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I never look for dates "up there." Mainly because "local" to me is still a few hundred miles away. At least 50 miles. I would probably never date anyone from this town. I've actually seen a couple of guys I liked, but they were either married or dysfunctional or flawed. Good thing you are not desperate 
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Edited by
Jeanniebean
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Thu 12/22/11 12:55 PM
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I never look for dates "up there." Mainly because "local" to me is still a few hundred miles away. At least 50 miles. I would probably never date anyone from this town. I've actually seen a couple of guys I liked, but they were either married or dysfunctional or flawed. Good thing you are not desperate That's one thing I am not.... desperate for a man in my life. Some women seem to think they need a man in their life to feel good about themselves. P.S. By "flawed" I mean having a reputation of beating their wives or girlfriends. Cute and sexy don't last long if you are abusive. In a small town like this, there are very few secrets and lots of gossip. I don't gossip, but if I want to know anything I just ask any little old lady or little old man.  Or go to the hair dresser. |
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The couple doing wildlife surveys, is that the ones that got eaten by the Grizzly Bear?
 Hey finding a mate has nothing to do with how you look, so looks mean nothing. I see ugly people married with lots of children every day. I've seen a man with no arms, who drives a car, has a wife and kids, and signs checks with his feet. I've seen Siamese twins who are attached to each other, each with a husband. It is what is inside a person that makes them attractive and attracted to each other. You have to take a good look at yourself. Know who you are. Myself, I don't think I would make a very good traditional wife. I hate tradition and roll playing. Besides, no one could put up with me. you are an awesome lady who would be a wonderful wife for the right person, beanhead a marriage or LTR doesn't have to fit any certain mold heck I know of a married couple that live in a tent in the woods doing wildlife surveys (at least they did IDK if they still do) that's hardly the traditional white pickett fence scenario I think if you meet the right person , together you make it what u want it to be - doesn't matter what others do or think |
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I never look for dates "up there." Mainly because "local" to me is still a few hundred miles away. At least 50 miles. I would probably never date anyone from this town. I've actually seen a couple of guys I liked, but they were either married or dysfunctional or flawed. .Hell i'm 50 years old not 20 lol you need a young man lol.
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Also, dating is time consuming and expensive. It is time spend trying to get to know another person to see if you would sleep with them basically. But in the forums, you can get to know a person at your leisure for free. Freaking eloquent. |
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Also, dating is time consuming and expensive. It is time spend trying to get to know another person to see if you would sleep with them basically. But in the forums, you can get to know a person at your leisure for free. Freaking eloquent. I Love Her.... 
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I don't really give up on dating. I'm always open to whatever on and offline. Though I think most guys are scared to approach women in person and so the internet is always the best way to pass some of those nerves. But I wouldn't say I've given up. Though it feels like that some days when I come across terrible people in life
I take in stride mostly.
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krupa
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Thu 12/22/11 04:03 PM
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Just read through this thang....gotta point out a couple things....
Everyone gives up sometime or other. I did. When the right one comes along...all the hopeless futility goes right out the window and you feel like a kid again. Mingling and making real friendships based on your actual thoughts and personalities is a GREAT basis to lead to an actual relationship......sure beats meeting someone and a month later you are shacked up and a year later you are regretting it. I have spent alot of time here. Then I spent a solid year yapping with Soufie before I decided to take the chance and let myself be loved by her. Then, we continued to talk for another year before we actually met. Rome wasn't built in a day. It is easy to get frustrated but, rushing into a relationship just cause you don't want to be lonely is just fkn retarded. If someone is willing to settle for not being lonely....go pick up some drunken skank at your local dive. (she will be the one half drunk at 11 a.m.) ...who knows..it might work and could lead to a lifetime of happiness......But, my bet is three months later you will be blaming your penis for leading you astray while you think "I was better off Mingling" |
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Edited by
Jeanniebean
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Thu 12/22/11 04:04 PM
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Just read through this thang....gotta point out a couple things.... Everyone gives up sometime or other. I did. When the right one comes along...all the hopeless futility goes right out the window and you feel like a kid again. Mingling and making real friendships based on your actual thoughts and personalities is a GREAT basis to lead to an actual relationship......sure beats meeting someone and a month later you are shacked up and a year later you are regretting it. I have spent alot of time here. Then I spent a solid year yapping with Soufie before I decided to take the chance and let myself be loved by her. Then, we continued to talk for another year before we actually met. Rome wasn't built in a day. It is easy to get frustrated but, rushing into a relationship just cause you don't want to be lonely is just fkn retarded. If someone is willing to settle for not being lonely....go pick up some drunken skank at your local dive. (she will be the one half drunk at 11 a.m.) ...who knows..it might work and could lead to a lifetime of happiness......But, my bet is three months later you will be blaming your penis for leading you astray while you think "I was better off Mingling"  You have such a great way of expressing yourself. Love it!!
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Edited by
Jeanniebean
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Thu 12/22/11 04:15 PM
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I never look for dates "up there." Mainly because "local" to me is still a few hundred miles away. At least 50 miles. I would probably never date anyone from this town. I've actually seen a couple of guys I liked, but they were either married or dysfunctional or flawed. .Hell i'm 50 years old not 20 lol you need a young man lol. I was kidding about the sex. Now you know why I am not the marrying kind. I also don't relish sweating over a hot stove, cooking and washing dishes or sweeping floors while my hubby sits on the couch flipping channels. If I were rich, I might have a maid, but alas, I'm not rich. I told you I wasn't the marrying kind. I don't have much to bring to the table, and I would make your life a living hell. I'm not a lazy person, don't get me wrong. I'm a creative person who works like a dog taking care of my Mom and Dad. Today I shoveled snow so I can walk to the store and get groceries. Everyone is snowed in here. My favorite thing to do is watch Net flix until wee hours in the morning. |
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Edited by
Jeanniebean
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Thu 12/22/11 04:14 PM
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Also, dating is time consuming and expensive. It is time spend trying to get to know another person to see if you would sleep with them basically. But in the forums, you can get to know a person at your leisure for free. I have not have the good fortune to share this experience. Too often, I have found that I can be attracted to someones typing persona, while, in person, the chemistry is a dud. I think 'getting to know someone' online is not at all 'getting to know anyone'. Not speaking of deception, just of differences in how we 'present'. Deception is an issue too, but thats a whole other concern for us all. I really need to 'get to know them' all over again in real life if I was interested by our written exchanges. Just my personal experience. This is probably why I like to meet fairly soon, and why I dont find building a relationship/friendship online first to be more efficient. Long distance relationships are different, as long as there is meeting in person on occasion of course. Oh I agree that chemistry upon meeting is crucial. But I have had great chemistry with someone .... then found out later that his values, politics and religion were unacceptable for compatibility. I don't think people need to agree on everything, but maybe on the important things... they should be on the same page. I would never date a company man. LOL People who know me, know what I'm talking about.  (That would be someone who spouts propaganda from the Company Bible.) |
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Just read through this thang....gotta point out a couple things.... Everyone gives up sometime or other. I did. When the right one comes along...all the hopeless futility goes right out the window and you feel like a kid again. Mingling and making real friendships based on your actual thoughts and personalities is a GREAT basis to lead to an actual relationship......sure beats meeting someone and a month later you are shacked up and a year later you are regretting it. I have spent alot of time here. Then I spent a solid year yapping with Soufie before I decided to take the chance and let myself be loved by her. Then, we continued to talk for another year before we actually met. Rome wasn't built in a day. It is easy to get frustrated but, rushing into a relationship just cause you don't want to be lonely is just fkn retarded. If someone is willing to settle for not being lonely....go pick up some drunken skank at your local dive. (she will be the one half drunk at 11 a.m.) ...who knows..it might work and could lead to a lifetime of happiness......But, my bet is three months later you will be blaming your penis for leading you astray while you think "I was better off Mingling" Krupa I thought you of all people would understand that this is just a question i am only the deliver of the question it has nothing to do with me its for the fun of it its just entertainment bro lol.Iv been on these dating sites for years i serenely know what there capable of & not capable of doing.Its just a question lol for every one to take a shot at i wish you people would quit shooting in my direction. |
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sky, ol bean, the krupisode was speaking to all the posts he's read. Only meant as encouragement Im certain. We all wind up throwin a bit of 2 cents on the table. Its not necessarily intended for the original poster. |
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sky, ol bean, the krupisode was speaking to all the posts he's read. Only meant as encouragement Im certain. We all wind up throwin a bit of 2 cents on the table. Its not necessarily intended for the original poster. Yes, I got a lot out of Krupa's post and philosophy on the subject.. he is a strait talker. It was not written for you personally, but simply about the subject. It was for whom ever. |
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Krupa I thought you of all people would understand that this is just a question i am only the deliver of the question it has nothing to do with me its for the fun of it its just entertainment bro lol.Iv been on these dating sites for years i serenely know what there capable of & not capable of doing.Its just a question lol for every one to take a shot at i wish you people would quit shooting in my direction. .....Dude...my penis typed it while I was having dinner. Stop screaming at me. (crying like a five year old girl with an owwwwie) |
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Krupa I thought you of all people would understand that this is just a question i am only the deliver of the question it has nothing to do with me its for the fun of it its just entertainment bro lol.Iv been on these dating sites for years i serenely know what there capable of & not capable of doing.Its just a question lol for every one to take a shot at i wish you people would quit shooting in my direction. .....Dude...my penis typed it while I was having dinner. Stop screaming at me. (crying like a five year old girl with an owwwwie) |
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sky, ol bean, the krupisode was speaking to all the posts he's read. Only meant as encouragement Im certain. We all wind up throwin a bit of 2 cents on the table. Its not necessarily intended for the original poster. Yes, I got a lot out of Krupa's post and philosophy on the subject.. he is a strait talker. It was not written for you personally, but simply about the subject. It was for whom ever.
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