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My idea of the perfect first date? Expenses (where applicable): It's my unwritten rule (this is how I was raised) that the man pays for everything on the date, unless it is stated and agreed to otherwise (i.e. she tells me that she doesn't feel comfortable about not contributing). Location: Somewhere public where we both feel comfortable, as well as being relatively quiet so that the two of us can talk. A coffee shop or book store (or a book store with a coffee shop in it) would be ideal. Topics of Discussion: I'm fairly certain that this one is a fairly common one, and it's pretty much everything and anything that both I and my date feel comfortable discussing, except for controversial or heated issues (politics, abortion, that kind of thing. And that's my idea of a perfect date. And I'm new to the forum area of the site, though I joined the actual main site awhile ago. 
its nice to know what a man really wants for a change. And advocates it too. Nothing more attractive. Just be H O N E S T. Thank you. I guess the best classification for my line of thinking is "Old School". Of course...that doesn't work in every area of life (the current cultural atmosphere in the US doesn't help), but this seems to be an exception. Times have changed. Sadly most men haven't even considered those things let alone put any in action. We live in a fast-paced society now. Everything is digital and things are done in a matter a seconds, sometimes people lose interest that quickly too. 
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its nice to know what a man really wants for a change. And advocates it too. Nothing more attractive. Just be H O N E S T. Thank you. I guess the best classification for my line of thinking is "Old School". Of course...that doesn't work in every area of life (the current cultural atmosphere in the US doesn't help), but this seems to be an exception. Times have changed. Sadly most men haven't even considered those things let alone put any in action. We live in a fast-paced society now. Everything is digital and things are done in a matter a seconds, sometimes people lose interest that quickly too.
Please, don't say the word "digital". It makes me think of the digital photography equipment that I used to have which I loved dearly. 
Getting back on track, though, I would say that it's more like "a great deal of" rather than "most" men. And I lost my train of thought so I guess I'll stop here. |
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Whats your idea of the "perfect" first date. 
I went out with a guy once, and we went to dinner, I payed, we went to a dance club, I bought all the drinks, we went back to his place, danced to some slow music, did the "big nasty", and I didnt cry,  and I was gone before he woke up.
Now I would think that I was the perfect first date, but he called me, when he woke up, and said I made him feel cheap, and used. 
I thought only women did that? 
Tell me what you think would be your "perfect" first date?
Where do you live and when can I call you? |
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Id love a date where a guy takes the time to think a place we are both of us would enjoy maybe a movie we both like a art gallery and cofee shop something like that just a nice quiet place to get to know eachother.
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Id love a date where a guy takes the time to think a place we are both of us would enjoy maybe a movie we both like a art gallery and cofee shop something like that just a nice quiet place to get to know eachother.
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Edited by
wux
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Thu 12/22/11 04:22 AM
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Tell me what you think would be your "perfect" first date? Dinner, quite little French restaurant famous for its wine and wriggling raw tree-slugs, then a little dancing in a little black dress, going back to her place (so the drink dishes are hers to warsh), laughing at Kant's categorical imperative and the funny way it looks, making big googlie eyes at the illustriations in Aristotle's "Metaphysics", standing in attention and saluting during the "internationale", and before bed, both of us flossing and getting into a heated mock-argument over who was the better: Hume or Homer or the other way around. Doing the horizontal salto, and slumbering off to some Enya or Dark Side of The Moon, quietly whispering sweet nuttin's into each other's ears, amidst lip-nibblin' some earlobes, and staring at the ceiling with a smile in our guts, smokign ciggies, and thinking how good it is that Shoppenhauer's thesis of Humbert Collage was refuted by Hegel big time, coz Spinoza couldn't have uncover the Galillean prinicle of "run or don't run" defence in his five-volume tome on the analysis of Machiavelli's cook book that was handed down to him from his grandmother's pet canary. |
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creativity but Im not hight maintentance, I can enjoy the cliche dinner and a movie, but I really appreciate a night that is more creative and personal to my dates interests like, mini golf if they are a golfer a church event if they are a christian live band if they are a musician,,,etc,,,etc,,etc,,, MsHarmony, you are so sweet. What could you do with an atheist Satan-worshipper, whose interest lay in mediaeval torture-devices and eating live, raw, furry and cute little animals right from the box? Without ketchup. |
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Whats your idea of the "perfect" first date.
I went out with a guy once, and we went to dinner, I payed, we went to a dance club, I bought all the drinks, we went back to his place, danced to some slow music, did the "big nasty", and I didnt cry, and I was gone before he woke up.
Now I would think that I was the perfect first date, but he called me, when he woke up, and said I made him feel cheap, and used. Why, oh why, why did you not remind him to use "Shlruptz" for disinfecting his bedsheets, coz that invigorates the mind and creates a happy household; or serve "Crumplicettes" for breakfast, the kids love that cereal, and it makes any American household instantly happy and galvanized, even the big schlumpy sheep dog. Tell him next time to floss with "Dr. Stribblener's authentic American strings" manufactured by Chinese slave labour, and then do some mental flossing, too, it will clean out the emotional cobwebs and help prevent decay of the mind. If you did not see any "Grugglegumprel's Toilet Bowl Cleaner", then if I were you I would send over a gift basket of toilet bowl cleaners, sink uncloggers, and toilet pumps to brighten up his morning and feel less neglected. |
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Why, oh why, why did you not remind him to use "Shlruptz" for disinfecting his bedsheets, coz that invigorates the mind and creates a happy household  :sniff:
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Tell me what you think would be your "perfect" first date? Dinner, quite little French restaurant famous for its wine and wriggling raw tree-slugs, then a little dancing in a little black dress, going back to her place (so the drink dishes are hers to warsh), laughing at Kant's categorical imperative and the funny way it looks, making big googlie eyes at the illustriations in Aristotle's "Metaphysics", standing in attention and saluting during the "internationale", and before bed, both of us flossing and getting into a heated mock-argument over who was the better: Hume or Homer or the other way around. Doing the horizontal salto, and slumbering off to some Enya or Dark Side of The Moon, quietly whispering sweet nuttin's into each other's ears, amidst lip-nibblin' some earlobes, and staring at the ceiling with a smile in our guts, smokign ciggies, and thinking how good it is that Shoppenhauer's thesis of Humbert Collage was refuted by Hegel big time, coz Spinoza couldn't have uncover the Galillean prinicle of "run or don't run" defence in his five-volume tome on the analysis of Machiavelli's cook book that was handed down to him from his grandmother's pet canary.
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If you did not see any "Grugglegumprel's Toilet Bowl Cleaner", then if I were you I would send over a gift basket of toilet bowl cleaners, sink uncloggers, and toilet pumps to brighten up his morning and feel less neglected.
Now, I just hit the floor!
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