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pennyg281 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 4348	Sat 02/04/12 08:56 PM
I cant say ive never judged people but I try really hard not to because I dont want people judging me. :)

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Sat 02/04/12 10:57 PM
Yep for sure. I run a business and some people I have to be wary of, so the starting point is always looks, I have never not liked someone becaue of how they looked, but I have been more careful because of how someone looked.

Dan99 Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 14941	Sat 02/04/12 11:10 PM
I am judging all of you right now.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Sun 02/05/12 10:38 AM
Physical is what it is..... there has to be an attraction. Beyond that.....there has to be.... Substance. Integrity, confidence, Honor. The ability to be true to one's self.... regardless of what other think. That allows one to be true to others. Not if they are hot enough.

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Sun 02/05/12 11:00 AM
Physical is what it is..... there has to be an attraction. Beyond that.....there has to be.... Substance. Integrity, confidence, Honor. The ability to be true to one's self.... regardless of what other think. That allows one to be true to others. Not if they are hot enough. True enough!!!!!

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sun 02/05/12 11:06 AM
Dudes and Dudettes Guys and Girls Ladies and Gentlemen...I have here a really sensitive topic more so a question to ask that requires you to be totaly honest with yourself.Have you ever judged someone by their looks and appearances?I have done it plenty of times not ashamed bout itl yes, but not their character, just their habits: whether outward appearance seems to be a high priority, whether they are into the latest 'trends', whether they bother with hygiene, whether they try to 'fit in' with a specific age group whether they bother with professionalism whether they try too hard to be 'unique', stand out,grab attention etc...... I have judged peoples character by their behavior and how they 'carry' themself

42BlackBBW Joined Mon 09/12/11 Posts: 3243	Sun 02/05/12 11:28 AM
Yes, I am guilty of making judgements about people but that doesn’t mean that I’m not capable of reversing an opinion that may have been based on an initial first impression.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sun 02/05/12 11:31 AM Edited by navygirl on Sun 02/05/12 11:39 AM
No, I have never judged anyone by their looks or appearances. I judge them by the way they treat me. I learned at a very young age not to judge anyone by outer appearances and have always been that way. In my experiences, I have learned that good looks doesn't equal a good person. I can't judge others for how they look as I know what it feels like to be judged for how I look. It would be hypocritical of me to do that.

winterblue56 Joined Sun 12/12/10 Posts: 2465	Sun 02/05/12 07:33 PM
Physical is what it is..... there has to be an attraction. Beyond that.....there has to be.... Substance. Integrity, confidence, Honor. The ability to be true to one's self.... regardless of what other think. That allows one to be true to others. Not if they are hot enough. Hot girl with no substance...

winterblue56 Joined Sun 12/12/10 Posts: 2465	Sun 02/05/12 07:34 PM
I like to think that mine are observations

DaddyTime Joined Wed 02/01/12 Posts: 530	Sun 02/05/12 07:42 PM
Dudes and Dudettes Guys and Girls Ladies and Gentlemen...I have here a really sensitive topic more so a question to ask that requires you to be totaly honest with yourself.Have you ever judged someone by their looks and appearances?I have done it plenty of times not ashamed bout itl yes, but not their character, just their habits: whether outward appearance seems to be a high priority, whether they are into the latest 'trends', whether they bother with hygiene, whether they try to 'fit in' with a specific age group whether they bother with professionalism whether they try too hard to be 'unique', stand out,grab attention etc...... I have judged peoples character by their behavior and how they 'carry' themself If judging people I would say these would be the best things to judge them on.