defined that stage if your reason for dating that group is true. The age group youve selected is still figuring out the kids idea. The one girlfriend I had who was actually honest about not wanting kids, told me she knew from about age 14-15 that she would never want them. So it is possible for some people to reach that decision earlier than others. I made the decision at 22, so it isn't like we all have to wait to be 35 before we have it figured out. 35 and up is the stage where they find satisfaction in work and creativity. I cant buy your reasoning. Doesnt make sense. Your either looking in the wrong group or kidding yourself about the reason youre looking there. If I spent any time concerning myself about people's opinions of my reasoning, I'd be trapped in a pathetic and futile marriage with x number of kids, no happiness, and I would never have written anything worth reading. |
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Ok- maybe I need to find a guy MUCH older than me? .... 16 years older than me would be 69.... where are all you 69 year olds? ya never know,,my ex was twenty years older than me, we met when I was thirty three and split when I was fourty , the longest seven years of my life he was biologically much older, but emotionally he was about twenty years younger,,,,lol,,,,,ya just never know |
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IF your love, matches your age,,,and your age matches your Love.
Then BOTH shall fit PERFECT,,within your hearts.... 
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