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I refuse to give up hope that somewhere near me, there is a smart@zz woman who does not want children. Therefore......... I continue to....... BELIEVE!!!!!!! So keeping the dream alive? This is the answer? I do that with my professional part and it seems to work out fine. I guess they're one in the same. As long as the dream doesn't turn into a nightmare,then yeah. Life is hard.But if it wasn't,it wouldn't be worth living. |
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Does the whole woe is me attitude actually work? What's the point? Is it supposed to get sympathy? Do you want people to feel sorry for you? Agree with you that it's time to give up? LOL No, jeez, must you always jump to 10 negative steps down the line and generalize everything? I'm not getting defensive because you don't agree with me. Lordy  You made a negative thread. I don't really get the attitude, so I asked what the point was. |
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Does the whole woe is me attitude actually work? What's the point? Is it supposed to get sympathy? Do you want people to feel sorry for you? Agree with you that it's time to give up? Everyone deals with loneliness in their own way and the coping mechanisms change as we get older. Audrey is a nice girl and I think many can commiserate with how she feels. Give her some time and she'll be cynical or hopeful just like everyone else here.  It wasn't directed solely at her, but at anyone in the thread with the same attitude. |
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Does the whole woe is me attitude actually work? What's the point? Is it supposed to get sympathy? Do you want people to feel sorry for you? Agree with you that it's time to give up? Everyone deals with loneliness in their own way and the coping mechanisms change as we get older. Audrey is a nice girl and I think many can commiserate with how she feels. Give her some time and she'll be cynical or hopeful just like everyone else here.  Thanks. I tend to deal with it a lot more differently than most people. Maybe I'm not like Emily, I don't think like her, I don't normally think like what people want me to think. I feel like maybe this feeling will pass, and it will. Maybe this has to do with not being good enough in someone's eyes. The fear of rejection. Whatever the reason, I feel like failure at anything really isn't the worst thing, this I know to be true.
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Does the whole woe is me attitude actually work? What's the point? Is it supposed to get sympathy? Do you want people to feel sorry for you? Agree with you that it's time to give up? LOL No, jeez, must you always jump to 10 negative steps down the line and generalize everything? I'm not getting defensive because you don't agree with me. Lordy You made a negative thread. I don't really get the attitude, so I asked what the point was. LOL That's exactly what I did. Problem is, you're the only one who thinks this. You're the one who brought up the "pity party" ruse. To which a response made to it was joked on. I find that a lot more negative than the entire subject coveys. |
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Does the whole woe is me attitude actually work? What's the point? Is it supposed to get sympathy? Do you want people to feel sorry for you? Agree with you that it's time to give up? Everyone deals with loneliness in their own way and the coping mechanisms change as we get older. Audrey is a nice girl and I think many can commiserate with how she feels. Give her some time and she'll be cynical or hopeful just like everyone else here. It wasn't directed solely at her, but at anyone in the thread with the same attitude. Yeah...I'd believe you a lot more if you'd stop using words like "you" in your line of questioning. LOL Nobody I feel has any attitude. I don't know where you're pulling this notion out of. |
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I refuse to give up hope that somewhere near me, there is a smart@zz woman who does not want children. Therefore......... I continue to....... BELIEVE!!!!!!! So keeping the dream alive? This is the answer? I do that with my professional part and it seems to work out fine. I guess they're one in the same. As long as the dream doesn't turn into a nightmare,then yeah. Life is hard.But if it wasn't,it wouldn't be worth living. Oh yeah, nightmares kinda suck when you least expect it. 
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It's all a matter of perpective isn't it.
"You're biggest enemy is your ego.Your ego projects negativity onto those surrounding you as a form of defense mechanism.This gives you the notion that they are your enemies,when if fact it is only you making them enemies." I heard this during a movie,it's pretty deep s***,right?lol |
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Definitely...I write about this a lot too.
Maybe its harder to heed it and easier to write the words. Its only your enemy if you want it to be. My Grandma said that too. Smart lady. Its a nice quote. What movie is that from? |
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Definitely...I write about this a lot too. Maybe its harder to heed it and easier to write the words. Its only your enemy if you want it to be. My Grandma said that too. Smart lady. Its a nice quote. What movie is that from? I could be wrong,but I think its from The 25th Hour with Ed Norton. Not a bad movie if you like Norton's indie style... |
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Definitely...I write about this a lot too. Maybe its harder to heed it and easier to write the words. Its only your enemy if you want it to be. My Grandma said that too. Smart lady. Its a nice quote. What movie is that from? I could be wrong,but I think its from The 25th Hour with Ed Norton. Not a bad movie if you like Norton's indie style... I LOVE his movies! Norton is one of my favorites. I loved Fight Club and Primal Fear. I'd have to check it out then. Might have seen it if its a recent one. Thanks!  |
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Does the whole woe is me attitude actually work? What's the point? Is it supposed to get sympathy? Do you want people to feel sorry for you? Agree with you that it's time to give up? Everyone deals with loneliness in their own way and the coping mechanisms change as we get older. Audrey is a nice girl and I think many can commiserate with how she feels. Give her some time and she'll be cynical or hopeful just like everyone else here. It wasn't directed solely at her, but at anyone in the thread with the same attitude. Yeah...I'd believe you a lot more if you'd stop using words like "you" in your line of questioning. LOL Nobody I feel has any attitude. I don't know where you're pulling this notion out of. The same "woe is me" attitude that I mentioned in my other post. That's what I meant. |
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Does the whole woe is me attitude actually work? What's the point? Is it supposed to get sympathy? Do you want people to feel sorry for you? Agree with you that it's time to give up? Everyone deals with loneliness in their own way and the coping mechanisms change as we get older. Audrey is a nice girl and I think many can commiserate with how she feels. Give her some time and she'll be cynical or hopeful just like everyone else here. Thanks. I tend to deal with it a lot more differently than most people. Maybe I'm not like Emily, I don't think like her, I don't normally think like what people want me to think. I feel like maybe this feeling will pass, and it will. Maybe this has to do with not being good enough in someone's eyes. The fear of rejection. Whatever the reason, I feel like failure at anything really isn't the worst thing, this I know to be true. I never said you should think the way others want you to think. Just as I don't think/respond the way others want me to. You're free to make honest responses just as much as I am. |
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Does the whole woe is me attitude actually work? What's the point? Is it supposed to get sympathy? Do you want people to feel sorry for you? Agree with you that it's time to give up? Everyone deals with loneliness in their own way and the coping mechanisms change as we get older. Audrey is a nice girl and I think many can commiserate with how she feels. Give her some time and she'll be cynical or hopeful just like everyone else here. It wasn't directed solely at her, but at anyone in the thread with the same attitude. Yeah...I'd believe you a lot more if you'd stop using words like "you" in your line of questioning. LOL Nobody I feel has any attitude. I don't know where you're pulling this notion out of. The same "woe is me" attitude that I mentioned in my other post. That's what I meant. Yeah that ain't clear to me. Has nothing to do with my post. I appreciate the curiosity all the same. |
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I think most people go through those moments at some point in life. A lot have thrown pity parties too (I bring presents lol)
But people get through them and you look back and think how silly it was to think that. Just keep on trucking 
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Edited by
MariahsFantasy
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Sat 02/25/12 02:11 PM
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Does the whole woe is me attitude actually work? What's the point? Is it supposed to get sympathy? Do you want people to feel sorry for you? Agree with you that it's time to give up? Everyone deals with loneliness in their own way and the coping mechanisms change as we get older. Audrey is a nice girl and I think many can commiserate with how she feels. Give her some time and she'll be cynical or hopeful just like everyone else here. Thanks. I tend to deal with it a lot more differently than most people. Maybe I'm not like Emily, I don't think like her, I don't normally think like what people want me to think. I feel like maybe this feeling will pass, and it will. Maybe this has to do with not being good enough in someone's eyes. The fear of rejection. Whatever the reason, I feel like failure at anything really isn't the worst thing, this I know to be true. I never said you should think the way others want you to think. Just as I don't think/respond the way others want me to. You're free to make honest responses just as much as I am. Emily, I am not conducting a pity party for myself here. You think I am. IMO you are wrong. Baby goes to bed. |
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Again, I was referring to the thread in general, Mariah, not you specifically. As in there were other posts as well that made me wonder that.
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The assumptions have zero to do with the purpose of the thread. This was an open discussion. Not grounds to garner sympathy from members. I answered it. Are you still wondering?
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If you say so.
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Edited by
MariahsFantasy
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Sat 02/25/12 02:27 PM
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