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Gonna say this only once...Men are never too busy not to return a call. We're on a frickin dating site all. More time spent than left. Just saying.
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Seems to be a matter of maturity - on both ends - the women who do it and the men who love it? Dunno, never had time to play the games.
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Where's tact in that? Why are men so turned on by this type of woman? Is there a line between needy and coy interest? How are you supposed to know anybody when pure interest is really at the forefront? Most women do live by this. Confusing to me.... Hmmm...interesting. I haven't met a guy online yet that was willing to put any effort into a relationship. I guess I make it too easy when I'm interested. There is an alternative answer, but it's a bit too painful to think about. I'll take answer A. |
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Edited by
Goofball73
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Fri 01/27/12 01:41 PM
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I hear I play hard to get. The reality is that I just don't normally pick up on when a girl is interested. I can think of so many reasons why she wouldn't or shouldn't be. Even if my friends tell me "Yo bro. Chick is into you. Wake up". I'll brush it off and just be in denial. Still, women see this as me playing hard to get. I even had one woman come to me and just get right in my face and said, "God you are so difficult. I LIKE YOU DIPSH*T"! Ahhhhhhh.....but that turned out to be lust. Good times.
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Im an open book when guys show interest. I don't care for men who make it so difficult to call or meet them. I suppose that may be part of my problem is that I am not an open book. Although, the book I mentioned says men like women with a bit of mystery. Is it a wonder that people are confused when dating?  I think its more impatience than confusion. People dont want to wait for anything, including to truly get to know someone or their interests,,,, |
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I hear I play hard to get. The reality is that I just don't normally pick up on when a girl is interested. I can think of so many reasons why she wouldn't or shouldn't be. Even if my friends tell me "Yo bro. Chick is into you. Wake up". I'll will brush it off and just be in denial. Still, women see this as me playing hard to get. I even had one woman come to me and just get right in my face and said, "God you are so difficult. I LIKE YOU DIPSH*T"! Ahhhhhhh.....but that turned out to be lust. Good times. Such a romantic. 
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I think its more impatience than confusion. People dont want to wait for anything, including to truly get to know someone or their interests,,,, 
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Edited by
Ruth34611
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Fri 01/27/12 01:54 PM
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Gonna say this only once...Men are never too busy not to return a call. We're on a frickin dating site all. More time spent than left. Just saying. lots of people barely check their calls, Im one internet is my preferred method,,,, |
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I guess I don't get the boner-inducing aspect. What about the shy girl you ignored who was always there for you? Oh yeah...she's too mousy, not a knockout. |
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Gonna say this only once...Men are never too busy not to return a call. We're on a frickin dating site all. More time spent than left. Just saying. lots of people barely check their calls, Im one internet is my preferred method,,,, Sometimes even with the internet people make up excuses. |
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Where's tact in that? Why are men so turned on by this type of woman? Is there a line between needy and coy interest? How are you supposed to know anybody when pure interest is really at the forefront? Most women do live by this. Confusing to me.... Hmmm...interesting. I haven't met a guy online yet that was willing to put any effort into a relationship. I guess I make it too easy when I'm interested. There is an alternative answer, but it's a bit too painful to think about. I'll take answer A. I think a lot of people online just aren't serious about much. They feel that because they're online, it doesn't have to be as serious as meeting people in other ways. And it's easier to lie about things. |
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Gonna say this only once...Men are never too busy not to return a call. We're on a frickin dating site all. More time spent than left. Just saying. lots of people barely check their calls, Im one internet is my preferred method,,,, Sometimes even with the internet people make up excuses. Some people will make up excuses no matter what. |
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I must be hard to get.............
only interest I have recieved.... is from over sea's............ 
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Where's tact in that? Why are men so turned on by this type of woman? Is there a line between needy and coy interest? How are you supposed to know anybody when pure interest is really at the forefront? Most women do live by this. Confusing to me.... Hmmm...interesting. I haven't met a guy online yet that was willing to put any effort into a relationship. I guess I make it too easy when I'm interested. There is an alternative answer, but it's a bit too painful to think about. I'll take answer A. I think a lot of people online just aren't serious about much. They feel that because they're online, it doesn't have to be as serious as meeting people in other ways. And it's easier to lie about things. I think most are treating this as some sort of nonchalant avenue to meet people. Most of the population are registered on dating sites so I don't really see the embarrassment behind it. Back in the '30s they used to write pen-pal letters and dine for dates that way. I guess it was more the sophisticated way of online before the internet was invented. Definitely easier to lie online then in person. I guess a lot of people are/tend to be afraid of this medium and get super protective of their feelings. |
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I must be hard to get............. only interest I have recieved.... is from over sea's............ I think that's a lot of us here. Kinda the theme of the site. |
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I hear I play hard to get. The reality is that I just don't normally pick up on when a girl is interested. I can think of so many reasons why she wouldn't or shouldn't be. Even if my friends tell me "Yo bro. Chick is into you. Wake up". I'll brush it off and just be in denial. Still, women see this as me playing hard to get. I even had one woman come to me and just get right in my face and said, "God you are so difficult. I LIKE YOU DIPSH*T"! Ahhhhhhh.....but that turned out to be lust. Good times. Same here. I am completely unable to detect interest in me unless she puts up a billboard or something. For the most part, I just blame it on the Asperger's and forget about it....but it has happened often enough to become a repeating theme.... |
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I'm not turned on when a woman plays hard to get. If you want to be with me, be with me, if not, goodbye. I have zero tolerance for games. |
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Gonna say this only once...Men are never too busy not to return a call. We're on a frickin dating site all. More time spent than left. Just saying. Ummmmm......... I lost you're......Number!!!!!! I was at the hospital all night with a sick friend. I lost my phone.
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Gonna say this only once...Men are never too busy not to return a call. We're on a frickin dating site all. More time spent than left. Just saying. Ummmmm......... I lost you're......Number!!!!!! I was at the hospital all night with a sick friend. I lost my phone. 
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