You didn't cook him breakfast.

And serve it to him in bed.

That's a big red flag IMO.

Roberta??? Who is this man??? I have many male friends who would love you and send you gifts for doing this. Come to southern California. I will set you up with many good looking men who appreciate you and would pay for the drinks.

It really is, maybe he's used to clingy women?

Doesn't sound too bad imo. Maybe he's not into modern women who know what they want and go out and get it?!

Awesome answer!

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If you never saw him again, then that wasn't a date. That was you wanting to get laid. I consider a date a stepping stone to getting to know someone more. Not to bag them and then leave.

''Whats your perfect one night stand'' Just my 2 cents.

Whoever asks pays, end of story.

Men use women way more than the other way around so this is rare. But I don't see what's so wrong about it. Clearly he wanted more, again a rarity.

I want Luv2 for MY girlfriend!!

A perfect date is pretty much anything outside of a Nascar race where I'm with someone I enjoy. It's really all about the company...not the activity.

Going out with any guy who is fun and does not say things so creepy that I have me mention my friend the MP down the street or the my friend Kevin in jail for robbery has friends on the outside who will kick the guy's azz for saying horrible obscene things to me to make him leave.

Yet you are on here as single? How does that happen to guys with good answers like that???

I dunno. Just stating my opinion. I was just giving her a hard time. No pun intended...lol

I think shes a pretty awesome chick. I dont hold peeps for their past mistakes or lil oppsies...Unless its too terrible.

I bring her a half-dozen red roses and some chocolate dipped strawberries. If she doesn't want the movie scene we can zip on down to 6 Flags, or go to Speedzone go-karts. During the day we could walk in the botanical gardens and feed fish, or go to Dallas World Aquarium. I pay for everything (I asked her out, right?) and we end with at least a hug.

Is it okay that all through high school I was under the protection of a drug king pin and dated a Russian drug cartel gunman all before 20??? I reformed in 1991.

Dang I knew there was a reason I like Texans!!!

(((((Old Hippie1952)))))

yep perfect lol

wow,,did I need THAT date,,,,,

As there can NEVER be a perfect anything,,,lol

I would think, for me to be impressively seen by her.
I wouldn't have asked her out in the first place,,

OK,,I would have asked her out for dinner,,and somewhere I had some knowledge of their staff,,and could have set some things up..
I would arrive with flowers,,and she would invite me in,,as she and I would hug,,Then she would put the flowers in a vase..And we'd be into small talk and compliments as we drove to the restaurant,,With me opening every door so far for her,,and upon arriving,,that same..
Entering,,we would be seated,, as we would be sitting at the ONLY table their with a colorful table cloth and candles already burning.
She would be looking around and gathering her thoughts to ask me,,Hey,,wait a minute,,why is our table the only one with candles,,YOU had this done didn't you,,,as my smirks would surely give me away,,as I would teasingly respond by saying,,I have no idea what your talking about..(with a big look away smile on my face) She would then say,,,I'm sure,,,a-huh,,,,(her smile showing me she was deleted)
NOW,,we get approached by four of their staff,,with two glasses and a bottle of wine,,as they sing Happy Birthday to her,,,EVEN though me knowing its NOT her Birthday,,,and as she tries to tell me,,I refuse to listen as I'm ignoring her to see and hear them sing to her,,as I then join in,,as they finished,,the rest of the room gives a big applause,,and I put my hand on hers and tell her,,I know it wasn't your birthday,,but I MISSED yours and thought you may like to relive it once more as if we were together then...she just ohhhhh,,your so sweet as she leans into me for a sweet little kiss,,
We eat and joke as the staff all tells their secrets on me,,and she gives me that fire in her eyes stare,,with a sexy smirk..
Eating light and then off to a club down the road for some dancing.
As she had told me she loved to dance,,we were on for the dance.
The place,,half full,,and after ordering our drinks,,and seated,,we talk about dancing a bit,,and asking her what she enjoyed doing in the way of dancing,,and as a song came on she was excited about,,we hit the dance floor with everyone else,,as we dance away,,The song was by Black Cherry,,so it was fast and cool,,as it rolled over into a softer song,,I pull her close as her eyes meet mine and we swirl to the song as I lead her every move spinning her out and back to me,,gliding alone as we laugh and she mentions I've done this before huh?,,Many giggles and flaws, and drinks later,,,,we've shared some small kisses.
She now looks at me as we're seated,leans into me and lays a hell of a long lip lock on me,,,I mention its kind-of late,,and if she was ready to go yet,,as she tells me she was ready after the first dance,,to take me home and rape me..we go out to the car in a laughing wobbly way,,Opening her door,, we fall into another kiss,,,acting a bit timid and excuse myself away,,I said I do need to drive yet,,lol
Her hand on mine for most of the way,,as we kiss at the long stops..
Then arriving back at her place,,,
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THAT,,would be one thought of a close to perfect date,,in my thoughts..

Well, Would start with a perfectly made meal, wine or what the person drinks. Enjoy the meal with some good conversation. Then maybe take a nice walk after dinner. Come back have a little more cocktails watch a movie. Then after that what happens, happens.