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Topic: Hard to Get
MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Thu 01/26/12 01:13 PM
Where's tact in that? Why are men so turned on by this type of woman? Is there a line between needy and coy interest? How are you supposed to know anybody when pure interest is really at the forefront? Most women do live by this. Confusing to me....

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Thu 01/26/12 01:16 PM
I'm not turned on when a woman plays hard to get. If you want to be with me, be with me, if not, goodbye. I have zero tolerance for games.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 01/26/12 01:17 PM
I have no patience for people who play hard to get. I will lose interest quickly.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76453	Thu 01/26/12 01:18 PM
Where's tact in that? Why are men so turned on by this type of woman? Is there a line between needy and coy interest? How are you supposed to know anybody when pure interest is really at the forefront? Most women do live by this. Confusing to me.... Humm I don't think it is so much that some play hard to get just that they are not going to get them and some think they are playing hard to get. Reality of it is they don't want them anyway...lmao

42BlackBBW Joined Mon 09/12/11 Posts: 3243	Thu 01/26/12 01:19 PM
I'm not turned on when a woman plays hard to get. If you want to be with me, be with me, if not, goodbye. I have zero tolerance for games. change gender and I completely agree with you

patsfan64 Joined Fri 03/14/08 Posts: 1258	Thu 01/26/12 01:20 PM
Where's tact in that? Why are men so turned on by this type of woman? Is there a line between needy and coy interest? How are you supposed to know anybody when pure interest is really at the forefront? Most women do live by this. Confusing to me.... Not this man! I've never been turned by a woman who plays hard to get. Getting through each day can be challenging enough!

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Thu 01/26/12 01:24 PM
Where's tact in that? Why are men so turned on by this type of woman? Is there a line between needy and coy interest? How are you supposed to know anybody when pure interest is really at the forefront? Most women do live by this. Confusing to me.... I think this kind of thinking dates back to the days of our grandparents. If a woman played hard to get, it meant she was a respectalble woman and not easy. I agree though that its silly as its just game playing to me.

patsfan64 Joined Fri 03/14/08 Posts: 1258	Thu 01/26/12 01:28 PM
Where's tact in that? Why are men so turned on by this type of woman? Is there a line between needy and coy interest? How are you supposed to know anybody when pure interest is really at the forefront? Most women do live by this. Confusing to me.... I think this kind of thinking dates back to the days of our grandparents. If a woman played hard to get, it meant she was a respectalble woman and not easy. I agree though that its silly as its just game playing to me. This is the day of drive thru, same day delivery and dry cleaning...easy is good!

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Thu 01/26/12 01:29 PM
I guess I don't get the boner-inducing aspect. What about the shy girl you ignored who was always there for you? Oh yeah...she's too mousy, not a knockout.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Thu 01/26/12 01:31 PM
I'm more intimidated by the shy girls. They can be harder to read, but then again, having to pay closer attention to them makes them even more attractive and alluring to me.

42BlackBBW Joined Mon 09/12/11 Posts: 3243	Thu 01/26/12 01:32 PM
Personally, I've never got the 'treat em mean, keep em keen' thing either tbh

patsfan64 Joined Fri 03/14/08 Posts: 1258	Thu 01/26/12 01:33 PM
I guess I don't get the boner-inducing aspect. What about the shy girl you ignored who was always there for you? Oh yeah...she's too mousy, not a knockout. I think every single one of us no matter who you are have been ignored a time or dozen.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Thu 01/26/12 01:34 PM
Where's tact in that? Why are men so turned on by this type of woman? Is there a line between needy and coy interest? How are you supposed to know anybody when pure interest is really at the forefront? Most women do live by this. Confusing to me.... I think this kind of thinking dates back to the days of our grandparents. If a woman played hard to get, it meant she was a respectalble woman and not easy. I agree though that its silly as its just game playing to me. This is the day of drive thru, same day delivery and dry cleaning...easy is good! I wouldn't want a guy to easy; that means he has no self respect.

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Thu 01/26/12 01:35 PM Edited by DTHRomeo on Thu 01/26/12 01:35 PM
Methinks as long there's a mutual understanding on what's going on ... there'll be no misunderstandings ... In a perfect world.

42BlackBBW Joined Mon 09/12/11 Posts: 3243	Thu 01/26/12 01:35 PM
I actually kinda like shy guys more because it's very rare that they don't say what they mean and I always know where I am with them.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Thu 01/26/12 01:35 PM
Im an open book when guys show interest. I don't care for men who make it so difficult to call or meet them.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Thu 01/26/12 01:35 PM
Personally, I've never got the 'treat em mean, keep em keen' thing either tbh You know I don't either but I read the book " Why men love B*tches" and that was an eye opener.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Thu 01/26/12 01:37 PM
I'll take one order of nerdy/sexy/cute/hilarious/weird girl with a side of good kisser please.

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Thu 01/26/12 01:38 PM
Im an open book when guys show interest. I don't care for men who make it so difficult to call or meet them.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Thu 01/26/12 01:39 PM
Im an open book when guys show interest. I don't care for men who make it so difficult to call or meet them. I suppose that may be part of my problem is that I am not an open book. Although, the book I mentioned says men like women with a bit of mystery. Is it a wonder that people are confused when dating?