Okay, right now you need to call a local
Women's Shelter.
They will take you and your son in.
They will help feed and clothe you and
your son.
They will help you find work.
They will find you an apartment.

This is what they do.

I would have to go with Soufie on this one...

But then again there is some information that you do not give. Like how long have you been staying with these people? Do you have a Job? If not have you even looked for one? Have you checked in on Welfare in order to be able to help with food while your staying with others.

People don't mind helping within reason. That is if the ones they are helping is actually trying to better themselves and doing all they can do. In order to get out of the situation they are in.

I let my ex daughter in-law move in with me with my grand daughter. It was only till she got on her feet. She stayed with me for about 4 months she worked everyday. If she had been blowing her money then yeah it would have caused a problem. But she did help with food in the house and gave me so much money every other week to help off set the utility bills.

Most the time if one is pulling their weight and they know they will be moving out soon the stress is not so great. But if you let someone live with you and they are not working or helping with the off set of grocerys or utilitys then it becomes a probelem in the long run.

Most expect if they share their home with someone to help them out then it is only temporary. Some tend to take advantage of that. Not saying you are for there is not enough to go on here to really know the full situation.

But as Soufie stated there are programs to help those in your situation. Even those programs expect one to help themselves in the long run in order to get on their feet.

So first of all, let me explain my situation. I was married to a man for four years, the first two years were amazing until we had a baby. He became controlling, mentally and physically abusive, and we ended things recently. He did not relinquish the apartment, any of the bank accounts or funds to me, so I was homeless and broke. I went to my mother's for a while but she was anything but supportive. I found someone to take me and my son in, and I moved in a month or so ago.

Now I know I have problems, and I'm a little depressed but I am getting therapy for that. I don't even really bring it up around my hosts unless I have to.

Recently, their daughter (my friend) admitted to them that she felt like I was taking over her place in the family, and pretty much jealousy. She's been making snide remarks here and there, but she hasn't been that bad. I understand where she's coming from.

But last night they lied to me. To my face.

I'm starting to feel neglected and like I've outstayed my welcome. I've spoken with them about everything and they really want to help me, but they've said it's very stressful for them and that they felt like it was no longer their house, but mine.

I only moved in because I had absolutely no where else to go.

I am not taking over your house.

You hide in your rooms all day.

You exclude me from family events, after claiming I am apart of your family.


I just really don't know what to do anymore..

At this point, if I am forced to leave... I will most likely ask my husband to take our son from me.. even though I don't want that happening...

I can't even support myself.. My husband forced me not to work or go to school those four years.

I'm really feeling worse..and worse... like I'm nothing but a burden..

I need help.. and I'm tired of being pushed away.. I can't stand on my own yet but I wish people would be a lot more supportive rather than selfish...

I understand they want their normal lives back, but they could have said no.

This hurts me so much, on top of my recent divorce.

Reading this stuff is causing me to have a problem with my eyes. Water keeps leaking out of them.

settle the custody issue..if u have half then that would make things a little easier or if u get full custody get his *** for child support asap..i know where ur comming from not from a mothers point of view but the childs. its hard and very scary but u can get through it. if u go back ull just drag all this out longer than it has to be. i hope this hellped a little. be strong ill keep u in my preyers and remember its always darkest before dawn

I really don't want to go to a shelter. I won't know anyone there, and to be quite honest I don't feel like sharing my life story. I don't even know if they will accept me since my hosts still want me to stay. It's just random moments when I feel like that they might want me out, but that might be because of other reasons on my part.