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Topic: young men older women
nessyk's photo
Sun 02/05/12 12:18 AM
Can anyone explain for me what is the thing young men have for older women?

I joined the site a couple of weeks ago and have been amazed by the amount of mail i'm receiving from men less than half my age.

Don't get me wrong i'm not bragging or complaining, but young men don't come on to me in the real world.

And then there's the thing about talking sensuously to men the same age as your sons.


Id appreciate any thoughts!

whobedat's photo
Sun 02/05/12 12:47 AM
Definitely u are talking from experience, but love knows no AGE limits, nor RACE but i thinku are entitled to ur opinion

bramgirl's photo
Sun 02/05/12 12:59 AM
I've been told by younger men that they like that we don't play games and we are not as needy. We are experienced and know what we want. As for having a sexual relationship with a younger guy and your children and him are the same age....Don't think of the age its just a number really means nothing Have some fun you never know what could materialize ...my mom is 67 and her boyfriend of 20 years is 51

no photo
Sun 02/05/12 01:06 AM

Can anyone explain for me what is the thing young men have for older women?

I joined the site a couple of weeks ago and have been amazed by the amount of mail i'm receiving from men less than half my age.

Don't get me wrong i'm not bragging or complaining, but young men don't come on to me in the real world.

And then there's the thing about talking sensuously to men the same age as your sons.


Id appreciate any thoughts!


they are braver online than IRL - but IRL they THINK the things they say to you online

they mostly assume that at your age that you have more sexual experience than girls their own age, and many think you will be easier to gt into bed because of that

so they are mostly in it because they r hoping for easy sex & they won't hang around long once they feel they have "learned" as much as they can frm u

sorry - it is what it is

don't be flattered by their attention - they couldn't care less about u - it's all about getting laid to them

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Sun 02/05/12 01:28 AM
Hahaha I get younger guys commin onto me all the time in real life.......this wasn't so like 10- years ago.....my daughter brought some friends over the other night ha one of the 19 yr old kid was coming onto me Kt was funny!

s1owhand's photo
Sun 02/05/12 01:53 AM
Edited by s1owhand on Sun 02/05/12 01:56 AM
Young guys are not getting anywhere near enough sex and they rewatch
American Pie over and over again wishing they could be with
Stiffler's Mom. Then they watch this video over and over again.

http://youtu.be/dZLfasMPOU4

Then they think more and more of how nice it would be to have a
nice experienced woman appreciate them and as they think about it
they...they...they...

Think about it again.

And then they go out to the family room and watch this movie:

http://youtu.be/mXvxCAlwTE0

Then they think about it some more. Then watch the Saturday
Night Live Shake Weight commercial.

And think to themselves.
"I definitely don't need a Shake Weight."

laugh
drinker

http://youtu.be/RVTKCZGdu44

laugh

no photo
Sun 02/05/12 01:57 AM
exactly

A Boy's Dream

s1owhand's photo
Sun 02/05/12 01:59 AM
waving

Not that there is anything at all wrong with that!

drinker

laugh

nessyk's photo
Sun 02/05/12 02:00 AM
hmm i'm getting a laugh and learning something at the same time, thanks everyone, appreciate you taking the time !

nessyk's photo
Sun 02/05/12 02:07 AM
whats a shake weight?

DaddyTime's photo
Sun 02/05/12 02:08 AM
hmm what about younger women with older men, I personally get messages from 18 - 20 year olds who are interested. my ex was 8 years younger then me and is now with a man 13 years older them me. it is not about the sex there as she still came to me for awhile after to fill those needs.

Can it be different in the case of older women & younger men, then it is with younger women & older men?

If one can form a relationship why not the other, is it simply because it is perceived that men only think with their penises? I sadly do agree though that they simply want sex but I would say that about most guys on these sites and a lot of women to.

judge each case as best you can and I would not assume anything with out getting to know the person.

s1owhand's photo
Sun 02/05/12 02:29 AM
Personally I think it IS different between younger women and
older men. Women and men are different.

bigsmile

:angel:

Not that there's anything wrong with that either.

laugh

no photo
Sun 02/05/12 02:41 AM
For young man , elder women look sexy in their body..than teen girls..their fat tissue enlarge and expose..and little elder women and more sexy for boys:)

no photo
Sun 02/05/12 04:03 AM
This is purely speculation and dependent on the age of both parties..I do think it’s about sex/level of experience combined with the fact that some older women aren’t necessarily looking to settle down – the assumption being that older women having come out of marriages/long term relationships, know what they want, don’t play games, are more honest with their feelings, aren’t looking to have (any more) kids and are more secure i.e. not possessive and being ok if he wants to spend time with his friends etc.

How true this is I don’t know but it is what I have come to think based on some of the conversations that I have had with younger guys...


andrewzooms's photo
Sun 02/05/12 04:12 AM

This is purely speculation and dependent on the age of both parties..I do think it’s about sex/level of experience combined with the fact that some older women aren’t necessarily looking to settle down – the assumption being that older women having come out of marriages/long term relationships, know what they want, don’t play games, are more honest with their feelings, aren’t looking to have (any more) kids and are more secure i.e. not possessive and being ok if he wants to spend time with his friends etc.

How true this is I don’t know but it is what I have come to think based on some of the conversations that I have had with younger guys...




Dang you hit the nail on the head.

no photo
Sun 02/05/12 04:30 AM


This is purely speculation and dependent on the age of both parties..I do think it’s about sex/level of experience combined with the fact that some older women aren’t necessarily looking to settle down – the assumption being that older women having come out of marriages/long term relationships, know what they want, don’t play games, are more honest with their feelings, aren’t looking to have (any more) kids and are more secure i.e. not possessive and being ok if he wants to spend time with his friends etc.

How true this is I don’t know but it is what I have come to think based on some of the conversations that I have had with younger guys...




Dang you hit the nail on the head.


The weird thing is that younger guys seem to get it and are even open to a long term relationship (or so they say :smile:) but guys around my own age don't...why is that?

andrewzooms's photo
Sun 02/05/12 04:34 AM



This is purely speculation and dependent on the age of both parties..I do think it’s about sex/level of experience combined with the fact that some older women aren’t necessarily looking to settle down – the assumption being that older women having come out of marriages/long term relationships, know what they want, don’t play games, are more honest with their feelings, aren’t looking to have (any more) kids and are more secure i.e. not possessive and being ok if he wants to spend time with his friends etc.

How true this is I don’t know but it is what I have come to think based on some of the conversations that I have had with younger guys...




Dang you hit the nail on the head.



The weird thing is that younger guys seem to get it and are even open to a long term relationship (or so they say :smile:) but guys around my own age don't...why is that?



They don't want to get married again or have children probably. Want more freedom. Being tied down is not of intrest to them lol.

no photo
Sun 02/05/12 04:45 AM




This is purely speculation and dependent on the age of both parties..I do think it’s about sex/level of experience combined with the fact that some older women aren’t necessarily looking to settle down – the assumption being that older women having come out of marriages/long term relationships, know what they want, don’t play games, are more honest with their feelings, aren’t looking to have (any more) kids and are more secure i.e. not possessive and being ok if he wants to spend time with his friends etc.

How true this is I don’t know but it is what I have come to think based on some of the conversations that I have had with younger guys...




Dang you hit the nail on the head.



The weird thing is that younger guys seem to get it and are even open to a long term relationship (or so they say :smile:) but guys around my own age don't...why is that?



They don't want to get married again or have children probably. Want more freedom. Being tied down is not of intrest to them lol.


I think that (some) young guys don't mind being told what to do by an older woman bigsmile

andrewzooms's photo
Sun 02/05/12 04:49 AM





This is purely speculation and dependent on the age of both parties..I do think it’s about sex/level of experience combined with the fact that some older women aren’t necessarily looking to settle down – the assumption being that older women having come out of marriages/long term relationships, know what they want, don’t play games, are more honest with their feelings, aren’t looking to have (any more) kids and are more secure i.e. not possessive and being ok if he wants to spend time with his friends etc.

How true this is I don’t know but it is what I have come to think based on some of the conversations that I have had with younger guys...




Dang you hit the nail on the head.



The weird thing is that younger guys seem to get it and are even open to a long term relationship (or so they say :smile:) but guys around my own age don't...why is that?



They don't want to get married again or have children probably. Want more freedom. Being tied down is not of intrest to them lol.


I think that (some) young guys don't mind being told what to do by an older woman bigsmile


As long as they get something in return. :wink:

DontBrakeMyHeart1's photo
Sun 02/05/12 05:26 AM
I would go for a younger guy... i am 22 what is with guys as old as my dad or in there 30s and older hitting on me? Gramps back off... you want a friend i am your girl anything else and creepy.

and um can it be in the same state? please?

but ya can't wait to hit 30 or more so the younger guys start talking to me instead of the other way around.

don't get me wrong some of the guys in my age range do come around... there just in a different time zone. I want some one to meat and cuddle with and marry and have kids.... not share I wish i could come and see you e mails. sorry... bit off topic.

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