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Topic: Tough Love
msharmony's photo
Tue 01/24/12 11:15 PM

What does good feel like? Have you ever had someone tell you that they are going to do something to you for your own good? After they did that to you did you feel more good or better? Or did you just cop an attitude like I usually do?:smile:



wow, I havent heard 'for your own good' since I was a child

in childhood, with tunnelvision and not much experience to understand, it neither made me feel better or worse


as I got older,more experienced, and able to appreciate the long term affect, I felt much better though

Sin_and_Sorrow's photo
Tue 01/24/12 11:16 PM


What does good feel like? Have you ever had someone tell you that they are going to do something to you for your own good? After they did that to you did you feel more good or better? Or did you just cop an attitude like I usually do?:smile:



wow, I havent heard 'for your own good' since I was a child

in childhood, with tunnelvision and not much experience to understand, it neither made me feel better or worse


as I got older,more experienced, and able to appreciate the long term affect, I felt much better though


I disagree.

Not because there is something to actually disagree about.
Not because I actually have an opposing opinion.

Simply because..

I <3 disagreeing with you Harmony. :)

msharmony's photo
Tue 01/24/12 11:24 PM



What does good feel like? Have you ever had someone tell you that they are going to do something to you for your own good? After they did that to you did you feel more good or better? Or did you just cop an attitude like I usually do?:smile:



wow, I havent heard 'for your own good' since I was a child

in childhood, with tunnelvision and not much experience to understand, it neither made me feel better or worse


as I got older,more experienced, and able to appreciate the long term affect, I felt much better though


I disagree.

Not because there is something to actually disagree about.
Not because I actually have an opposing opinion.

Simply because..

I <3 disagreeing with you Harmony. :)



lol,, you do it well,,,laugh

Tulareman's photo
Tue 01/24/12 11:27 PM

Violence is something that I don't do or let me be on the recieving end of. But I do think when you make a mistake and you dont know it, I want to be told so that way I dont make that mistake anymore and I grow from that. I am open to that. I am not perfect, not anywhere close to being perfect but I want to get to be the best person I can be. I can sometimes be blinde when it comes to my imperfections so I appreciate being told them. If that makes sense.
It makes sense to me. I am the same way. If I am wrong in something. I want to be told about it.Thats the I learn trough out life.

winterblue56's photo
Wed 01/25/12 06:47 AM

What does good feel like? Have you ever had someone tell you that they are going to do something to you for your own good? After they did that to you did you feel more good or better? Or did you just cop an attitude like I usually do?:smile:


When/if I hear that statement, the first thing that goes through my mind is "control"....and I think to myself, "how do they know what is best for me??" Now if they would have said to me, "hey, have you ever thought of doing "this or that", my mind would have been questioning my whatever it was that they KNEW would be best for my own good.

winterblue56's photo
Wed 01/25/12 06:49 AM


What does good feel like? Have you ever had someone tell you that they are going to do something to you for your own good? After they did that to you did you feel more good or better? Or did you just cop an attitude like I usually do?:smile:

The toughest LOVE I have ever had to do,,was walk away from a woman I truly loved with all my heart. knowing,,,I couldn't take her loving me,,,and someone else...
THATS, tough-Love..brokenheart Mine hurt like HELL.


Been there...done that. They always said "set them free and if they come back they are yours, if they don't, they never were. Mine didn't so I guess he wasn't.

Da1Dezzy's photo
Wed 01/25/12 08:21 AM
lol

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