Topic: What is love...?
navygirl's photo
Mon 02/20/12 10:42 AM



Never having to say sorry

Sorry...I don't agree with this. I think there are times you need to own up and say you are sorry.
I say im sorry ALOT!

Why?

I make mistakes,

and I f**k up, ALOT!

I dont mean to,

I certainly dont try to.

But I have never, had a problem, taking the blame for my actions, especially , when I end up being in the wrong.


And this is not an excuse,

but im still learning the slow pace of real life, outside of drugs, where you dont just storm through life, and not look deeply, at what your doing, and saying, before you do, and say, them.

Ive been clean for 4 years, but I definitely dont have the tact, that a 49 year old woman, should have. But I am learning.

Thus my criminal record at Mingle.

I like to have fun here, but I also wont take chit, and try to defend myself, (which is not allowed on Mingle).You report them and the mods deal with them. To me thats like snitching, and im not a snitch, but if I wanna play here, I have to play by the rules.

Im out of "sorry's" with the mods, and thats probably a good thing for me.

It makes me really think, about what im typing, and its effect on me, the mods, and others on Mingle, before I type.

And reminds me, im accountable for all I do, or say.


Yeah; I say I am sorry too although some time a bit grudingly as I hate to admit when I am wrong. Although that being said; it does make me feel better to say sorry.

Sin_and_Sorrow's photo
Mon 02/20/12 02:13 PM

Yeah; I say I am sorry too although some time a bit grudingly as I hate to admit when I am wrong. Although that being said; it does make me feel better to say sorry.


..Hehe..

You said sorry to me twice.

..and we barely speak. :D

no photo
Mon 02/20/12 02:52 PM
you've got to be kidding me.
ten pages and none of this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D2h4PhgobI8&feature=related
blasphemy!

no photo
Mon 02/20/12 02:56 PM
love is somthing we need it in our life

ifound my love

I am happy with it

navygirl's photo
Mon 02/20/12 03:54 PM

love is somthing we need it in our life

ifound my love

I am happy with it


I am glad you are happy and found your love but please don't speak for all of us when you say we need it in our life. I certainly don't need romantic love in my life but I am thankful for the love of my family and friends.

no photo
Mon 02/20/12 04:04 PM


love is somthing we need it in our life

ifound my love

I am happy with it


I am glad you are happy and found your love but please don't speak for all of us when you say we need it in our life. I certainly don't need romantic love in my life but I am thankful for the love of my family and friends.

NAVYflowerforyou noway I just bought these flowers for you here,,and this:heart: ,,,and,,NOW ya tell me,,slaphead

kidding..
I do love your friendship,,,,,so ITS OK,,,laugh :wink:


navygirl's photo
Mon 02/20/12 04:09 PM
Edited by navygirl on Mon 02/20/12 04:21 PM



love is somthing we need it in our life

ifound my love

I am happy with it


I am glad you are happy and found your love but please don't speak for all of us when you say we need it in our life. I certainly don't need romantic love in my life but I am thankful for the love of my family and friends.

NAVYflowerforyou noway I just bought these flowers for you here,,and this:heart: ,,,and,,NOW ya tell me,,slaphead

kidding..
I do love your friendship,,,,,so ITS OK,,,laugh :wink:


Thanks. I just get tired of people telling us what we need in life.

Sin_and_Sorrow's photo
Mon 02/20/12 04:18 PM

you've got to be kidding me.
ten pages and none of this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D2h4PhgobI8&feature=related
blasphemy!


Brahahaha.

:D

no photo
Mon 02/20/12 04:43 PM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Mon 02/20/12 04:43 PM
What is love with Jim Carry

Hilarious.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Rp8oP7VCmU&feature=related

no photo
Mon 02/20/12 04:56 PM

you've got to be kidding me.
ten pages and none of this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D2h4PhgobI8&feature=related
blasphemy!
WOW,,,that was so cool,,THEY BOTH DANCE JUST LIKE ME...
:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

fussaguy's photo
Tue 02/21/12 06:58 AM
It is what you feel when near me

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Tue 02/21/12 09:53 PM
Imho, love is:

Helping each other across busy roads,
Seeing to them when they get ill,
Listening to their problems,
Accepting the person for who they are,
Letting me know when i sound pathetic (lol),
Sharing the last cookie,
Throwing flying objects at me :)


Aries151's photo
Tue 02/21/12 10:30 PM
What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more
Oh, baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more

What is love
Yeah

Oh, I don't know why you're not there
I give you my love, but you don't care
So what is right and what is wrong
Gimme a sign

What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more
What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more

Whoa whoa whoa, oooh oooh
Whoa whoa whoa, oooh oooh

Oh, I don't know, what can I do
What else can I say, it's up to you
I know we're one, just me and you
I can't go on

What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more
What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more

Whoa whoa whoa, oooh oooh
Whoa whoa whoa, oooh oooh

What is love, oooh, oooh, oooh
What is love, oooh, oooh, oooh

What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more

Don't hurt me
Don't hurt me

I want no other, no other lover
This is your life, our time
When we are together, I need you forever
Is it love

What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more
What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more (oooh, oooh)

What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more
What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more (oooh, oooh)

What is love?

Sin_and_Sorrow's photo
Tue 02/21/12 10:40 PM

Imho, love is:

Helping each other across busy roads,
Seeing to them when they get ill,
Listening to their problems,
Accepting the person for who they are,
Letting me know when i sound pathetic (lol),
Sharing the last cookie,
Throwing flying objects at me :)




Love is.

Watching two lesbians go at it, then they spot you peeping them.

But they don't get mad they curl a finger and beckon you over.

Then they say:

"Join us, we forgot our dill doe."

xD

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Tue 02/21/12 10:57 PM


Imho, love is:

Helping each other across busy roads,
Seeing to them when they get ill,
Listening to their problems,
Accepting the person for who they are,
Letting me know when i sound pathetic (lol),
Sharing the last cookie,
Throwing flying objects at me :)




Love is.

Watching two lesbians go at it, then they spot you peeping them.

But they don't get mad they curl a finger and beckon you over.

Then they say:

"Join us, we forgot our dill doe."

xD



xD Should've known you'd say something like that. You naughty boy.

Btw, you spelt 'Dill doe' wrong. XD

Sin_and_Sorrow's photo
Tue 02/21/12 11:13 PM



Imho, love is:

Helping each other across busy roads,
Seeing to them when they get ill,
Listening to their problems,
Accepting the person for who they are,
Letting me know when i sound pathetic (lol),
Sharing the last cookie,
Throwing flying objects at me :)




Love is.

Watching two lesbians go at it, then they spot you peeping them.

But they don't get mad they curl a finger and beckon you over.

Then they say:

"Join us, we forgot our dill doe."

xD



xD Should've known you'd say something like that. You naughty boy.

Btw, you spelt 'Dill doe' wrong. XD


Shh.

I'm on thin ice with the 'Gods' around here.

<.<

>.>

I didn't wanna get in mo trouble. :/

no photo
Tue 02/21/12 11:37 PM
Love is any and everything you want it to be but it's never at your beck and call

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Wed 02/22/12 08:06 AM




Imho, love is:

Helping each other across busy roads,
Seeing to them when they get ill,
Listening to their problems,
Accepting the person for who they are,
Letting me know when i sound pathetic (lol),
Sharing the last cookie,
Throwing flying objects at me :)




Love is.

Watching two lesbians go at it, then they spot you peeping them.

But they don't get mad they curl a finger and beckon you over.

Then they say:

"Join us, we forgot our dill doe."

xD



xD Should've known you'd say something like that. You naughty boy.

Btw, you spelt 'Dill doe' wrong. XD


Shh.

I'm on thin ice with the 'Gods' around here.

<.<

>.>

I didn't wanna get in mo trouble. :/



Ooops, ok. Yeah. I hear ya.

MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 02/22/12 11:35 AM

I can only tell you what "love" is, or what I believe it is. Love is.....

Happiness
Sadness
Pain
Joy
Thrilling
Exhausting
Bewitching
Exhillerating
Frustrating
Loss
Gain


It is so many things. Good and bad...you have to take them both, cause love will test you....no matter how strong you and your lover are.



It is good and bad. Love only gets stronger the more life throws stuff in both your directions. Its a roller coaster for sure.

MultipleDichotomies's photo
Wed 02/22/12 11:46 AM
Love is an act of will, a conscious decision each and every human makes, even when they are in denial that they've made that decision.

Love is one of two primary emotions, key to our survival; fear is the other. Fear keeps us away from danger, love bands us together for greater good. All other emotions and motives flow from those two emotions.

These are not my thoughts or opinions, but rather the observations made by professionals in mental health and human behavior.

That doesn't make for good song lyrics or poetry, but it really helps analyze how I react to situations.