Wat easily breaks up a relatnshp money or sex

Again another good question. I think sex will break up a relationship but money will break up a marriage. JMO

I Think people are more obsessed with sex than money

so I think a great lover who is broke, can hold on to someone longer than a rich man who doesnt 'satisfy' them

It all comes down to individuals. What works for one may not work for the other.

IMO, most relationships are far too complex for a break up to be solely about one thing..it's usually a combination of factors that has contributed to the end of a relationship - the straw that broke the camel's back analogy springs to mind.

money..... let me say again MONEY !!!!!!

Paying for sex.

Neither of those. LIES break up any relationship. Lying about how money is spent, lies about how often either partner wants sex and lies period.

None of the above.

The human mind is responsible for human action. It is the lack of intelligence, one cannot blame environmental variables.

The mind, being responsible for human action, present and planned future.

One measure of an individual is how far into the future their present actions are aimed at. That is called a person's depth.

Some people never end relationships because they live for future results--and learn to live with present pain.

I would say Money.

Relationships break up over power struggles.

Money and sex have nothing to do with it.

So, money and sex are the weapons?

Yes, basically.

According to research, money is the number one cause of arguments.

In my own life, I have never seen anything that contradicts this. In fact, most of what I've seen and heard supports this instead.

This is because so much of what we do is tied to money somehow. We need money to eat. We need money for shelter. We need money to stay healthy. We need money for clothing. Transportation, education, recreation, supporting child....the list goes on.

However, though money may spark the arguments, it is not always the underlying cause. Behavior is. Whether it's how money is spent or earned.

So is money what ends relationships? Not as a general rule.

Neither does sex.

Relationships end because of disagreements over behavior and goals. When two people's wants are divergent, it slowly draws them apart. The other person becomes an anchor, weighing them down and holding them back. When they can no longer stand it, they cut ties to be the person they wish to be.

So long as one can be themselves and live mostly as they wish, they will stay in a relationship despite money or sex.

It's about happiness.

Typically, love makes one happy.

You dont pay them for sex.
You pay them to leave.

Some people never end relationships because they live for future results--and learn to live with present pain.



Until they just can't anymore!!! Because they finally realized it was killing them.

True. There are a number of women on this site who have shared their experiences from such relationships. But I didn't sense the OP was referring to abusive partners.

Even then, it still falls under the category of behavior. When they finally leave because of their partner's abusive behavior, it's often because they are afraid for their lives or the lives of their children.

Trust

I'm still a virgin so I can't say it's sex. Checked my bank account so it can't be money, unless of course I'm having a relationship with them. Lets see "sex or money?"

Are there other options?