does it really offend you when some admits to being drawn to a body part first?

I never got offended by this. It's always happened to me. The usual order is the chest, the tattoo, the face, the hair and then the voice. If I am seen from behind, it's the butt and the legs.

I am shallow in that I like guys with a really nice radio announcer type voice and a nice hearty laugh. If you sound like Donald Duck, you really don't have much of a shot at me.

One of my play mates and I wear web camera talking and I had to get up and do something, I came back and he said, "I love your azz". I was like "cool" because it was late at night and I looked exhausted and was in sweats and my house was mess and he noticed I had a nice ***. AWESOME.

How do you feel about being "parts out"? Does it offend you??

It NEVER offends me and I'm not the least bit shallow!!! We take em when we get em and we are thankful we can "still" get em!!!

Nice brochure and pamphlet

A pregnant lady and me were complimenting each others' stomach. She was asking me when mine was due.

Thank you!! Actually the joke with my guy friends is if you say something like:

"Nice boobs!" You need to slide in a "and you are so funny or clever or smart!" in after that so I feel like you aren't calling me a bimbo.

So they say,"Your azz looks nice in those jeans..."

"oh, I mean, your azz looks nice in those jeans AND DID I MENTION YOUR 170 IQ IS IMPRESSIVE??"

Mind you my friends are giggling and saying she said "slide in"

I told one date she had a nice backside. I got a lecture on respect. She got dismissed.

If a woman cannot take a compliment on her physical appearance without giving me some kind of mental distress she is dismissed. We are all attracted to the physical first. THEN THE MIND NEXT! And if women cannot wrap their mind around that then that woman is a total waste of time and a deluded head case! That is how attraction works in the first place and no amount of rationalization will change that.

People want to believe that attraction works differently for each person but you see the person first and something in your head makes a quick on/off decision right there. For as sick as this may sound we are driven by animal nature and instinct. And no amount of philosophy can change that fact! We all want the best even if it is out of our reach. Why is it you could have a crowd of men but when a pretty boy out of that crowd walks past the females they all get wet in their crotches! When a grunt like myself walks past they all get quiet. Now if I were to walk past them with say $10,000 sticking out of my back pocket, Armani shoes, walking up to a Lexus suddenly I become attractive, why, something about my physical appearance (THE MONEY AND THE STUFF THAT COSTS A LOT OF MONEY!) is the physical attraction!

So does anyone still love me?

As the first chica in school to get a 'rack'
in the 5th grade, I hardly notice it any more.
It becomes your own 'americana' as you grow up.
I suppose if they did NOT look I might feel
freaky by now.

Compliments are good, any time.
And I look at it as a compliment.
Being irresistible has its moments :-)

Yep, I definitely agree.

I don't have a problem with it. However, I do think it's cheesy coming from a complete stranger.

I guess it depends on the word you use. Nice butt sounds better than nice backside.

You could spin that around and think how great it actually is, especially when it comes without unterior motive...... When it is a "Just sayin" kind of thing....


When this happens, I usually wear a smile for the remainder of the day! And I leave a bigger tip!

Just don't tell her her butt looks like two badly parked Volkswagens.

Ah, but from the complete strangers such as someone here that I've never talked to, or some random guy in a bar, I don't think it's always without ulterior motive. Some think it's a good pick up line.

Of course, but that is their problem and their loss...

Right. I was just saying that's the case when I think it's cheesy.

Funny you should mention that. I was wearing a low cut dress and a friend of mine made a comment about my cleavage without thinking. He was embarrassed but I laughed it off. I said if it bothered me for men to look or make comments; then I would wear high collared dresses. I figure if I am showing legs or cleavage; men will make comments. If the comments bothered me; I would cover myself up. I personally don't make comments to men about their body parts though.

Well, at least tell me you whistle at construction workers wearing leather tool belts !!

Sorry, I can't whistle but I can oggle.

And honk that car horn sista!!!

What I've never understood is why do some people find it so offensive when they're complimented on a body part such as.. behind, chest, etc over getting complimented on say things such as eyes, hair, etc.
Is it because some body parts are associated with sex?
I'm not sure I see a difference, however that's just me.
That being said, I don't get offended when I get compliments on any part of my body.