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Topic: Guys and their egos
Spenzer Joined Fri 01/20/12 Posts: 260	Fri 01/20/12 02:39 PM
Why is it that men don't want to acknowledge other men's looks or if they do they are ridiculed by other men as being gay...I basically don't see the problem when I ask a dude if another dude is hot

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Fri 01/20/12 02:41 PM
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patsfan64 Joined Fri 03/14/08 Posts: 1258	Fri 01/20/12 02:42 PM
Why is it that men don't want to acknowledge other men's looks or if they do they are ridiculed by other men as being gay...I basically don't see the problem when I ask a dude if another dude is hot I don't you'll get most men to say another guy is "hot" but I have no problem acknowledging a guy is good looking. We're usually jealous of better looking guys!

Spidercmb Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 13137	Fri 01/20/12 02:48 PM
Why is it that men don't want to acknowledge other men's looks or if they do they are ridiculed by other men as being gay...I basically don't see the problem when I ask a dude if another dude is hot I don't know that I can objectively say if another man is hot. The fact that women are attracted to Russel Brand tells me that I know nothing about what women think is attractive.

Spenzer Joined Fri 01/20/12 Posts: 260	Fri 01/20/12 02:52 PM
Yeah but others can't even say the words ''he's goodlooking'' about another guy..Russel Brand has a sexy accent

patsfan64 Joined Fri 03/14/08 Posts: 1258	Fri 01/20/12 02:55 PM
Yeah but others can't even say the words ''he's goodlooking'' about another guy..Russel Brand has a sexy accent I have a wicked pissa make believe Bostonian accent.

Spidercmb Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 13137	Fri 01/20/12 02:57 PM
Yeah but others can't even say the words ''he's goodlooking'' about another guy..Russel Brand has a sexy accent By that standard, so does every scabby, lice ridden hobo in the London sewers.

Spenzer Joined Fri 01/20/12 Posts: 260	Fri 01/20/12 02:59 PM
Yeah but others can't even say the words ''he's goodlooking'' about another guy..Russel Brand has a sexy accent I have a wicked pissa make believe Bostonian accent. There's no such thing lol really Russel is funny has a british accent knows how to party to me he's hot

andrewzooms Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 2842	Fri 01/20/12 02:59 PM
Yeah but others can't even say the words ''he's goodlooking'' about another guy..Russel Brand has a sexy accent ' Sadly he is not funny.

Spenzer Joined Fri 01/20/12 Posts: 260	Fri 01/20/12 03:00 PM
Yeah but others can't even say the words ''he's goodlooking'' about another guy..Russel Brand has a sexy accent By that standard, so does every scabby, lice ridden hobo in the London sewers. yep and that's the determiner he ain't homeless he's refined

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Fri 01/20/12 03:18 PM
Why is it that men don't want to acknowledge other men's looks or if they do they are ridiculed by other men as being gay...I basically don't see the problem when I ask a dude if another dude is hot I think it is simply preference. I know a lot of guys who wouldn't care to admit if a woman is hot. If a guy admits that another guy is hot around here most would slowly back away from the guy who said it.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Fri 01/20/12 03:26 PM
Simple...INSECURITY Secure men can discuss anything. Yep, I agree.

manOfewwords Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 29908	Fri 01/20/12 03:33 PM
ok, ok...I'm hot.....is that better ??

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Fri 01/20/12 04:04 PM
ok, ok...I'm hot.....is that better ??

winterblue56 Joined Sun 12/12/10 Posts: 2465	Fri 01/20/12 04:12 PM
Yeah but others can't even say the words ''he's goodlooking'' about another guy..Russel Brand has a sexy accent I have a wicked pissa make believe Bostonian accent. Bahston

Teditis Joined Sun 03/07/10 Posts: 3597	Fri 01/20/12 04:12 PM Edited by Teditis on Fri 01/20/12 04:23 PM
Why is it that men don't want to acknowledge other men's looks or if they do they are ridiculed by other men as being gay...I basically don't see the problem when I ask a dude if another dude is hot If i liked chocolate and you cheffed-up something vanilla, I might say that was vanilla very well made. But I doubt that I'd estatic over it. 'Cause I like chocolate, see? "Hot" isn't how I see other fellas... if they possess good looks, well that is what it is... freely admitted.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Fri 01/20/12 04:19 PM
I donno.... I've done alot of art and actually pay attention. I know can see the differece between a good looking man and a but ugly man. I can also tell the difference between a good guy and a A-hole. Most chicks can't do that! But,alot of dudes just won't say anything...it is part of an unwritten Man Code.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Fri 01/20/12 04:28 PM
I donno.... I've done alot of art and actually pay attention. I know can see the differece between a good looking man and a but ugly man. I can also tell the difference between a good guy and a A-hole. Most chicks can't do that! But,alot of dudes just won't say anything...it is part of an unwritten Man Code. You buttheads!

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Fri 01/20/12 04:33 PM
I find it flattering when gay guys comment on my . Yeah boys.....admire what you will never be able to put a gerbile into.*

Bravalady Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 1034	Fri 01/20/12 06:29 PM
Yeah but others can't even say the words ''he's goodlooking'' about another guy..Russel Brand has a sexy accent I have a wicked pissa make believe Bostonian accent. Bahston Good catch, Winterblue. The man is obviously a faker. Or fakuh, to those of us in the know.