Topic: Need Advice
SML777's photo
Sat 02/25/12 02:24 AM
Edited by SML777 on Sat 02/25/12 02:33 AM
i meet this guy online we been talking online for about 4 days now but i had to ask what would the sign be if the guy wants photos of me undressed, bcz he sends them to me out of no were he did n he keeps asking me to send him just one n hell be happy is this guy looking for anything serious or fun, or wat not sure he did tell me he was looking for someone outgoing and easy to talk to, and to see were it goes between us. I did ask him wat he thought of me so far since he asked for those pics and i keep telling him i think bout it to see how he react to wait or not, and he has but he did tell me he thought i was outgoing n sweet n funny n easy to talk to and like to know more better, and he looking for fun than serious. Ok for one he lives in Indiana and im in TX so i dont know if he wants just fun in bed, he did tell he thought i was beautiful and started to call me baby, and love when he talks to me, i just told him i was to shy to send a pic to him bare n he told me just one n than i told him i think in person u know be better, see his reaction to understand n he never emailed me back n i told him sorry hope he understood for letting him down no answer yet, will see tomorrow but is he taking me serious so far or not or cant tell yet???

sorry if its sloppy its super late but needed advice!!! thanks all :smile:

carold's photo
Sat 02/25/12 02:42 AM
Edited by carold on Sat 02/25/12 02:43 AM
Really u don't know the answer to this questionlaugh :wink: He just wants your naked picture. slaphead You give a naked pic to someone u don't know shocked surprised Be careful out there.flowerforyou And if he contacts u after a few days it is just to see if you'll do it now.flowerforyou flowerforyou

no photo
Sat 02/25/12 03:29 AM
Never, Never, Never......unless you do not mind that it could be posted anywhere. noway

carold's photo
Sat 02/25/12 03:48 AM
:thumbsup: :thumbsup:

joy4gud's photo
Sat 02/25/12 05:22 AM

Never, Never, Never......unless you do not mind that it could be posted anywhere. noway

:thumbsup:

motowndowntown's photo
Sat 02/25/12 04:28 PM
The guys a perv.

Dump him.

no photo
Sat 02/25/12 04:43 PM
Yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.......

Nothing good can.........

come from this!!!!
JMO

no photo
Sat 02/25/12 04:46 PM
really can't even believe you have to ask. what a moron.ill

Seakolony's photo
Sat 02/25/12 04:46 PM


I just have to say this is one bridge you should not ever cross.....JMO

PacificStar48's photo
Sat 02/25/12 07:00 PM
I think if you are asking this question you already know your personal boundries are telling you this is a stone crazy thing to do.

First off your body is your temple to you. Not any jerk who thinks he is entitled to a cheap peak with zero commitment to you.

Chances are you send him the pic he will do any of a number of things you are going to find humiliateing if not now later. Probably he will sell it since it is real easy to find any number of places that will be glad to manipulate the image don't count on it looking anything remotely similiar to what you might send trying to be romantic or "honest". Do you really want to take that chance?

It is a whole another thing if you choose to make a gift of yourself to someone, or the whole world for that matter, but keep in mind when you do you only get to give it once and you beter be sure that it is something you are dead sure is worth that magnitude.

My personal opinion is anyone who is so selfish to even suggest something that is such and invasion of your privacy at what is only a superficial exchange is showing his total lack of character and respect for you.

That he is feining familiarity calling you endearments before even meeting you kind sounds like false charm rather than sincere sentiments. In some places that is acceptable to a degree but I would proceed with great caution and reservation. You don't want to be a substitute rebound girlfriend becasue someone is missing someone elses slippers under their bed and you are convienent easy replacement. You know better than anyone the truth in this so trust your conciounse and don't do anything you will regret in the long run.

If he is the "real deal" he will respect you for standing up for yourself.

SML777's photo
Sun 02/26/12 12:27 AM
thanks all for the response, letting u all know he did email me this morning saying hi but thats all n asked how my day was n i asked back n ended there he never asked or responded back so im not going to look desperate when im not so if he respects me like u say he respect me thank u all very much!!!

eileena9's photo
Sun 02/26/12 12:31 AM
He doesn't respect you and that is why he asked for a naked picture.... He is probably a "troll" just out looking for jollies because he can't afford a new copy of a porn mag...

Block him, is my advice.flowerforyou

Tulareman's photo
Sun 02/26/12 12:43 AM

He doesn't respect you and that is why he asked for a naked picture.... He is probably a "troll" just out looking for jollies because he can't afford a new copy of a porn mag...

Block him, is my advice.flowerforyou
^^^^^^My thoughts exactly.

no photo
Sun 02/26/12 06:22 AM
if you're going to send him a nude picture of yourself then you might as well upload it to your Mingle2 profile page and let us see it too


SML777's photo
Sun 02/26/12 04:09 PM
Edited by SML777 on Sun 02/26/12 04:09 PM
thanks all very much, and hahahaha not not my thing to do funuches lol