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Leigh, anyone who is not supportive of your relationship is not your friend. It doesn't matter if it is here or in real life. It is up to you and Jerry to find the best way to make it work. Nothing anyone else says matters. Although I have never met him in person, Jerry has been a very supportive friend here to me and I treasure this friendship. If he has chosen you then I know that you are someone I hope to build a friendship with also.
I am so happy that you are making Jerry happy! 
I am a strong believer that this relationship CAN work! 
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Leigh, anyone who is not supportive of your relationship is not your friend. It doesn't matter if it is here or in real life. It is up to you and Jerry to find the best way to make it work. Nothing anyone else says matters. Although I have never met him in person, Jerry has been a very supportive friend here to me and I treasure this friendship. If he has chosen you then I know that you are someone I hope to build a friendship with also. I am so happy that you are making Jerry happy!
I am a strong believer that this relationship CAN work!
Jayne.....thanks, you made my day....and I feel the same about us building a friendship....
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Leigh, anyone who is not supportive of your relationship is not your friend. It doesn't matter if it is here or in real life. It is up to you and Jerry to find the best way to make it work. Nothing anyone else says matters. Although I have never met him in person, Jerry has been a very supportive friend here to me and I treasure this friendship. If he has chosen you then I know that you are someone I hope to build a friendship with also. I am so happy that you are making Jerry happy!
I am a strong believer that this relationship CAN work!
as I say DITTO..to your very beautiful relply..Thank you,
And here's to  finding all that is shared in its making Leigh and Jerry.....Love and Light to you BOTH..
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You and I have spoken about this, Leigh. (1) Constant contact. never break it. (2) Let the territorial, nay-sayers go.. wherever they go for new prey. (3) A relationship is NOT about Mingle2, keep it private, and about YOU two. (4) Copy Mingle2 pics of the jealous ones and throw darts at them. Or poop..depending upon their level of obsession. Some, will never care if you are happy or not. Keep close the ones who share your joy. And find a nice 'finger' emoticon. Beauty,,and SMARTS,,now THATS just something you have to follow..Nice words Soufie....
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You've stumped me... The only thing I can think of, if you're feeling 'off balance,' would be to stick a roll of quarters in your left jacket pocket. If that doesn't work, try them on the right side. Why the heck didn't I think of that??!!!??  That solves the off balance part, any advice on best way to handle a long distance relationship?
Get unlimited minutes on your phone, and try not to think too much.
That's why you use Yahoo/Msn/Skype/ICQ/etc voice/video calls  and use the money you woulda spent on the phone bill towards gas. 
Ya, try not to think too much (about some things), but DO think too much about other things..... like who would be the one to move (and escape plans just in case....) |
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You've stumped me... The only thing I can think of, if you're feeling 'off balance,' would be to stick a roll of quarters in your left jacket pocket. If that doesn't work, try them on the right side. Why the heck didn't I think of that??!!!?? That solves the off balance part, any advice on best way to handle a long distance relationship?
Get unlimited minutes on your phone, and try not to think too much.
That's why you use Yahoo/Msn/Skype/ICQ/etc voice/video calls and use the money you woulda spent on the phone bill towards gas.
Ya, try not to think too much (about some things), but DO think too much about other things..... like who would be the one to move (and escape plans just in case....) Hey UJ...I have suggested Skype....It is free and I love it...Especially when talking with my daughter and grandson...it's great to see their smiling faces and the expressions of love we trade back and forth can't be shared on the phone...The advantages of cam for couples are unlimited!! ...Jerry is kinda resistant to Skype....In the beginning, I was too, but now would not be w/o it...
Escape plan!!  I hadn't thought of that.... Thanks for your input, good stuff!!
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You've stumped me... The only thing I can think of, if you're feeling 'off balance,' would be to stick a roll of quarters in your left jacket pocket. If that doesn't work, try them on the right side. Why the heck didn't I think of that??!!!?? That solves the off balance part, any advice on best way to handle a long distance relationship?
Get unlimited minutes on your phone, and try not to think too much.
That's why you use Yahoo/Msn/Skype/ICQ/etc voice/video calls and use the money you woulda spent on the phone bill towards gas.
Ya, try not to think too much (about some things), but DO think too much about other things..... like who would be the one to move (and escape plans just in case....) Hey UJ...I have suggested Skype....It is free and I love it...Especially when talking with my daughter and grandson...it's great to see their smiling faces and the expressions of love we trade back and forth can't be shared on the phone...The advantages of cam for couples are unlimited!! ...Jerry is kinda resistant to Skype....In the beginning, I was too, but now would not be w/o it...
Escape plan!! I hadn't thought of that.... Thanks for your input, good stuff!!
Personally, I like Yahoo a little better than Skype. It seems slightly less laggy for me on cam. Besides, another good thing about online vs phone is that it gives me an excuse to wear my huge bucket-sized headphones. The possibilities for couples on cam are definitely endless. It is no doubt nowhere near the same comparing azz braids or hairy pimples via phone.
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You've stumped me... The only thing I can think of, if you're feeling 'off balance,' would be to stick a roll of quarters in your left jacket pocket. If that doesn't work, try them on the right side. Why the heck didn't I think of that??!!!?? That solves the off balance part, any advice on best way to handle a long distance relationship?
Get unlimited minutes on your phone, and try not to think too much.
That's why you use Yahoo/Msn/Skype/ICQ/etc voice/video calls and use the money you woulda spent on the phone bill towards gas.
Ya, try not to think too much (about some things), but DO think too much about other things..... like who would be the one to move (and escape plans just in case....) Hey UJ...I have suggested Skype....It is free and I love it...Especially when talking with my daughter and grandson...it's great to see their smiling faces and the expressions of love we trade back and forth can't be shared on the phone...The advantages of cam for couples are unlimited!! ...Jerry is kinda resistant to Skype....In the beginning, I was too, but now would not be w/o it...
Escape plan!! I hadn't thought of that.... Thanks for your input, good stuff!!
Personally, I like Yahoo a little better than Skype. It seems slightly less laggy for me on cam. Besides, another good thing about online vs phone is that it gives me an excuse to wear my huge bucket-sized headphones. The possibilities for couples on cam are definitely endless. It is no doubt nowhere near the same comparing azz braids or hairy pimples via phone.
Not even close!!
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I'm off balance and sometimes it feels bad.... This is very hard....reaching out, asking for help...It is new to me, doing it is a little scary, not doing it, even more scary....I am not sure I can "always" be the strong one... Since joining Mingle, I have had the pleasure of meeting some wonderful people...Intelligent, kind, ready to offer a helping hand to anyone who asks.....Well, I am asking.... Some of you who participate in forums know me, most of you know ManO...He is a long time member with established relationships here...In comparison, I am still a newbie... Jerry and I made a connection on the boards, we decided we wanted to take the next step and meet...We did....Our meeting went well and we began that walk down the difficult path a long distance relationship often creates.....We are learning as we go and sometimes we make mistakes, with each other and with fellow Minglers...Jerry and I don't know yet what our future holds, only that we want to explore the possibilities...We need to spend more time together...We need to find ways to stay close between visits... Because this is new and emotions rule I sometimes feel like I am wearing my skin inside out, like every nerve is exposed...I know I am ultra sensitive right now.....If I have made a misstep with anyone here, please accept my apology and be patient with me...I need your friendship and support... If there is anyone out there who has gone through, or is going through, a long distance relationship, your comments, your advice, and your personal experience(s) would be welcome because..... I AM OFF BALANCE AND SOMETIMES IT FEELS BAD...
Leigh You like I are a true romantic and it shows in everything you do. I find it scary to be in love but, these are normal reactions. Some people on here have already said some really great things and I definitely agree with them. What your feeling is the euphoria. Us sensitive girls need to be nurtured tenderly and you are very adored by many people here and in your life. Your friends have your back and its a courageous thing you're doing by putting your heart out there. THIS is what you are feeling. Exposed=surrender. What's yours is his and what's his is yours. I admire what you are doing and wish you eternal love and friendship for the rest of your life. Cherish what you have. Love shouldn't be a burden. The fact that you know this proves you needn't worry if you feel bad. A lot of us are Team Love, we are so happy you found it in Jerry I'm sure he is over the moon to have found it in you.  
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I'm off balance and sometimes it feels bad.... This is very hard....reaching out, asking for help...It is new to me, doing it is a little scary, not doing it, even more scary....I am not sure I can "always" be the strong one... Since joining Mingle, I have had the pleasure of meeting some wonderful people...Intelligent, kind, ready to offer a helping hand to anyone who asks.....Well, I am asking.... Some of you who participate in forums know me, most of you know ManO...He is a long time member with established relationships here...In comparison, I am still a newbie... Jerry and I made a connection on the boards, we decided we wanted to take the next step and meet...We did....Our meeting went well and we began that walk down the difficult path a long distance relationship often creates.....We are learning as we go and sometimes we make mistakes, with each other and with fellow Minglers...Jerry and I don't know yet what our future holds, only that we want to explore the possibilities...We need to spend more time together...We need to find ways to stay close between visits... Because this is new and emotions rule I sometimes feel like I am wearing my skin inside out, like every nerve is exposed...I know I am ultra sensitive right now.....If I have made a misstep with anyone here, please accept my apology and be patient with me...I need your friendship and support... If there is anyone out there who has gone through, or is going through, a long distance relationship, your comments, your advice, and your personal experience(s) would be welcome because..... I AM OFF BALANCE AND SOMETIMES IT FEELS BAD...
Leigh You like I are a true romantic and it shows in everything you do. I find it scary to be in love but, these are normal reactions. Some people on here have already said some really great things and I definitely agree with them. What your feeling is the euphoria. Us sensitive girls need to be nurtured tenderly and you are very adored by many people here and in your life. Your friends have your back and its a courageous thing you're doing by putting your heart out there. THIS is what you are feeling. Exposed=surrender. What's yours is his and what's his is yours. I admire what you are doing and wish you eternal love and friendship for the rest of your life. Cherish what you have. Love shouldn't be a burden. The fact that you know this proves you needn't worry if you feel bad. A lot of us are Team Love, we are so happy you found it in Jerry I'm sure he is over the moon to have found it in you.
(((Mariah)))...Thank you for this...You're like a breath of fresh air in spring baby girl...
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I am happy for the both of you. I go to support meetings at least three times a week here lately.
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I do remember though making a point of not being overly flirtatious or lovey-dovey in the threads though. I had seen many other 'couples' do this, and it led to their demise. Some people became jealous of it, some people were sickened by it, some people stuck their noses in and caused trouble, and some of these couples were not strong enough to survive it. 
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Good one.
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thank you.
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The bank doesn't take thank you notes.
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butt.....you're not the bank.....or are you ??
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I'm off balance and sometimes it feels bad.... This is very hard....reaching out, asking for help...It is new to me, doing it is a little scary, not doing it, even more scary....I am not sure I can "always" be the strong one... Since joining Mingle, I have had the pleasure of meeting some wonderful people...Intelligent, kind, ready to offer a helping hand to anyone who asks.....Well, I am asking.... Some of you who participate in forums know me, most of you know ManO...He is a long time member with established relationships here...In comparison, I am still a newbie... Jerry and I made a connection on the boards, we decided we wanted to take the next step and meet...We did....Our meeting went well and we began that walk down the difficult path a long distance relationship often creates.....We are learning as we go and sometimes we make mistakes, with each other and with fellow Minglers...Jerry and I don't know yet what our future holds, only that we want to explore the possibilities...We need to spend more time together...We need to find ways to stay close between visits... Because this is new and emotions rule I sometimes feel like I am wearing my skin inside out, like every nerve is exposed...I know I am ultra sensitive right now.....If I have made a misstep with anyone here, please accept my apology and be patient with me...I need your friendship and support... If there is anyone out there who has gone through, or is going through, a long distance relationship, your comments, your advice, and your personal experience(s) would be welcome because..... I AM OFF BALANCE AND SOMETIMES IT FEELS BAD...
Don't let mistakes discourage you! 
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I do remember though making a point of not being overly flirtatious or lovey-dovey in the threads though. I had seen many other 'couples' do this, and it led to their demise. Some people became jealous of it, some people were sickened by it, some people stuck their noses in and caused trouble, and some of these couples were not strong enough to survive it.
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I'm off balance and sometimes it feels bad.... This is very hard....reaching out, asking for help...It is new to me, doing it is a little scary, not doing it, even more scary....I am not sure I can "always" be the strong one... Since joining Mingle, I have had the pleasure of meeting some wonderful people...Intelligent, kind, ready to offer a helping hand to anyone who asks.....Well, I am asking.... Some of you who participate in forums know me, most of you know ManO...He is a long time member with established relationships here...In comparison, I am still a newbie... Jerry and I made a connection on the boards, we decided we wanted to take the next step and meet...We did....Our meeting went well and we began that walk down the difficult path a long distance relationship often creates.....We are learning as we go and sometimes we make mistakes, with each other and with fellow Minglers...Jerry and I don't know yet what our future holds, only that we want to explore the possibilities...We need to spend more time together...We need to find ways to stay close between visits... Because this is new and emotions rule I sometimes feel like I am wearing my skin inside out, like every nerve is exposed...I know I am ultra sensitive right now.....If I have made a misstep with anyone here, please accept my apology and be patient with me...I need your friendship and support... If there is anyone out there who has gone through, or is going through, a long distance relationship, your comments, your advice, and your personal experience(s) would be welcome because..... I AM OFF BALANCE AND SOMETIMES IT FEELS BAD...
Don't let mistakes discourage you!
TY!!............
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I'm off balance and sometimes it feels bad.... This is very hard....reaching out, asking for help...It is new to me, doing it is a little scary, not doing it, even more scary....I am not sure I can "always" be the strong one... Since joining Mingle, I have had the pleasure of meeting some wonderful people...Intelligent, kind, ready to offer a helping hand to anyone who asks.....Well, I am asking.... Some of you who participate in forums know me, most of you know ManO...He is a long time member with established relationships here...In comparison, I am still a newbie... Jerry and I made a connection on the boards, we decided we wanted to take the next step and meet...We did....Our meeting went well and we began that walk down the difficult path a long distance relationship often creates.....We are learning as we go and sometimes we make mistakes, with each other and with fellow Minglers...Jerry and I don't know yet what our future holds, only that we want to explore the possibilities...We need to spend more time together...We need to find ways to stay close between visits... Because this is new and emotions rule I sometimes feel like I am wearing my skin inside out, like every nerve is exposed...I know I am ultra sensitive right now.....If I have made a misstep with anyone here, please accept my apology and be patient with me...I need your friendship and support... If there is anyone out there who has gone through, or is going through, a long distance relationship, your comments, your advice, and your personal experience(s) would be welcome because..... I AM OFF BALANCE AND SOMETIMES IT FEELS BAD...
Don't let mistakes discourage you!
TY!!............
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