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Topic: Loner in a crowd but not lonely
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Mon 02/06/12 12:44 PM
Welcome to the site. Hope you find what you seek.

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Mon 02/06/12 01:49 PM
Thank you, kartagane:smile:

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Mon 02/06/12 01:52 PM
Welcome to Mingle2

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Mon 02/06/12 03:56 PM
Thank you, 2KidsMom

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Mon 02/06/12 04:11 PM

Never had social skills and now-a-days if your not connected into a network of friends you are pretty much alone all the time, doesn't mean it's wanted tho but for me it's been the rule rather than the exception. But that is the ways for all of us who are out in this world who are as such. Not sad or lonely just numb from going out in the public by my self when I KNOW there are others out looking to meet some one different.:smile: Why does a life time in the love of one's life mean you enjoy it alone?
A off the cuff hello from a TMI person.


Comfortably Numb by Pink Floyd. But yeah it isn't a bad place to be. It is a step in the right direction. The more social one can get the better the odds of finding that right person. Sure helps for not settling for the wrong person. With me it is putting my feelers out there like a grass hopper. My pastor told me that women have feelings and men have feelers. I think that one can enjoy it alone because one has the time to make a honest appraisal. It is like that felt pretty good but maybe if I go back with my eyes open I might get a second opinion. My social network is growing.:smile: I bought my male friend dinner at a all you can eat buffet. He said that was all he wanted for doing work for me. Since we both go to the meetings I know he probably could have drunk me under the table but when it comes to eating he just couldn't compete. I really pigged out and it was fun.laugh

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Tue 02/07/12 02:20 PM
"Comfortably Numb by Pink Floyd. But yeah it isn't a bad place to be. It is a step in the right direction. The more social one can get the better the odds of finding that right person. Sure helps for not settling for the wrong person. With me it is putting my feelers out there like a grass hopper. My pastor told me that women have feelings and men have feelers. I think that one can enjoy it alone because one has the time to make a honest appraisal. It is like that felt pretty good but maybe if I go back with my eyes open I might get a second opinion. My social network is growing. I bought my male friend dinner at a all you can eat buffet. He said that was all he wanted for doing work for me. Since we both go to the meetings I know he probably could have drunk me under the table but when it comes to eating he just couldn't compete. I really pigged out and it was fun."

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Well it sounds like you had fun and no doubt he could drink you 'under the table', chuckles, haven't done that since my college days Rainbow Trout, can't do it now (Because of job and rules on someone like me) and thank you for the insite on a night's event in your life maybe some day for me, who knows (giggles law of probability may have some thing in store for me, lol) it's really nice to get glimpses of other ppl's lives from here, gives me something to look forward to after a hard and busy day at work. Now to get some one within driving range to start a conversation with me, not that all I have gotten here so far isn't nice either it is! and it's nice to listen to the world at large conversing with me.

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Tue 02/07/12 02:30 PM
A note to all......sorry if I come across as an egg head I'm just being my self and I hope no one feels offended I never intend to offend anyone or make them feel any the lesser!. Just for the books till I was well into my 30's did I feel being an egg head was a curse...it is what has estranged me from society all my life and scared a lot of ppl off....... I just wonder if some beautiful in mind and sprit woman could deal with a nut job like me!, chuckles:smile:

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Sat 02/11/12 07:10 PM
I'm deleting my account due to rules on me. My best wishes to all, be well and happy. From the Nuclear nut, waving me.

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Tue 02/14/12 10:01 AM
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