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Topic: young men older women
navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Mon 02/06/12 11:12 AM
I don't think its fair that you categorize us 'young males', especially since everyone is different. I was quite offended that most of you will instantly assume that all I want is sex because of my age. Get to know the person before you start judging please. Never categorize people, you never know who you will offend. It could even be the perfect guy for you, but because of a stupid comment they might never speak to you. I think you said the key word young. What life experience do you have at 22? Did you have a 20 year career? Have you raised a child to adulthood? Have you seen friends die because of age related factors? How much have you travled? How much have you dated to know what you really want in a woman? I doubt you could answer any or all of these questions based on experience. Mature women have that experience and most don't want to date what they would consider a child. I have talked to guys in their 20s and although charming are very niave about life. Want some advice? Stick to girls you own age and grow with them. Take your time; sow your wild oats and have fun.

Cougarluvercub24 Joined Thu 01/19/12 Posts: 17	Tue 02/07/12 07:20 AM
Hey its not always about the sex, just hanging out with a cougar is cool

Spidercmb Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 13137	Tue 02/07/12 07:45 AM Edited by Spidercmb on Tue 02/07/12 07:46 AM


singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 02/07/12 07:54 AM
Hey its not always about the sex, just hanging out with a cougar is cool How much of an age difference are you talking about here? What kinds of things do you do when you hang out? Do you have much in common?

irisheyes79 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 16745	Tue 02/07/12 04:32 PM
i likes em older

Down2earthdebbie Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 6097	Tue 02/07/12 09:16 PM
i likes em older I like them younger!!!

Cougarluvercub24 Joined Thu 01/19/12 Posts: 17	Tue 02/07/12 09:18 PM
I'm 24 so anything from 26 to 40 is ok with me. And yes hanging would mean we've got a lot in common if we don't click then no

Precious-Man Joined Thu 10/13/11 Posts: 88	Wed 02/08/12 04:39 AM
And i hope there's nothing wrong with it.

Down2earthdebbie Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 6097	Thu 02/16/12 07:17 PM
Older men.......don't like me!!!! lol Save the YOUNG ones for ME!!!

Cmarquette Joined Sun 02/05/12 Posts: 2	Thu 02/16/12 10:17 PM
some men don't care if you young or older. we want a woman that knows what they want in life. i love the mind, body, and soul of a older woman sex isn't everything in a relationship our mind and soul got to be right before trying to sex anybody

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Thu 02/16/12 10:51 PM
don't be flattered by their attention - they couldn't care less about u - it's all about getting laid to them i think i've read that same book, and i pretty much agree :)

royalblue599 Joined Wed 08/18/10 Posts: 932	Thu 02/16/12 11:03 PM
word

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sun 02/19/12 01:29 AM
don't be flattered by their attention - they couldn't care less about u - it's all about getting laid to them i think i've read that same book, and i pretty much agree :) Yep, that has pretty much been my experience with younger guys too.

fussaguy Joined Sat 06/27/09 Posts: 1916	Sun 02/19/12 06:45 AM
Ask me after sex

DebzGirl Joined Sun 02/19/12 Posts: 1	Mon 02/20/12 12:53 AM
Personsally as a 44 year old woman I have found its plain fashionable guys love the whole idea of a "cougar" its on tv and in movies so much at the moment young guys want to rty it out thats all.

gentlestar339 Joined Wed 01/25/12 Posts: 1	Mon 02/20/12 05:20 AM Edited by gentlestar339 on Mon 02/20/12 05:25 AM
I really love ur thinking and ur honesty..age it's just a number and u elder people most have gone through love and u elder women knows the true definiton of LOVE..what we guys want ..most especially me ..someone that is open minded and honest ..someone that knows the real definition of LOVE

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Mon 02/20/12 09:18 AM
Personsally as a 44 year old woman I have found its plain fashionable guys love the whole idea of a "cougar" its on tv and in movies so much at the moment young guys want to rty it out thats all. I think that is why most of us are just not interested. I am not a cougar and I am not there for some young guy to use me for sex. I don't want an older man doing that why is it acceptable for a young man to do that. I have too much self respect for myself.

Optomistic69 Joined Mon 10/10/11 Posts: 5173	Mon 02/20/12 09:22 AM
I think that is why most of us are just not interested. I am not a cougar and I am not there for some young guy to use me for sex. I don't want an older man doing that why is it acceptable for a young man to do that. I have too much self respect for myself.

MultipleDichotomies Joined Fri 02/17/12 Posts: 81	Wed 02/22/12 11:12 AM
When I was 18 until my first marriage, older women actually hit on me, and I had a few fantastic relationships from that. After my first divorce, younger women were suddenly in to me, and I had some fun with that, too. Now, I'm finding I just have more in common with older women. I'm not in a hurry to do anything...I'm happy to observe this journey and seek out new experiences based on quality. Frankly, I'm a bit put off by the popularity and the term "cougar", because of the bad experiences the older women are having. I still have a serious crush on Helen Mirren, though.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Wed 02/22/12 08:29 PM
I have had it they give me a headache