Topic: I just have one little question,well maybe 2.
soufiehere's photo
Thu 12/22/11 09:04 AM


The forums ARE the mingling part.

All i see is friendships here which is
wonderful,but are people here falling
in love and making new lives together
or are we just a bunch of friends joking
and playing around together?.
Show me the Love Lady above


Here is the love..enough?

perpendicular's photo
Thu 12/22/11 09:10 AM
who really want's to die single we as humans are desinged geneticaly to be together, well atleast by parents who want you to get married and move out!!!

skywisper's photo
Thu 12/22/11 09:12 AM



Hey finding a mate has nothing to do with how you look, so looks mean nothing. I see ugly people married with lots of children every day.

I've seen a man with no arms, who drives a car, has a wife and kids, and signs checks with his feet.

I've seen Siamese twins who are attached to each other, each with a husband.

It is what is inside a person that makes them attractive and attracted to each other.

You have to take a good look at yourself. Know who you are.

Myself, I don't think I would make a very good traditional wife. I hate tradition and roll playing.

Besides, no one could put up with me.


you are an awesome lady who would be a wonderful wife for the right person, beanheadlaugh

a marriage or LTR doesn't have to fit any certain mold

heck I know of a married couple that live in a tent in the woods doing wildlife surveys (at least they did IDK if they still do)

that's hardly the traditional white pickett fence scenario

I think if you meet the right person , together you make it what u want it to be - doesn't matter what others do or think



Yes, you are right of course. It doesn't matter what others do or think.

I don't want someone just like me. I don't need someone just like me. I already have myself. :tongue:

I would need someone who compliments me.

It would be a man who takes care of the yard, does not mind housework, loves to cook etc.

The problem is, I don't know what I could bring to the table. I just want to be an artist.


Lol i am not sure i understand, you want a man to do the yard clean house and cook while you paint?.

no photo
Thu 12/22/11 09:20 AM
Lol i am not sure i understand, you want a man to do the yard clean house and cook while you paint?.



Well it can't all be mind blowing sex all the time. :tongue:

no photo
Thu 12/22/11 09:21 AM



The forums ARE the mingling part.

All i see is friendships here which is
wonderful,but are people here falling
in love and making new lives together
or are we just a bunch of friends joking
and playing around together?.
Show me the Love Lady above


Here is the love..enough?


Thats an awesome picture!!

skywisper's photo
Thu 12/22/11 09:30 AM

Lol i am not sure i understand, you want a man to do the yard clean house and cook while you paint?.



Well it can't all be mind blowing sex all the time. :tongue:
frustrated O my GOD.

skywisper's photo
Thu 12/22/11 09:31 AM



The forums ARE the mingling part.

All i see is friendships here which is
wonderful,but are people here falling
in love and making new lives together
or are we just a bunch of friends joking
and playing around together?.
Show me the Love Lady above


Here is the love..enough?
Thats real nice i am glad you found your love.

skywisper's photo
Thu 12/22/11 09:54 AM


live free ,= die singlefrustrated



What's wrong with dying single?
In my case dieing single is to die alone & i dont really want to die alone.

no photo
Thu 12/22/11 10:26 AM
I know it may sound like a cliché but give it time…from small acorns, big oak trees grow.

It may well be that you find love with someone that lives 1000’s of mile away but if that person turns out to be the love of your life, the distance won’t matter.

perpendicular's photo
Thu 12/22/11 11:47 AM
well nothing I guess....but ,.I'd rather go with someone ya'know so i joined one of those religous sects that beleive in mass suicide. They also have a great dental plan.bigsmile

navygirl's photo
Thu 12/22/11 11:55 AM


I gave up on the dating idea some time ago -- simple reality. There isn't anybody out there. But I love the site and the people, the friends I've made here and the conversations that go on here. I guess, in the end, there's more to life than dating....

I think your right but there has to be some one some where.


If the dating site isn't working; perhaps try some local community groups if you have them. We have a site here called Calgary meet up groups and its a great place to make new friends. It also could be a good way for you to meet some potentional new dates. Wishing you the best. flowerforyou

navygirl's photo
Thu 12/22/11 11:58 AM

who really want's to die single we as humans are desinged geneticaly to be together, well atleast by parents who want you to get married and move out!!!


I know for a fact that I will die single but I will be happy before I do. I don't buy into the tripe of genetics making us want to be together. You are born alone and will die alone.

Okami04's photo
Thu 12/22/11 12:03 PM
LOL not giving up on dating you meet people online so that you can meet them in person later , this should just be on of the many tools you use in life to meet girls bro.

Find a good nightlife scene to join or good social hobby , and use this as well. I find a lot of people online or scared to pull the triger to actually meet in person if your one of those people then the only person to blame is yourself for not finding someone.

also i recommend reading The Game by Neil Strauss hahahaha

I have had luck meeting girls on this site in person and I live in Asia bro


no photo
Thu 12/22/11 12:12 PM

By coming to forms evry day by passing the Dating site its self are we giving up on dating? are we taking a back set to the dating site area?.I feel like i have made some great friends here but i dont feel any closer to finding a mate some one to love,some one who's not 1000 miles away from me.We are all friends but we dont migle,so what are we doing?.


I haven't read all the responses, but why can't you use all parts of the site if you want?

There really aren't any locals on here, so I just stick around for the forums. Does that mean I'm giving up on dating? Of course not. This should not be the only way to meet people.

You're making an assumption that because you are here in the forums and not using the dating part of the site that everyone else here must be doing the same thing. Don't generalize based on your own actions.

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Thu 12/22/11 12:14 PM



I gave up on the dating idea some time ago -- simple reality. There isn't anybody out there. But I love the site and the people, the friends I've made here and the conversations that go on here. I guess, in the end, there's more to life than dating....

I think your right but there has to be some one some where.


If the dating site isn't working; perhaps try some local community groups if you have them. We have a site here called Calgary meet up groups and its a great place to make new friends. It also could be a good way for you to meet some potentional new dates. Wishing you the best. flowerforyou


Meetup groups are great. We have a lot around here, too.

no photo
Thu 12/22/11 12:18 PM


who really want's to die single we as humans are desinged geneticaly to be together, well atleast by parents who want you to get married and move out!!!


I know for a fact that I will die single but I will be happy before I do. I don't buy into the tripe of genetics making us want to be together. You are born alone and will die alone.


Some people never get past the idea of simple biology. We no more "need" to be with someone than we "need" to defecate in the neighbor's yard.


skywisper's photo
Thu 12/22/11 12:42 PM
Peeople of the earth can you hear me?,hmmm thats better lol.Now may i remind you that this is just a random guestion that ran through my brain last nite

This has nothing to do with the way i feel or look at any body here & i dont expect any one to look at me as if it were.Just look at the question and know body else and say how you feel,give your thought.

My question is the people up front spend most of there time looking for dates thats why they are here that would seem the most likely place to find a date.There are locals there i can pounch in San Antonio TX and bam there is 500 girls.

So why are we here? simple question, instead of up there thats where the dating to me starts.Back here it seems more people are just friends more then people looking for love.

skywisper's photo
Thu 12/22/11 12:43 PM



who really want's to die single we as humans are desinged geneticaly to be together, well atleast by parents who want you to get married and move out!!!


I know for a fact that I will die single but I will be happy before I do. I don't buy into the tripe of genetics making us want to be together. You are born alone and will die alone.


Some people never get past the idea of simple biology. We no more "need" to be with someone than we "need" to defecate in the neighbor's yard.


Thats to funny lollaugh laugh :laughing: :laughing:

no photo
Thu 12/22/11 12:45 PM
I never look for dates "up there." Mainly because "local" to me is still a few hundred miles away. At least 50 miles.

I would probably never date anyone from this town. I've actually seen a couple of guys I liked, but they were either married or dysfunctional or flawed.

no photo
Thu 12/22/11 12:47 PM
Also, dating is time consuming and expensive. It is time spend trying to get to know another person to see if you would sleep with them basically.

But in the forums, you can get to know a person at your leisure for free.